We have not been friends for a while now and that is because she is always putting me down and spreading lies about my relationship. (she has met my fiance one time at a holiday party). Other co-workers say she is jelous because her boy friend is 14 years older than her( she's is her 30's) and he wont marry her. She is always copying me too, when I got engaged she said that she was going to upgrade her ring for a wedding set? (she is NOT engaged). Please help! is it ok to invite other co-workers and not her? And if you have any advise on how to deal with her when she is being a B****!
2007-10-22 07:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh ya I Forgot to mention that when we were friends I told her that she could be my maid of honor? and she still thinks that she is going to be? you know what she said to me before I was engaged? she said that he better hurry up and ask me or I'll be left out in the cold because her sister in law is going to vegas for her bachlorette party around the month that I was planning on getting married. I didn't respond! ( kill with kindness or silence! )
2007-10-22 07:21:35 · update #1
don't invite her. It is your day and you only want those that love and care for you to share in your special day.
If she confronts you then be honest or tell her that the banquet hall only holds a certain amount of people and cuts had to be made somewhere. She will get the hint.
2007-10-22 07:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by julie744527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can invite or not invite whom ever you want, if this person is not a friend then why would you even consider having her at what should be the most important day of your life? Feel free to invite the co-workers who you get a long with and leave it at that. Try to limit it to co-workers you are really close to, that way not everyone will be invited so she will not be the only one not invited.
2007-10-22 07:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by julvrug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding is a time for FRIENDS and FAMILY to celebrate the union of two people who love and care for each other.
NO you are not obligated to invite her, nor should you. For office friends...look around you at the people you most often spend time with. Look for the ones that you regularily socialise with *voluntarily*...
Just so there are no hard feelings...spread the word in advance that it is a small wedding, and not everyone can come.
Turn away and walk away. Confirm real stories...embarassing or no, deny false stories..."Excuse me, is this Work Related? No? Well, if you don't mind, I have actual work to do..." etc...
2007-10-22 07:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can invite whomever you want to your wedding. Do not invite anyone that will cause any problems on this day, it is to be one of the happiest days of your life, and shared with people that you like. The best thing to do when someone is being a b***** is to walk away and completly ignore them. That lets them know that you really don't care what they want or think. To some that may appear rude, but to the ones that really know what is going on will understand.
2007-10-22 07:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just one opinion. This is your wedding day. I wouldn't invite that b*t*h to anything!! How dare her call herself your friend and then make fun of you and lie about you. You do not need that kind of drama. That is exactly why I choose not to have very many female friends, because they are shady. This is going to be one of the happiest days of your life, and you don't need the thought of her acting a fool in the back of your mind the whole time. I wouldn't even be her friend anymore. Friends don't treat friends that way. I wouldn't invite her and when she asks why, then you should tell her off!
2007-10-22 07:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Servant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA, u probably love her!
do not invite her if she's been a biatch!!
invite everybody else but her,that will doit,
you'll be fine and she is gonna be sad and feel worthless! that will teach her how to behave!
"gossip at the warehouse"whorehouse" job!!" lol
gossip at the office
gossip at a restaurant job is the same bs everywhere!
2007-10-22 07:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by gallojugado2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is being nasty, then don't invite her. You don't need to be fake. You don't want her to come, so don't invite her.
She probably doesn't even expect to be invited if she doesn't like your or you don't like her.
2007-10-22 07:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by Annonymous J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not presently a friend..don't invite her!
2007-10-22 07:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's YOUR wedding.. if you don't want her there, don't invite her.
2007-10-22 07:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋