I can not see the face of the any Person whom i talk to.i just keep seeing other things.my eyes keep escaPing

Question

when i talk with any body i look to either any Part of the body of the Person other than the face(esPecialy the eyes) or i look to other things time and again.and this totaly destroys the continuity of the convesation.For this reason my boses have always susicious view over me,though i am the most innocent person in the world,realy.so brothers &sisters i need your help

Answer 1

Fight, that's the secert. She that behavior is a direct reflection of how well your fight your social insecurities. We all do, its not easy for anyone to accomplish and actually most of gain our disorders FROM the dysfunction that can be caused from not handling confrontation well. Which in a small and deep way, every social interaction is a fight. A fight to interact. It both parties feeling within themselves that they can bring something to that interaction, that's what gives people the eyes to look. The level of how well you can maintain that eye contact that stare, is in a lot of ways a measure of the intensity of that feeling that you can bring something to that conversation. So, in dry short style, you need to stand up and see yourself as being worth a crap.... you'll do great if you find a reason within yourself to feel that way.