2007-10-22 06:29:39 · 16 answers · asked by john j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Learning proper English grammar might help, mister.
2007-10-22 06:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Drifblim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read this If You really are a Christian. --------------------------------------... Should a Christian date or marry an unbeliever? No, a Christian should not date or marry an unbeliever: "Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? 15 Or what harmony has Christ with Belial, or what has a believer in common with an unbeliever?" (2 Cor. 6:14-15). Unfortunately, some Christians hope that they can convert the person he/she is dating or marrying. They often think that their spirituality is strong enough and that they can witness to, or motivate the other person to convert through their patience and love. Why do they think this? Three reasons: They love the person and are emotionally blinded, they are naive, and they do not know God's word. This may sound harsh, but something as serious as marrying an unbeliever needs to be dealt with properly and to-the-point. We are not to compromise the will of God and endanger our spiritual well being. All we need to do is look in the Old Testament to see why God says not to marry unbelievers. This is what God said to the Israelites. “When the Lord your God shall bring you into the land where you are entering to possess it, and shall clear away many nations before you, the Hittites and the Girgashites and the Amorites and the Canaanites and the Perizzites and the Hivites and the Jebusites, seven nations greater and stronger than you, 2 and when the Lord your God shall deliver them before you, and you shall defeat them, then you shall utterly destroy them. You shall make no covenant with them and show no favor to them. 3 “Furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor shall you take their daughters for your sons. 4 “For they will turn your sons away from following Me to serve other gods," (Deut. 7:1-4). The reason not to marry an unbeliever is that he/she can influence you away from the Lord. Don't be so naive to think that "you" will never fall. It happens all the time. Children If you marry an unbeliever and have children, how will it effect their spirituality to have the parents divided over spiritual things? Is it a help or a hindrance to their spiritual health? Obviously, it is a hindrance. Unfortunately, too many people do not take into account the extremely serious situation of children and their eternal destiny. Yet, because of "love" and because they listen to the hearts over the word of God, many people marry unbelievers anyway...and often suffer dire consequences. What if you are already married to an unbeliever? If you are already married to an unbeliever then you need to love him/her as best you can, set a good example of being a Christian as you can, and pray for your spouse's salvation. You cannot leave your spouse (unless there is physical abuse, adultery, or if you are abandoned). You need to stick it out. Seek the Lord.
2016-04-09 21:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think allie needs to go back to elementary school "where is syria"? No your girlfriend can not send you papers of marriage...You have to come HERE, get a job become a citizen and get married.
2007-10-22 09:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allie....."Where is Syria?". What a ditz. no wonder we have terrorists running around all over the place with ignorance like that.
in the meantime pal...you guys aren't looked upon too fondly over here. Especially with the state run funding of terrorist groups. Just as a heads up....plan to be scrutinized and hard too. You're in one of the Middle Eastern countries that aren't really looked upon fondly by America.
You want to come here and work and be an honest citizen and become an American citizen..all well and fine. But you'd best have a honest and forthright plan to do so or you run the risk of the FBI and INS barging in on you in the wee hours of the morning and taking you away until they manage to get around to shipping you back to Damascus.
Oh...and "Allie"...Damascus is in Syria. Dumb broad.
2007-10-22 06:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It took a couple who my wife and I helped over a year, to be together and they were already married and she is from the Philippines. You not being married, it will take allot longer unless you can get the consulate to see you are of no threat to U. S security. I would think twice about this move as there are many hard feelings in The U. S. about your area. I myself hold no grudge, but many others do. This is not going to be easy for ether of you, so think before you jump.
2007-10-22 06:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Larry M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen her do you love her does she love you. Or do you just want papers to be able to come to the usa. and if you really like her then come live here get a visa you can you can go to the American Consulate and get a visa.
2007-10-22 06:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like quite the long distance romance.
How often do you two actually get to see each other?
Am I correct in assuming that it will be you who moves? Are you coming to US and A?
2007-10-22 06:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by malvernhills07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can send you papers for you to come out to the u.s. to live permenently. because of marriage.
2007-10-22 06:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by `_LAYLUUH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you getting married when your so far away from each other? That does not make sense.
2007-10-22 06:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by dinosawr_x_love 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-10-22 06:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋