okay me and my ex broke up a month ago we been dating for 2 years and i logged into his myspace checking things out i noticed he is talking to someone else already thats seems kind of soon..... i checked out her picture and profile stuff really nothing to get jealous of but still its hard getting over my ex I loved him :( oh well things happen for a reason and i guess he didn't want the long distance relationship work! Now my question is how to move on and is it wrong to check on his account and what was he thinking I don't know just wanted someone else point of view thanks
2007-10-22 07:20:20 · 13 answers · asked by Jeep1996 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think anything is wrong with checking his account, I would have probably done the same thing. You need to realize however that he doesn't want to be in the relationship no more, you need to tell yourself that this was just not meant to be and you need to move on. You are going to feel hurt because you obviously still love him but as the days go by you will get over it.There is no point in wanting to keep a long distance relationship going when the other person don't want to. It takes two baby.
2007-10-22 07:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by anny f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong to check his account but it's probably human nature so don't beat yourself up over it too much. The only way that you can get over it is to stop checking his account, stop thinking about him and get out there and get involved with life. Find your own dates, reconnect with old friends, get a hobby, etc. You broke up for a reason so don't lose sight of it. Memories tend to be much kinder than reality.
2007-10-22 14:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by I'm back...and this still sucks. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if he did that to you. You are in HIS space, that's why it is called my space. So you forget and move on. the more you think about it the worse it will be, so quit torturing yourself and go out and have some fun. If you are not dating someone, and are free, then the next hour is not to soon.
2007-10-22 14:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it was kinda wrong of you to check his account.. try being in his shoes.. dont u think dat wat u're doing is a little bit posessive?? especially after u guys broke up?? i'm not saying its ok for him to get over a 2 year relationship so easily, but it doesnt justify u looking through his account...
as for getting over him, try hanging out with ur frens.. it'll make u take ur mind off him.. n stop with de account-accessing cuz it wont help.. u'll get even more obsessed with him... and finally, u might wanna look for somebody new along the way... good luck!
2007-10-22 14:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dean O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation, girl! I have all of my ex-boyfriend's passwords and it is SO tempting to spy on him. BUT I need to get over him, and by spying I am only making things worse for myself. Please put a genuine effort into moving on and not obsessing over him. Things will get better, I promise!!
2007-10-22 14:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it wrong. You will never get over him if you spy on him. Trust me I have been there. Stop checking up on him. Keep yourself busy and away from the computer if need be.
2007-10-22 14:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by anna_90242 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
teeheeeeehehehe
Shame on you, you silly ole Snoop! I had a guy hack into my Puter once and he found something my DAUGHTER , not ME had said about him...lol. she was 16 and had called him a "LEECH" haha
Not even that bad, but he boohood and bahad.
I told him it served him right..he should NOT have snooped~!
So ...there ya have it. If ya dont want to know...dont LOOK! haha
2007-10-22 14:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking at his account, your just hurting yourself more.
The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. jk, lol, but seriously, go on dates or something, talk to new peeps, start a new adventure.
Cheers
2007-10-22 14:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by MNgirl@thebeach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave his My Space alone for a start. Move on means MOVE ON! Learn to punctuate your own existence.
2007-10-22 14:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go forward. The past is just that. There are so many fish in the ocean, and you will find the right one for you.
2007-10-22 14:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋