okay i' 14 and ina 8th grade and i keep gettin sespended 4 fighting and yelling at teachers and my mom thinks i'm hanging out with the wrong fraiend she dosn't like my bf and i can get sespended agin 3 time this year what should i do
2007-10-22 14:20:29 · 23 answers · asked by taz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hahha your funny...
first of all, you are 14 you dont need a boyfriend..like dating or whatever is ok if its like a group thing, but dont be serious..cuz honestly you may think it sounds stupid, but you really are too young for that...but i know what you mean..
second, maybe you should stop fighting and yelling at teachers...then you wouldnt get suspended.. see here's how i see it..i get very angry at teachers and adults..but instead of yelling at them (unless their behavior is unnacceptable) i yell at my brothers and friends and release my rants on them... and they stare at me for 30 minutes thinking im psycho...but it works..also..if the fighting has to do with another girl..i know how you feel..but the truth is that your probably getting in more trouble than her, and she is liking that..it will piss her off if you act like you dont care and ignore the brat..and you shouldnt care, and i know everybody says it, but really she just wants a reaction...get out your frustration by saying the truth, who cares if it hurts..then ditch her..cuz nothing is more lame and ridiculous than two 14 year olds beating each other up (haha im a junior and i have seen it before)..it makes you look stupid..
third, its ok to have different friends, just as long as they arent influencing what you do..you be your own person, dont try to do it because your friend does it, and dont put yourself in any situations, lets say your friend does drugs..support her, be a friend, but dont associate with that stuff..and maybe even let her know that you dont approve or your parents dont approve so she knows not to get you involved..but i hate it when people judge, so just dont get involved with bad stuff..its better trust me..
fourth, once you cool down and start being "nice" to the teachers, and just putting up with your parents remarks and being patient..they wont be so tense with you.. just do what your supposed to do for a while..and make good choices ok?
i just want to say that you may think my advice is lame and that i dont understand..but i do understand..i have gone through all of that.. all of it..so just make the right choices.. and maybe look yourself in the mirror and try to analyze your life and make some changes in it if needed.
hope i helped in some way..
good luck!
2007-10-22 14:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra :D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If Your Mom Doest Like Your Boyfriend Theres Proably A Reason For That..And You Might Not Think It Now But Schools Important And Getting Suspended Isnt Good Especially For Fighting..Thats Just uins You Having Friends And An Education..If You Want Your Mom To Like Your Boyfriend Your Gonna Have To Change Your Actions So She Doesnt Think Your Influenced By Him..You Gotta Pave A Road Of Like With Trust Not Just Have It
2007-10-22 21:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's time to grow up and stop acting like a child. You're 14? In two years, are you going to expect to drive a vehicle? If you're still acting the way you are now, I pity the people you drive around.
You're mother is probably right. If you're hanging around other kids that are acting the way you are...then that IS the wrong crowd. I'm a mom of a 12 year old and 11 year old. I have to tell ya...if my kids ever acted that way and got suspended even ONE time...they would get grounded for 6 weeks at a time. That means...for one six weeks of school...they will only be going to school, doing homework and LOTS of chores around the house.
It's time to begin acting like a young lady...and not a pain in the butt. Oh, and just by the way...you are way too young to be concerned about having a "bf" ...boyfriend.
2007-10-22 21:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you fighting and yelling at the teachers in the first place? Maybe you are hanging with the wrong crowd and being a follower. What you should do is get your act together, behave, do what you have to do and most of all show some respect.
2007-10-22 21:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to chill out.... try talking it over w/ your mom and really listen to what she has to say. If she loves you the way she should, then she's trying to do what's in your best interest so things will go good for you. As far as the boyfriend thing.... you don't really need one at 14...... enjoy being young and free. Hang w/ friends that look out for you and try to help you not to get into trouble......pick your close friends very carefully!
2007-10-22 21:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by chixwithkidz5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get respect, you need to give respect.
Stop fighting. Stop disrespecting your teachers. Stop hanging out with the wrong friend. Grow up.
2007-10-22 21:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by equal_opposites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to control your temper and stop getting into fights and yelling at teachers. Show some respect.
2007-10-22 21:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should do is start paying attention in school ... your spelling is horrible ... as for fighting .. maybe you need to go to anger management classes ... as for your friends .. I agree with your mom but then again if you were my kid you'd be in a different school by now and you'd be in counseling with a sore butt
2007-10-22 21:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
answeryour self what is wrigth and what is wrong. If your mother say it's not ok i am sure it's becouse she have a past experience that let her be sure you are not ok, other wise talk with her and show her she is wrong. You are young, and in a hard moment of your personal time of growing. Try to think.
2007-10-22 21:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of your b/f(you are too young for a b/f anyway), get rid of your loser friends, stop fighting, stop yelling at your teachers and get a clue.
2007-10-22 21:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋