I just found out this past weekend she's dating again. It felt like my heart had just jumped out of my body and a semi truck ran over it. You know it will eventually happen, but I didn't want to know about. It crushes me inside and I've been feeling lousy since. I want her to be happy, but it kills me she with another guy. She broke up with me 9 months ago. I still think about her everyday, but I haven't talked to her in at least 6 months. This has to be the worst feeling man can feel. Just imagining a other guy with her makes me absoultly sick to my stomach.
2007-10-22 07:43:35 · 27 answers · asked by joejoe66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your still in love with her to me.
2007-10-22 07:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by TC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you are at and have been there too many times. You need to get out and find someone else. That will take your mind off her. If that doesn't work then maybe you should tell your ex how you really feel about her. If anything it could give you some closure. Do things to keep your mind off her. I like to listen to music loud and let the music take me away somewhere relaxing. The best thing to do though is to go wild. Go find you another woman, one that will treat you better than her.
2007-10-22 07:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by blowinsmoke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got 2 choices - either tell her that you've been thinking about her a lot and see how she responds, or move on with your life. Over time, we do tend to look at previous relationships and only remember the good parts. But think back - there was a reason you two broke up. It wasn't all good. Choose wisely!
2007-10-22 07:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz you still love her, and it sucks. Did you try everything you could before it was over? if you haven't talked to her in 6 months im guessing not. But it is just one of those things that time and friends are going to have to heal. Unless of course you want to get a guitar and serenade her outside of her window at 6 in the morning.
2007-10-22 07:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays relationships are harder ,its become more like shopping you cant stick to one you keep looking for a better one, and you cant look deep into others hearts or minds and see what they think about you or what they feel about you.
People move on as the time passes and forget past ppl in thier lives too.If she dint love you, its easier for her to find another person.You should do the same too and stop worrying about the past and thinking about her.Atleast you were sincere to her and there are many women searching for your type.Go find them.Good luck.
2007-10-22 07:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by mranonimus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I found out my ex bf is seeing someone and my blood ran hot. it just means you haven't gotten over that person. it's okay to still have feelings, it's the actions that you take that have consequences. Just try to occupy your mind with other things, try going out with friends, meeting new people. You are not alone. I'm sending good thoughts ur way.
2007-10-22 07:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i almost have a similar situation..i have a friend..well...i guess shes my best friend..no..bestfriend with benefits...and i hate myself for falling for her so much..now she just lost all her feelings for me and shes with another guy who makes her happy and all that..i agree its the worst feeling ever..i cant do anything cuz were not talking and it absolutely crushes my heart everytime i think about her being with that guy. i still think of her every day but what i do is i just divert my attention into sumthing else like school or working out. sorry dude i cant really give u some help but i hope this kinda helped u out knowing that sumone feels the same and understand ur situation. like i said i suggest diverting ur attention into someone or sumtihing else.
good luck to both of us.
peace bro
2007-10-22 07:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still in love with her. Why in the first place you broke up? And not talk to her for 6 months!
2007-10-22 07:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by lady in pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's absolutely normal. Sorry you are going through this, but time will cure the shock. Just whatever you do, don't start calling and going after her more now. Its the basic saying that goes something like...you don't want her, but you don't want anyone else to have her either. Good luck.
2007-10-22 07:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by THE RESCUE LLAMA!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you just got to get back up and get back out there. Hell I still think about my Ex's every day and it does kill inside but you've got to channel that elsewhere but its not wrong you feel this way man. Its natural if you had true feelings. You just got to go on, move on, and move up man.
2007-10-22 07:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Hellcat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural because when you love someone the only thing that can fix it is time. I would suggest that you try to do things with friends to take your mind off of it. You could also look for a new girl, although you don't want to bring your ex baggage with you.
2007-10-22 07:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by Eric G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋