Curious..how do you get the big O during the act....meaning do either of you reach down to help things along, a toy, you on top, etc..?
2007-10-22 06:54:20 · 23 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok, i have stood on a soap box for a long time trying to get other women to wake up. the only way a women will know what gets her to climax is to practice, play around and work at it. self love always works. being open to knew experiences is a must. i learned exactly what does it for me by practicing with myself and i have an orgasm every time. if a woman doesn't climax it's her own fault, not the guys!
oh, and to answer your question all you have to do is let me get on top. ;-)
2007-10-22 07:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by buk84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listne the big O is in your grasp so to speak if it feels good do it till your hand falls off and coming from a guys standpoint it aint over till you do have at least 1 or at least most considerate guys and if it is too much for your partner then go doggy while you rub and that should do it since he cant see ya and it wont make him pop early
2007-10-22 14:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are doggy style, I reach back and massage my clitoris. If I am on top, I grind against his pelvis. I use my toy on nights that my husband doesn't feel like it. We have very different sex drives.
2007-10-22 14:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by ¤¤Je§§ica¤¤ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its better when a man actually takes his time, rather than rushing. A big build up guarentees a better evening :)
Everybody is different when it comes to this issue :)
2007-10-22 13:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
suggestion, reach down to help it get along, but a long foreplay could help to, or delay it
2007-10-22 13:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and foremost you have to be comfortable with your partner he is fixing to see you go a little crazy lol......
I think it all depends on what's on your mind, sometimes, yes you could help things along or he can say things that could also help.
2007-10-22 13:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by ~leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the person, not every women can get the BIG O from intercourse, so you should talk to your partner and find out what gets her there
2007-10-22 14:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go staight to having intercourse then yes try those things and items. If you please her before in other ways before intercourse then it will be easier for her to achieve the big O during sex.
2007-10-22 13:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I help myself, sometimes it's all him with fingers or tongue. I have never once gotten off with out clitoral stimulation though.
2007-10-22 13:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Colonel Obvious AM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, never really thought about it. Hubby just knows what I like and reads my body. I get it almost every time :) Just make sure you read her and listen to her body.
2007-10-22 14:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋