Apparently it happened when she was 20, just out of a long term relationship. I'm not sure how old he was. They were friends - he initiated it, but she did not pull away. It lasted for about a year, and he ended up breaking her heart. Later, he apparently cheated on his wife again later and they got divorced.
She was a bit nervous about telling me this because she is embarrased about it and it's not a part of her life that she's proud of. I guess wanted to be honest with me, which I appreciate. We've only being going out for a couple of weeks, and I am really fond of her [she's now 25 to my 26].
I told her that I would need to think about it, but that I would probably be okay with it. The truth of the matter is that it bothers me. I know the past is the past, but I view infedility as highly immoral, and altho it wasn't her betraying someone's trust directly, she was part of the equation. I feel dirty when I think about it, and was just hoping for a little guidance. Anyone?
2007-10-22
07:21:55
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