my father dont think that my bf and i should be together.he is making progress with the moving out thing.he is starting to be okay with it.he still has a little trouble with it because i am his baby girl and i know he dont want to let me go.he is just going to have to get used to it because i am where i want to be.im happy and i have never been happier.like i said i have known this guy for 6-7 years and i have only been with him for 7 months.i know my dad loves me and dont want to see me get hurt but what can i do?he hasnt liked anyone that i have dated, what makes me think he is going to start now?he is starting to get along with him a little bit now but not a whole lot.how do we get through this?
2007-10-22 05:54:16 · 4 answers · asked by mama2be 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand why dads become such jerks when a boy is involved. I have dated a few guys, my dad hated every single one. I'm 24 now and have been single for years. Partly because I haven't ran into someone who has swept me off my feet, but also because when I do meet someone who is a promising candidate I get so scared to bring him home and have my father complain to me about him that it hardly seems like its worth the effort. It's sad how someone who is only looking out for your best interest can force you to pass up people who may have worked out in the end. I honestly regret allot of the guys that I've ended it with because of my dad.. because in the end its my decision. But when you have someone in your face all the time its hard to deal with it. So, I can empathize with you. Just hang in there, you've already done the hardest part. Telling your dad what is up.
2007-10-22 06:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Christy V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at why your father hasn't liked any of the guys you've been with. If there is a valid reason for not liking them (alcoholics, drug users/dealers, abusive, cheaters), then go talk to someone about why you are picking the men your picking. But if it's just a case of "no one is good enough for daddy's princess" then just ignore your dad and know that it will take a while for him to warm up to your guy.
2007-10-22 06:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being you. Don't worry about it. It will work out in the end. In time, your father will come to terms with it. It's a big step for him as well as you. Just give it some time. Good luck.
2007-10-22 06:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Steve F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh how old are u?
2007-10-22 06:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋