we have sex everyday but she wants me to be rich very soon & then she will marry me.
i love her. i think she also wants me to be her life partner.
she seems to be immature as she takes suggestions from her friends.
i dont want to lose her so i keep saying yes to whatever she says.
PLEASE ADVISE
i want her as my life partner
2007-10-22 07:25:35 · 50 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants you to be rich? sounds more than a bit odd to me. Stick with it she is immature now, but in 2-3 years she may grow up.
2007-10-22 07:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have "sex" every day does not mean your are in love or right for each other.... wanting someone to be rich before they agree to marriage is kinda of selfish if you ask me... sure money helps any marriage but its not the root of its success... you saying yes to everything does not help either... you need to have thoughts and a mind of your own. I am sure there were times when you knew you should have said no about something and you said yes just to make her happy. No one wants a yes man as a life partner... at least if they are honest with them self they don't.... you end up missing out on so much in life. I think its time you take the time to really look at the relationship above and beyond the sex level.
2007-10-22 07:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel. It sounds like she wants everything you have but is stuck on the financial part. This may seem selfish but she may just be trying to make sure that money doesn't come in between the two of you in the future. Women always listen to advice from their friends and will probably continue to do so after they are married. If you love her and want her to be your life partner then you have to accept the good with the bad. Make sure that you are both an equal partner in the relationship and that you both make compromises when there needs to be. Good luck and God bless
2007-10-22 07:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by karaokediva1960 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life
You are not going to be rich soon unless you are waiting for an inheritance or win the lottery.
Women always listen to their friends and try to run your life like they claim to their friends.
She wants you for a life partner as long as you can afford her then she will become someone else's life partner.
Get married now so you can use both of your income and credit (if any) to buy the house, car and all that other stuff that you think rich people have.
2007-10-22 07:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by RomeoMike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just as immature as she is by having to ask this question. Class needs no introduction. I think you could both use a bit more class. Life partner? Does this mean marriage? I'm really sorry she has to define her love by using dollar signs. I don't think money will change anything except make the problems more expensive. Move on. You already have the milk; get a new cow.
2007-10-22 07:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget purses! lol Tell her how you truly feel sometimes we get so caught up with the hype and don't realize how ridiculous we sound or look talk to her just like you are talking to us and if she cant be mature enough to have a heart to heart I suggest u move on b/c it will only get worse and you might start doing any and everything to please her and neglect yourself and when you cant come through she will leave you high and dry and to be honest baby you are lusting your head s in the clouds explore try out some new nookie and you just might like it it seems she have u p whooped and get a partner with a head on her shoulder a leader not follower that is ridicules of her to say she want you to become rich that should let you know that she is a SILLY YOUNG Lazy gold digger she don't know what she wants and it seems like she is playing on you open your eyes!!
2007-10-22 07:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man needs sex to feel loved, whereas a woman needs to feel loved to have sex. This is the general rule in relationships. She obviously feels that love alone isn't enough, she needs wealth to feel secure. Maybe it's the way she grew up that makes her put money as esuch a priority. It isn't bad to want to be finacially secure, but you will have to weigh up if this is realistically going to be a long term relationship?
Are you going to ever be rich, do you want to be with someone that will only be with you if you are rich, or can you persuade her that what you have is far more important than any amount of money?
Good luck figuring it out. I hop it goes the way you want!
2007-10-22 07:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by Watsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be honest with her! Girls like it best when you actually discuss things with them, because it is very easy to misinterpret us!! By the sounds of it, if she wants you to be rich she either wants you to succeed in life or just wants some cash when shes married. I don't think thats the right reason for her to want to marry you just because you have money. You're saying shes immature, so she may not be ready for the commitment yet and therefore is trying to hold things back and make you query marriage. You can't let her have her own way all the time, don't say yes all the time, you've got to be honest with her.
2007-10-22 07:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Lauz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rich is rich enough to get married? Right now she wants you to be rich. What will it be tomorrow? Sounds like she wants to mold you into her way of wanting things. Not a good start. You both sound very young. If she is your life partner it will happen, but don't force the issue.
2007-10-22 07:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry it sounds like shes tagging along till some rich bloke comes along if you don't get rich soon .I cant tell if shes only joking of course but if you think she is shallow you should tell her how you feel, sometimes love really blinds you and you think shes "the one "but shes not if she treats you like that.How does anyone know if they're gonna get rich soon?As a woman I don't think she wants to marry you.Sorry you sound like a nice guy lots of women would love to have such a devoted man.
2007-10-22 07:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gemini7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋