I meet a guy here.. he's single and younger.. Im married.. I thought I have a fun to chatting with the people online when hubby is on the business trip.. we had good time chatting with each other..
then he give me his phone #, want me to call him.. I never want to get seriouly with this guy.. just want to be friends with him..
Now.. he tells me, he wants me... and he wants to be with me...... How can people getting so seriouly in here..????
what does he wants..?? Thks for your time..
2007-10-22 06:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This can be tough because it's not just tubes and wires in here. At the end of every keyboard is a heart and soul that is seeking something. Some might just want company, others sex, and others still are seeking to build a true relationship. Perhaps you two came at it from different viewpoints. Maybe the ground rules where never laid and now it's like trying to close the barn door. Seems he is invested into you--unless he is just looking to get off with you. You will ultimately have to decide if you will even talk to him on the phone let alone in person, but know from a man who has been there--done that--that once you hear a voice it does change--they become more real--emotions become more intense even if it's not what you intended to happen. Be careful of your heart. Write me if you would like to talk more on it..like I said i have been there a few times I must admit--but have learned some things along the way.
2007-10-22 08:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never befriend someone you have never met in person. This is a big mistake made with online chatting.
He wants you BECAUSE you 2 became emotionally involved online, sharing details of each others personal life. Then you share a mutual understanding that no-one else can. Next is a special bond, then a full blown affair. He is looking for no strings attached sex, and he`s almost got you right where he wants you.
Shame on you , you have already cheated on your husband emotionally.
End it with this kid now, or kiss your marriage goodbye.
Glad you`re not my wife.
2007-10-22 07:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why it can be so dangerous to play on the computer. Not everyone is after the same as you. Obviously this young guy wants to get to know you in the biblical sense. In my opinion you would be better to stop this little game and delete this person from your list of contacts before you become involved in something you sound like your not prepared for. The internet although a valuable resource at times can also be a very dangerous place. Lesson learned I hope for you. Best of luck.
2007-10-22 06:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
duhhh. he wants sex. what young guy doesn't want that from an older woman he has felt a connection to. forget the connection part. lol
if you want to chat you need to find someone older who is married and isn't looking to hook up just because you are a lonley (sometimes) woman with a vagina.
good luck. you can IM me to chat if you want. I'm old and not looking.
2007-10-22 07:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he wants is he wants to get laid. Come on...really. I'm amazed how many people suddenly want to screw around because they carry on a conversation with total strangers. I do it all the time and never asked such a question or professed such trash to anyone. For Chrissakes how can you even know anything about someone through chatting?
People fascinate me. And if I were you lady-jane...I'd whack this guy with the 'ignore' button as well as anyone else who entertains ideas of slipping into your panties.
2007-10-22 06:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
dont be dumb you knew what was goin to happen as soon as you started chatting to MEN. You also know what he wants....If you love your hubby then stop talking to other men and start paying attention to your marraige. Break it off now before you get in too deep and loose your hubby over it. If your bored get a job or get a hobby!
2007-10-22 06:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What he wants is to have sex with you. The way most men go about trying to pursuade a woman such as yourself is to tell her what he thinks she wants to hear.
Chatting with people online is a fun activity. However, the vast majority of men will try to have sex with you. I recommend you limit your online chatting to other women instead.
2007-10-22 06:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your hubby is gone and your chatting with other guys? That says a lot about you.
2007-10-22 06:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by spanky1492 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He want to do the wild monkey with you. Get with it girl. You are married. It's one thing to have fun on yahoo answers, but it is cheating when you take it to the next step.
2007-10-22 06:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you love your husband you need to stop chatting with these men... online people can be dangerous... you need not to talk to him anymore... not only for your safety, but for your marriage... think about it
2007-10-22 07:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by wenwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋