Ok, I have liked this boy since the 3rd day of school, and we're going on a couple of months at school now, and we have gotton to be really good friends. A few weeks ago he told me he liked me, then asked out one of my friends. I was reallllyyyy mad at him for that, but he gave a very long apology, and reluctantly, I accepted it.
Then a couple days ago, we were on myspace, and he asked me out, and I said yea, sure. Then he wouldn't talk to me for a couple days, so I had a friend ask him what was wrong since I didn't know his phone number. He told her that he never asked me out, and doesn't want a girlfriend right now....
But he did ask me out, I have the messages to prove it...and I'm starting to believe that he is just not even worth my liking him anymore, because if he is just not going to give me a straight answer, then he is not worth it, but I'm not completly sure of my judgement.
From what you know, what do you think, should I try to save out friendship, & out relationship??
2007-10-22 07:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by kindyxkandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he's leading you on a wild goose chase or he's totally confused himself. For one, you don't need to be treated like that - I'm sure you know you deserve better and secondly, if he was a friend, at least he would have the decency to be honest.
Good luck making the right decision : )
2007-10-22 07:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by green_baby_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a jerk!! If a guy liked a girl he wouldn't say any of that stuff about her to her best friends!! I know I had that happen to me before and I just stopped talking to him and everything is going just fine now....!!! I mean I am dating this most amazing guy ever! and just because I stopped talking to this other guy my life has changed big time...!!! no guy should ever do that to a girl that is just plain messed up in my book!
*good luck*
2007-10-22 14:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by lil_ms_attitude122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok but I would not even care after he humiliated u like that and any one can get in his my space and act like him right , u r young live your life their are a lot of guys out their wait till you get in the real world after graduation its a whole new place find someone else has a coward and a looser cant make up his mind make it up for him and MOVE ON !!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-10-22 14:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by mommy of 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it was him on My space or someone fooking around? If it was him, I would be friends, but wouldn't put to much faith in it. If he asks whats going on tell him the truth, that you are not into playing games, he either wants to be friends and tell the truth, or you don't need him.
2007-10-22 14:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound like a jerk and it sounds like he really doesn't like you if hes messing with you like that. I say you end all relationships with him and call him out on what he did to show him what he did isn't OK. He is definitely not worth liking or giving another chance.
2007-10-22 14:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by CW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's always good to know a game player early in the game
let him stay in the Friend zone
2007-10-22 14:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he is worth any of your time personally i wouldnt have accepted his apology for dating your friend i think you should just move on find someone better someone who wont pick your friend first and wont lie trust me i have been in your position before
2007-10-22 14:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by littlefaulty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would forget about him, but for one thing it is all your decision. Also it sounds like he is kind of using you.
2007-10-22 14:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Beach Babe 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah leave 'em alone hes wack for that.....
2007-10-22 14:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Boobie's Boobie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wat u think u should do follow ur gut!
2007-10-22 14:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by amera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋