i did ask this before but didnt get many answers and its really playing on my mind.
There is this girl, She first caught my eye on here and she is the most fantastic girl anyone could ever wish to meet.
shes funny, charming, beautiful sexy and more. she is the most stuningly beautiful woman i have ever ever met.
whats the problem? well we have been sending texts to and fro, she has just had triplets, not mine, they were born at 22 weeks and are in intensive care. i want so much to go and see her to support her but she had a terrible time with her ex and i think sometimes she holds me back because of it.
her ex was a dog and a pathetic excuse for a man.
how can i convince her that im not like him and i would like to get to know her and support her?
the whole situation is making me go slowly crazy.
Please DONT tell me to run away and completely forget her because she has just had triplets because im not that shallow a man.
2007-10-22 07:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you actually met her? You cannot trust a person you have never physically met, especially online, too many weirdo's out there.
2007-10-22 07:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her have her breathing space obviously her baby's are the most important thing on her mind at the minute, keep texting as a friend when she as got through the hard time of getting her baby's fit and well and home she may realize how staunch and kind you have been and you may be able to build a relationship from there but the last thing she will need right now is any added pressure, no matter how good your intentions are.
2007-10-22 07:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?? JUST BE THERE FOR HER WHENEVER SHE NEEDS YOU, BE A GOOD FRIEND, STAY IN CONTACT, OBVIOUSLY DONT PRESSURE HER, THE LAST THING SHE IS GOING TO WANT TO THINK ABOUT AT THE MOMENT IS MEN/RELATIONSHIPS/SEX, BUT SHES GOING TO NEED ALL THE HELP/SUPPORT SHE CAN GET WITH TRIPLETS, SHOW HER YOU CAN BE TRUSTED, AND DONT LET HER DOWN,
MAYBE BUY A GIFT FOR EACH OF THE TRIPLETS, AND SOME FLOWERS FOR HER, WILL GIVE YOU AN EXCUSE TO VISIT ANYWAY, BUT DONT GO TOO OVERBOARD!! TRY NOT TO SEEM TOO INTERESTED, IT MAY PUT HER OFF,
GOOD LUCK
2007-10-22 07:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by tammy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi my advice to you is to be there for her as a friend as most relationships blossom from there; dont pressurise her just let her know that you will always be there if she needs a friend to lean on. try not to bad mouth her ex as she may resent you for that in the long run. what ever went on between them hes still the father to her kids and he will always be part of her life. show her that she can trust you no matter what and show her you are nothing like her ex but in the way you act not in words. if its meant to be between you things will blossom if not at least you have made a friend. dont push to hard though as you may just push her away. her main priority will be her kids so take a step back . good luck i hope things will eventually work out for you both,
2007-10-22 07:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by ANGELA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know her a bit then you could call her or something and suggest coming along to keep her company, she'll think its really kind and sweet if you let her know that you're there for her. :)
2007-10-22 07:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see her.
If you go see her and help her through this difficult time and be a shoulder to cry on she'll realise its you she wants
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2007-10-22 07:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted you there she would let you know, you can't force things.
2007-10-22 07:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋