i like this guy who seems to be in a very weird violent relationship..on and off. she is so mean to him and he is just a sweetheart. always nice and polite..i just dont get what he sees in her...i mean is the sex really that great or something? anyway just wondering would he leave her if he knew what kind of a great girl i am? how do i show him???? plz help?
2007-10-22 07:02:09 · 30 answers · asked by M 9 boobies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want a guy like that? Women tend to blame and examine their own behavior; what about looking at his for a change? Even if he did eventually leave his wife, why would you want him? He has already proven himself unworthy of your trust and too weak to adhere to the bare minimum of moral standards.
2007-10-22 10:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Firefly1234567891011121314151617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex to men is part of the relationship however it isnt the most important factor. If you have enough courage and faith in youself then you can win his heart over 100%. Along the path no matter how impossible it seems do NOT give up and fight for who you love. In order to win his heart you need to show him what kind of life it would be like to be with you. How much better and soothing it would be with you beside him.
Good Luck =)
2007-10-22 14:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by aZn TeAsE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you, but it sounds like a scam. If he's spending his time convincing you how crazy his girl is, he's already trying to get in your pants. Maybe you need to realize that there are two sides to every story and the "victim" usually tries to get out of an unhealthy relationship, not conveniently vent about what a victim they are the the closest girl eating out of the palm of their hand. Get some glasses, hun, you're vision-impaired.
2007-10-22 14:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ? is: Do you really want to be with a guy that is used to getting into those kinds of relationships?... If he keeps going back then there is some kind of reason. Walk away and save yourself the aggravation, you could be the next one on her agenda if you start getting involved with "her man" regardless if its on again off again. She could make your life a LIVING HELL!!!!
Good luck!
2007-10-22 14:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by KMB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just like mean girls. Some girls like bad boys. You just be you and see what happens. But really you should find someone that is currently available, that way you know you are not just a rebound
2007-10-22 14:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well chances are she is not the only one that is violent, so maybe you dont want to get involved. If SHE is truly crazy and violent she may come after you if he leaves. Steer clear!
2007-10-22 14:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by audra h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he's in a relationship with a nut job- you really can't tell what's going on behind closed doors
i was in a relationship where everyone viewed me the same way as you do her and i later figured out that, while i wasn't telling people everything he would do to me- he was running around talking about me like a dog to everyone that would listen to him
so my advice to you is don't judge a book by it's cover
2007-10-22 14:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before showing him anything you should first make sure that he is open for a new relationship.If you feel that he is than i think you should tell him everything you told us.Sometimes people are so blind, they cant see the person that truly loves them so start talking and stop thinking...Good Luck...
2007-10-22 14:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was in a bad relashionship to..and he had a daughter. But when i met him i just showed him i cared and after 3 months of seeing each other we got hitched and he left her 3 days later..its the Girls fault just let him know your always there for him...he'll see who is better for him eventually
2007-10-22 14:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by ledisxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has low self-esteem he'll probably stay with her because subconsciously he feels he deserves to be belittled. When guys like him are treated nice, they can't accept the fact, someone thinks they're worthy of respect.
2007-10-22 14:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋