2007-10-22 18:23:43 · 24 answers · asked by honey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One of the biggest reasons why they end painfully is because people don't respect each other the way they should. When I first got married someone told my husband and I that the most important thing for us to remember is that we are each other's best friend and you would never intentionally hurt your best friend. He told us that no matter what to always keep that as our top priority. I think he is right.
2007-10-22 18:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Aimee's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship was founded on poor footing and bad motive to begin with. People inlove ignore, for whatever reasons, the signs that are there to show that there are shortcomings in the partnership, and too often are too proud to look at the reality of these signs until its too late, thus suffer the consequences called pain.
2007-10-22 19:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by curiousN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ends painfully because, not only do you have to say goodbye to the person, but harder still is saying goodbye to the hopes and dreams that you held for the relationship.
2007-10-22 18:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone u loved and gave your heart to, and trusted completely betrayed u, and the pain is caused by how u chose to respond to the hurt. they chose to give u a bad ending when they had a choice and could have handled it differently to where the pain wasn't so severe. in every ending there is always one party wanting out, and they are careless and thinking only of themselves, then theres the one who wants to remain in the relationship who still has hope and dreams and didn't know the person no longer loved them. when it happens its devastating to the one left behind.
2007-10-23 07:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my eyes closed and I'm thinking back to those years. (thank you honey) We fought a long and mean fight over custody. ( Did you know there are people out there, who didn't do a lick of parenting, but out of spite will fight?) He was the only one, that tried to rip my heart out, one guy stalked me, we've been a part 33 years, and up until 5 years ago he wanted me to come back, He lives with his girl friend of 30 years ,she knows all this, she's one of my best friends.
It amazes me how our lives turn out, it's like a beautiful play, with some sadness ( you can't have all good, that would be to boring) I wouldn't change a thing about my life, we live pay cheque to pay cheque, that keeps us humble, and that is a good thing.
God bless Honey.
2007-10-23 04:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by luvspace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost always there is someone who does not want the relationship to end. They are still in love and are not ready for it to end. Allot of the time they don't see it coming because of a breakdown in communication.
2007-10-22 18:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they end painfully because you know them so well and you love them as a friend.
2007-10-22 18:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by VALERIE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships end because there was some sort of pain in them even before.Otherwise there is no need for the relation to discontinue. Now, after it ends, you are being relieved of this pain which has been hiding for a long time. Pain is a sign that you are being healed.
2007-10-22 18:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that could be for many, many reasons. Cheating it the number one in my book. The love of your life finds someone else to love instead of you. Lack of communication is a killer.
2007-10-22 18:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
None Commitment, Lack of Communications, Dishonest on the part of one or both, Not willing to Work at This Job, Etc..............!
2007-10-22 18:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by sidecar0 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋