2007-10-22 06:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by ParisianSkies_/^^* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it not. sex is a natural thing for two humans to do. you most prob by fumble about at first. it most prob by will hurt if your the woman. but you will get there in the end as you gain more experience.
2007-10-22 06:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to feel you 'ought' to be having sex or feel pressurised into it because your boyfriend tells you it 'proves' you love him. I say this because you ask if sex is embarrassing the first time.
The answer to this is it might be slightly awkward, especially if your partner is also a virgin, but don't knock that. Finding out together can be fun. But no - it shouldn't be embarrassing. To be honest, it sounds like you're uncomfortable about the idea of sex so please don't do it until you feel emotionally ready.
Don't feel that because a guy is older than you or more 'experienced' - it automatically means you'll have a wonderful time. Sometimes as I said above it's better to have a fumbling, sweet, tender experience with a guy you truly want to have sex with than a mechanical, awkward shag with some man who thinks he's a great lover. I had my first sexual experience with an older man and let me tell you, with some guys the bad habits just get ingrained. He acted like he was doing me a big favour, and when it was over he said smugly: 'How was that then baby?'
'How was what?' I replied as the only thing I felt was that I'd been roughly pummelled with a breadstick.
But here's a few guidelines for when you are ready:
1. Take it slowly slowly with your boyfriend. Lots of kissing and petting before you even think about penetration. It doesn't matter if you both have a giggle while you're doing it; if anything that makes it better. Sex should be fun.
2. Most women don't have orgasms through just vaginal penetration but clitoral stimulation.
3. It shouldn't hurt if you're lubricated enough. Don't expect to orgasm the first few times. Show him what pleases you. Sometimes I think we expect guys to be mind readers.
4. Enjoy yourself. Girls are supposed to have fun too.
xxxxxx
2007-10-22 10:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Evie W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not embarrassing at all. Just the feeling of the unknown. Make sure that you are comfortable, close your eyes take a deep breath and relax. But afterwards your pelvic region will be sore for about a day or two. Good Luck. :)
2007-10-22 06:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Boobie's Boobie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kinda embarrasing cant help it however the pain for the girl varies dependin on if u have been fingered before-- if u havent it hurts it will feel so tight as if ur trying to put a penis in ur ear hole... it just wont go..so u have to gradually work up to poppin the cherry!
if ur not happy dont do it...u have a life time to loose the cherry
2007-10-22 07:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not great, put it that way. It shouldn't hurt, as long as you relax and use lube.(or spit)
Soz to be so gross.
It's not really embarrassing, the guy wil be in his own little world trust me. But you might be thinking what the hell was that, is that it? It gets better with practise though, and it's better when it's someone you love, cliche and corny but true.
2007-10-22 06:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
THere is nothing embarrassing about the human body. Everyone has one. It doent hurt bad you forget about it fast. DOnt have sex unless you want to and are old enough to make a good decision.
2007-10-22 06:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First time I had sex was great fun, and we laughed a lot.
But we ended up falling asleep on the sofa in a state of undress and got caught by her uncle whose house it was, which was seriously embarrasing as they were hardcore Christians !
2007-10-22 06:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cyclops 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
nicely, the 1st time, definite. yet did you rejoice with the 1st time? in case you positioned a tampon or his **** interior the incorrect way it could injury later. it relatively is advisable to make certain a doctor if it gets worse. Do you have butt intercourse? in case you do, and without condom, his **** can get contaminated and once you have vagina intercourse, the an infection can get in and injury greater each and every time you have intercourse.
2016-10-07 09:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by kottwitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and had sex once and its great just relax and in joy ta ride
2007-10-22 07:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it is with someone u love then no its not embarrassing, and yes it hurts a bit, but just try to relax as much as possible
2007-10-22 06:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by cassandra k 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋