I am 22 yrs old
Prof.1:I HATE HIM!!~ still teaches me. Asks me if i need any help all the time. Wants me to stay after class and "talk". he doesn't give me any personal space when we stand and talk so i tend to stand away from him but then he asks me..why r u standing so far? and then he is like hmm...we should have coffee and i will explain things to u.whats up with that? he is like 27-28
i do not know what this really means but i dnt want to be rude with him coz i think he will lower my grade.I do not like him!!! god what should i do?
Guy 2:
he is really cool. took his class a few semesters ago. i asked him to do a favor and he is doing it for me. he calls we talk and yesterday he finished my favor and asked me.."we should have dinner sometime" what does this mean? he is a nice guy i like him.
they both not married or have a girlfriend..neither am i.
2007-10-22 06:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ever hear of 'ethics'? Both seem to be lacking them. Plus...if you can't see whats going on apparently you aren't quite college material.
2007-10-22 06:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Prof:1-- Tell him that you appreciate his help but that you think that he may have the wrong idea about you and that you ARE a student and that you don't want your grade influenced. I would also report him if he gets angry and does take it out on your grade. Make sure you cover you tracts. Have someone there with you... Or just report him to the dean or someone of the same authority.
Guy 2-- It is difficult because he is a teacher/professor. You cant have your cake and eat it too. If you turn the other teach in then you have to apply (publicly) the same principle to this guy... you are a student and he is a professor. Him asking you out to dinner should tell you that at minimal he likes you as a friend, if he implies more then you have to be very cautious. Having a relationship with a professor could land you two BOTH in a lot of trouble. (Like you getting kicked out and him getting fired).However if you take things outside of school or wait til after you are done with school then who knows what could happen. But I would just be friends until your done with school. Good Luck!
2007-10-22 07:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by KMB 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is really unethical for a teacher/professor to get involved with one of their students. You need to report both of them to the Dean of the University. Both their intentions are not honorable. If you continue down this road, then if anything happens and you find a boyfriend, then there is every chance that you may not even pass. This needs to go to the top. Then if anything happens and you fail any subjects that these mean teach you will be able to have it investigated. You are really playing with fire.....both these men have the power to make your life miserable. Stay away from both of them.
2007-10-22 06:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prof 1: Is way out of line.
Prof 2: Your age spread is appropriate so I fail to see your dilemma.
Good Luck!
2007-10-22 06:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dillon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't like the answers when you ask this a few minutes ago? You know what to do. Professors are not suppose to date their students...period.
2007-10-22 06:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are in a relationship and your partner would not approve of you going out to dinner with anyone else.
2007-10-22 06:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by anna_90242 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think it means? You`re vulnerable and naive,a babe in the woods. Be careful little red riding hood, the big bad wolf may come calling....
2007-10-22 06:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still in school and haven't got enough of an education to deal with simple human interactions....
i would avoid both until you were mature enough to have a meaningful relationship with someone.
2007-10-22 06:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy no 1, that sounds like sexual harassment.
guy no 2, if you like him go for it. go to dinner and see what happens.
2007-10-22 07:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by buk84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sending the wrong message out some way. They are thinking you are interested in them some how.
2007-10-22 06:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋