The back end of the car hydroplayened and I couldn't gain control again. then it went off the road(where it was a drop off) and bounced and fliped around and bounced again and hit a tree. The car isen't all that bad just the passenger door and part of the front. I thought it was going to be a whole lot worse. I called my mom and she started screaming at me about how stupid I am and how I can't drive in the rain. Luckly my dad drove by about a min after it happened and got out and helped me. When my mom got there I was already crying and really shaken up but she didn't care she treated me like I was 2 and started screaming at me infront of everyone. When we got home my dad was telling me its ok and stuff and my mom was screaming about how I tried to kill someone because I hate my life and about how if I wasen't speeding it wouldn't of happened.She blames everything on thinking that i am suidical and depressed if you knew me you would know I am probably the fartherest thing from it. HELP
2007-10-22 14:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So it has been a few days and I am grounded till christmas I can't do anything no phone only the computer thats pretty much all I can do. There is a big halloween party next weekend and she took the 80 dollar costume from me. Is she over reacting?
2007-10-25 14:18:23 · update #1
Your mother is scared to death. She handled this badly, I'm sorry. Ignore her. If your dad hasn't taken you to the ER, you need to ask him to. You don't know if you are alright, get checked out. Everyone has accidents, even grown ups. Take care.
2007-10-22 14:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is worried about you and maybe hurt that you're not eating enough, while watching you slim down before her eyes. If she is a single mother or your father doesn't help so much with these issues, it could be tons of stress she feels. I'm a mom and sometimes when things worry a mother or stress a mother out, a mother can get frustrated and say the wrong things. It seems she had a bit of an outrage with you, but I assure you, she loves you and will probably regret speaking to you that way. Maybe talk to a counsleor at school and write your mom a note letting her know how that made you feel and ask her to never speak that way again. Don't forget a mother's love runs very deep. I'm sorry you feel badly. Good luck:)
2016-05-24 21:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is over-reacting because she was afraid for you and scared. Let her calm down. If Dad hasn't taken you to the ER, he probably should take you to a doctor tommorrow to be checked out. Do yourself a favor and go see the car before it is repaired. You will be surprised at the damage you didn't see. It will make you a better driver when you realize how lucky you were.
2007-10-22 15:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she always like this? You said that she calls you fat. If she is you need to talk to your father. He needs to intervene, it is his duty. She is verbally abusing you. What did your dad do while this was going on? He should have stopped her then. I would talk to him as soon as possible and see what he says. If it does not get any better all you can do is ask for outside help like from a teacher or a friends mother. Good luck.
2007-10-22 14:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is probably having a reaction to the fact that you could have been killed. Once she calms down you'll be able to talk to her on a more rational plane. As to hydroplaning, have someone explain the factors that cause this, to you. When you understand it will be much easier for you.
2007-10-22 14:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋