Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

We've been together for a year and he was nothing but loyal and loving... He's always horny & embarks on some wild stuff... But he wants to make a video of which I'm not really sure... It's not that I do not trust him but I'm afraid he might use it to my disadvantage? Do you think so?

2007-10-22 07:19:09 · 37 answers · asked by Hwang_Jini21 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend gets mad when we go out and I flirt. It's just how I am. It doesn't mean I am attracted to them. I like the attention I get from them. I have never cheated and never will. Is it wrong that I flirt?

2007-10-22 07:16:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Singles & Dating

Wife is now on her 2nd Rabbitt (the new improved cordless one). Seen it, watched her use it, used it on her. I agree, no man could possibly compete with this thing...it's awesome!
Question is.... is there any topping this creation. Any new toys on the market that can replace the Rabbitt as #1?

2007-10-22 07:16:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this chick likes me says she wants to date me but doesnt ask me out sadly me and this girl have had feelings for each other for a good 2 years, yea and she told my friend if i would talk to her more she would date me funny thing is she likes to kiss on random girls and stare at me when she does what do u think this mean ??? HELP!!!

2007-10-22 07:15:51 · 4 answers · asked by Lifted Trucks N Dirty Sluts 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...im been dating this guy for the past 1.5 years, we have been through a lot and ive done so much for him but i feel like he takes me for granted...he says i expect too much from him but all i do is try to improve the relationship..i love him so much and i dont want to loose him because of our differences but then again i feel like theres no hope for us in the future...we have broken up a few times and end up geting bak together..i am seriously fed up with his selfishness and immaturaty...i know i can often be too bossy. should i let it go or try?

2007-10-22 07:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by prettymami714 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have liked this boy since the 3rd day of school, and we're going on a couple of months at school now, and we have gotton to be really good friends. A few weeks ago he told me he liked me, then asked out one of my friends. I was reallllyyyy mad at him for that, but he gave a very long apology, and reluctantly, I accepted it.
Then a couple days ago, we were on myspace, and he asked me out, and I said yea, sure. Then he wouldn't talk to me for a couple days, so I had a friend ask him what was wrong since I didn't know his phone number. He told her that he never asked me out, and doesn't want a girlfriend right now....
But he did ask me out, I have the messages to prove it...and I'm starting to believe that he is just not even worth my liking him anymore, because if he is just not going to give me a straight answer, then he is not worth it, but I'm not completly sure of my judgement.

From what you know, what do you think, should I try to save out friendship, & out relationship??

2007-10-22 07:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by kindyxkandy 2 in Singles & Dating

k here it goes.. this weekend we had my brothers wifes baby shower to go to.. my sister thought it would be a good idea if we all went up together in my van.. she said she knew how to get there because she used to work up near there. so when we started out i said okay what way do we go... she said she know how to get there so. as it turned out almost an hour into driving she had the road all wrong and we went the wrong way. mind you we had a printed out map that was provied for us. she was looking for hunting pike but what we wanted was hunting rd. well that was a real pain in the ***. minf you i wanted to leave at 1pm to give up a good amount of time just incase something like this were to happen and IT DID! the shower started at 2 by the way.
i pulled over and asked someone where hunting rd was and we had to turn back around and go the other way. i was not happy but didnt say anything. then my sister yells there there it is turn so i turned ral fast and she flipped out on me

2007-10-22 07:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by sue s 2 in Family

I THINK WHITE GUYS ARE BECOMING SO ATTRACTIVE TO ME LATELY AND THEY ARE BECOMING MORE FLIRTATIOUS TOWARDS ME AND SO AM I! BUT... I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH THEM OR PICK THEM UP.. I MEAN THEY FLIRT WITH ME OR TELL ME IM BEAUTIFUL BUT I JUST GET SO SHY THAT I MISS MY CHANCE OF GOING ON A DATE OR SOMETHIN WITH THEM. ITS SO EASY FOR ME TO PICK UP A BLACK GUY BUT I WONDER HOW TO PICK UP A WHITE GUY.. I DONT KNOW HOW TO ACT OR THE RIGHT THINGS TO SAY ASSUMING THERE MAY BE A DIFFERENCE IN SEDUCING DIFFERENT RACES.. BUT PLZ HELP!

2007-10-22 07:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by MIZZ K 2 in Singles & Dating

I knew he had a problem but hope he would quit and I would be a positive influence which I am. But it has been two years and he will not quit or hasn't yet. Help?

2007-10-22 07:13:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was thinking of joining a site in order to meet people while sober. Always too drunk on weekends to remember what face came with what number... it's getting annoying.

And plz, no "stop drinking" bull. I can't help it... weekend alcoholic... lol

2007-10-22 07:12:11 · 13 answers · asked by Cort870 2 in Singles & Dating

What month is the best to get married in? March, April or May?? And why?

2007-10-22 07:12:09 · 21 answers · asked by Jessica K 2 in Weddings

My husband and I have known each other for 10 years. We have two beautiful children and he haves 4 other children from a previous relationship.(Thank God 3 of them are grown now.)But sometimes, He comes home with a terrible attitude. I try to talk to him but all he says is he's tired or leave him alone. I think he's taking to much responsiblities because he doesn't let me pay bills. I can't get a credit card, buy my own car and i don't think the house is in my name. I feel really nieve for letting my husband control me. And now, I feel I helpless. Right now, I am staying for the kids. But I'm feeling frustrated. Does anybody have any advice for me please?

2007-10-22 07:10:20 · 28 answers · asked by CA4luv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my husband for 3 years. We recently just seperated for a month and a half but are back together now. While we were seperated we were both with other people. Now, he wants to have a baby with me. I think he thinks if I'm pregnant I won't leave again or that no one will want me. Oh, by the way the girl he was with when we were seperated got pregnant with his baby and had a miscarriage.

2007-10-22 07:10:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know what it is but i feel like i have to force myself sometime b4 even getting to know them because they wanna kiss i feel like i "have" to do it. i dont know but i think i have to be liking them a lot and in the mood to go there...do you feel the same?

2007-10-22 07:09:27 · 18 answers · asked by M 9 boobies 1 in Singles & Dating

I apologize for posting a similar question earlier, but it wasn't worded properly and I got a lot of unwanted responses. Here's one slightly rephrased. I deleted the other question.

The following people are all invited to the wedding, but I am thinking of inviting them to my bachelor party:

1. my father

2. the minister--I don't plan on having strippers at all, but I do plan on drinking at a bar/club. He's of a denomination that doesn't condemn drinking.

3. future-father-in-law

4. uncles of the bride (whom I hardly know)

5. cousins of the bride (whom I hardly know)

6. male significant other of female friend for 12 years (well acquainted with but not in the wedding party)

7. Husbands of my bride's friends (whom I hardly know)

8. Significant other of my bride's friend (met only once but we clicked, certain he's coming to the wedding as my bride's friend's date)

2007-10-22 07:07:31 · 23 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Weddings

when i talk with any body i look to either any Part of the body of the Person other than the face(esPecialy the eyes) or i look to other things time and again.and this totaly destroys the continuity of the convesation.For this reason my boses have always susicious view over me,though i am the most innocent person in the world,realy.so brothers &sisters i need your help

2007-10-22 07:04:51 · 1 answers · asked by fila 1 in Singles & Dating

I read that I'm doing everything correctly and 'prescribed' but he's not responding to any of it. How come I'm trying so hard and he doesn't? When I don't try, the same happens. Catch 22. He knows I'm unhappy with the quality of our relationship, I told him- "I'm unhappy with the quality of our relationship."
WTF already?!

2007-10-22 07:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my ex-girlfriend for 4 years from 2002-2006. Even though my love for her was unquestionable, I just didnt marry her, just got scared about it. She wanted to get married, and I always told her that we would "soon." I never was with another girl, just thought things were great as they were and I knew in time I would marry this girl. Well, all of the sudden she told me in December that she was tired of waiting and that she didnt want to "waste her life waiting for me and false promises." She reconnected with some friend she had and they got maried 4 months later in April. I was and am still DEVASTATED. I love this girl deeply, I cant believe she did this!! I told her to marry me instead when I found out about it, but she said it was "too late." Since this time, she has called/email a bunch of times telling me she prefers to be with me and made a mistake. But, she cant see herself getting divorced bcs. she would hurt him and herself. Anything I can do?Will she be happy?

2007-10-22 07:03:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i did ask this before but didnt get many answers and its really playing on my mind.

There is this girl, She first caught my eye on here and she is the most fantastic girl anyone could ever wish to meet.

shes funny, charming, beautiful sexy and more. she is the most stuningly beautiful woman i have ever ever met.

whats the problem? well we have been sending texts to and fro, she has just had triplets, not mine, they were born at 22 weeks and are in intensive care. i want so much to go and see her to support her but she had a terrible time with her ex and i think sometimes she holds me back because of it.

her ex was a dog and a pathetic excuse for a man.

how can i convince her that im not like him and i would like to get to know her and support her?

the whole situation is making me go slowly crazy.

Please DONT tell me to run away and completely forget her because she has just had triplets because im not that shallow a man.

2007-10-22 07:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy who seems to be in a very weird violent relationship..on and off. she is so mean to him and he is just a sweetheart. always nice and polite..i just dont get what he sees in her...i mean is the sex really that great or something? anyway just wondering would he leave her if he knew what kind of a great girl i am? how do i show him???? plz help?

2007-10-22 07:02:09 · 30 answers · asked by M 9 boobies 1 in Singles & Dating

the name of my big love is gary w. davis

2007-10-22 07:00:51 · 5 answers · asked by Weltretterin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have not been friends for a while now and that is because she is always putting me down and spreading lies about my relationship. (she has met my fiance one time at a holiday party). Other co-workers say she is jelous because her boy friend is 14 years older than her( she's is her 30's) and he wont marry her. She is always copying me too, when I got engaged she said that she was going to upgrade her ring for a wedding set? (she is NOT engaged). Please help! is it ok to invite other co-workers and not her? And if you have any advise on how to deal with her when she is being a B****!

2007-10-22 07:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Curious..how do you get the big O during the act....meaning do either of you reach down to help things along, a toy, you on top, etc..?

2007-10-22 06:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married on Dec. 1rst of this year...really quick to the man of my dreams. I want to have a winter wonderland wedding in either a church or somewhere with a fire place. Anyone have any suggestions about decor or where or have any experience on this time of the year weddings? Im running out of time and need answers quick! Please help!

2007-10-22 06:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been with the same girl for 8 years now and have finally bought a ring. We both decide to wait until we were done with college and had a chance to save some money before we got married so we could afford a nice ceremony and reception. Well with that being said, it's no secret I'm going to propose (we both finished up school this spring and landed jobs soon after) so I am looking for a fun creative way to do so. I have been pitched many ideas already, but none "jump out" at me, so please dig deep down into that imagination and share your ideas with me! Ladies, how would you like to be proposed to? Keep in mind, I am a very unique individual and do not want anything too cliche or overused. Thanks fort the help!

2007-10-22 06:52:58 · 24 answers · asked by noyb 2 in Weddings

2007-10-22 06:52:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean seriously? These two girls act like your friends and then they run their mouth about you because you become friends with another girl that you have more in common with than them. They about to get beat??

2007-10-22 06:51:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy keep asking me if he can lick my foot and i dont know what to say...please help !!

2007-10-22 06:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

simmillar manner has any one else made this observation too?

2007-10-22 06:50:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is this?? since i was 15 i have been having these lines under my eyes....is this because of lack of sleep or what is it....i look alot older cuz of it as well.....people think im 25,26 now

2007-10-22 06:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by Reza davids 2 in Singles & Dating