We've been together for a year and he was nothing but loyal and loving... He's always horny & embarks on some wild stuff... But he wants to make a video of which I'm not really sure... It's not that I do not trust him but I'm afraid he might use it to my disadvantage? Do you think so?
2007-10-22 07:19:09 · 37 answers · asked by Hwang_Jini21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be very careful if you do decide to take part in such an adventure. If you do agree and are comfortable with this then you should be the one that has control and custody of this film also. Who knows where it may end up if ever the two of you were to break up. Best of luck and do not participate until you are comfortable about it and do not allow yourself to feel pressured into taking part.
2007-10-22 07:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What disadvantage are you worried he will use it for? Are you thinking that he may use it to blackmail you? If that is the case I would say don't do it!! I made one with my ex-fiance years ago but to his credit he was a great guy who kept the tape in a hidden spot only we knew about and when we discussed breaking up he gave the tape to me to distroy (as I did) because of this I don't regret making it (other then I looked horrible in it LOL) I think for the most part leave the videos to the pro's.
2007-10-22 07:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People only want to make a video when they want to show it to someone. Think very carefully. A friend of mine agree to be filmed and he posted her up on the web.
Only if you really trust this man, and have NO DOUBTS at all should you go through with it. If he really cares for you and loves you he will respect your decision. If he gets annoyed, then I'm sorry, but he is not a man to be trusted.
Hope it works out for you
2007-10-22 07:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Next thing you know your Disney Channel, pageant queen, or at least your reputation may be tarnished if he puts in on the web for fun, spite and/or profit.
And you'd better be careful or he will hide a hidden camera and do it without your knowledge and consent. This guy sounds like a weirdo--be CAREFUL!
2007-10-22 07:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by arklatexrat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not right now, but he will. Tell him flat out no, and you might want to check and see if there are any hidden cameras around. Just ask Paris what can happen, it got on the internet and the whole world knows what she does now.
2007-10-22 07:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think the first and foremost important thing to find out first is whether YOU feel comfortable enough with him to wanna make a video. Some people are really into it and others are not. I had a GF who would get really excited watching pornos. LOL .. needless to say, I did not object so much. One day she asked me to make one of us. I agreed .. and we agreed to not have any faces in it. Basically, we had the video camcorder on a stand as we did it .. and I must confess that it was very very erotic. My favorite part was the video of my (you know what) going in and out of her (you know what) .. and how she moaned each time I spread her (you know what) .. and she would scream .. but beg me for more. BUT, after she saw the video and noticed what my (you know what) was doing to (stretch it; since my 'you know what tends to get to about 12'X2") her (you know what), she started having cold feet and wasn't so horny anymore ..
but I was ;) ..
2007-10-22 07:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never done it because it's something I could never really trust anyone with...think about Pamela and Tommy Lee...a contractor stole the tape out of there house and put it on the internet.
2007-10-22 07:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by catie_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that this comes up with every couple its a lot of fun to do the video thing you just have to trust the one you are with..and you can lots of fun doing this. i don't know him or his intentions but just relax and enjoy and you can make him erase it once you have done it and watched it....you can also just hook the cam up to the TV and not record it just watch what is going on on the TV...and nothing is recorded....so just have some fun with it then get rid of it...
2007-10-22 07:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, if you do you run the risk of it someday being all over the net. What happens if down the road you and him have a bad break up and he is out for revenge or vice versa? My advice is don't do it.
2007-10-22 07:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not agree to doing anything you are not comfortable with. I do not know how old you are or how old you bf is so who knows what he might do with it. Younger guys like to impress their friends - just a fact. He might share, might not. BUT DOES THAT MATTER? If you are not comfortable, do not do it. Let him know when you are ready you will bring it up and that it feels like pressure when he asks.
2007-10-22 07:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Green Eyed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋