That the longer you are in a relationship, everything just fizzles out? Like, romance..love..sex..etc.? Or..does it get better with age and time?
2007-10-22 07:24:53 · 17 answers · asked by **Mystica** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A relationship is what you make of it. It takes work; it takes effort. People change as they grow older. It's important to try to change together so you don't grow apart.
2007-10-22 07:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you relationship. Marriage #1 for me: fizzled, got divorced. Marriage #2, working a lot harder at the relationship, it's gotten better every year (and I mean way better!).
2007-10-22 14:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by John R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for many couples that is exactly what happens, and it almost leads to infidelity. That is why couples have to find ways to reinvent romance and keep the passion and desire alive. Do a search on google for the percentage of people involved in sexless marriages. The numbers will surprise you.
2007-10-22 14:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how hard you work to keep things "fizzling".
It never just "happens" except when you're first dating. Other than that, you actually have to DO something.
2007-10-22 14:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like when you buy a new car.You brush the dirt off it and try to keep it looking great but after a few years you are just looking at the new models and thinking about a trade in!
2007-10-22 15:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it doesn't actually fizzle out, but i just think it reaches a differnent level.. our relationship is great been married for 9 yrs, and he is my best friend.. and totally in tune with each other.
2007-10-22 14:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by wenwen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relationships, like everything else, take alot of work to make them successful. You have to give 110% every day. When you have the one you truly love in your life, giving that much should come easy.
2007-10-22 14:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think certain things will make you two grow stronger as a couple the longer you stay together but as for everything else (sex, romance, etc) lets just say it sags ALOT!!!
2007-10-22 14:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by gracey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passionate love becomes replaced by companionate love. You lose a lover and gain a friend, happens all the time.
2007-10-22 14:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by donutgonuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k.... I would be the first one to tell you (anonymously of course) that my husband and I have serious issues. But..don't believe everything you hear about being married and boring sex. I'm sleepy today for a reason. (we've been married more than ten years)
2007-10-22 14:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋