When they get married do they take it one day at a time or do they see themselves with that person for the rest of their lives?
2007-10-22 17:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by ar_angel_2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are men constantly testing the relationship to see if it will work, or do they want to work to preserve the relationship they already have?
2007-10-22 17:16:12 · update #1
i understand taking it one day at a time but if you don't see yourself wanting to be with the person for the long run what is the point?
2007-10-22 18:07:55 · update #2
Men and Women do both depending on the relationship. You can not paint all men with one brush stroke (the same with women) of a generalized statement.
If you take things one day at a time then you have the opportunity to "Live in the moment" with your partner. If you're too focussed on the future then you miss out on the todays.
2007-10-22 17:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man and what his idea of a relationship is and how he views his life. Some people (men and women) live life one day at a time. Others micromanage everything and have their future all planned out in their head by the time they are 21. So, if you want to know which kind you are dealing with just ask them how they imagine their life in 5 years. See if they think about the future or not.
2007-10-22 17:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i do no longer think of this concern is barely linked with women persons. i'm a male and develop into very a lot in love with who i presumed develop into the girl of my objectives. This guy or woman have been in previous broken and abusive relationships. i might desire to initially say that i did no longer enter in to the relationship attempting to be a marter. What I had learnt as time went on develop into that because of the fact I enjoyed her so, tables began to tutor. the way she have been dealt with, or handed over for that remember develop into commencing as much as take place to me. i could see this yet no remember how i attempted, i could no longer replace this and subsequently standard it because of the fact of my love for her. i assume my view is that there is danger for each guy or woman to discover somebody longterm, yet that may no longer an undemanding job as relationships are unlike they use to be. they seem to be so intense maintenance at present and it somewhat is complicated to be standard for who you're, fairly how a lot are you able to entertain, which beats the boredom. how are you able to tell if a relationship would be long term is the actual complicated one....desire I had the respond additionally!!!
2016-10-04 09:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew her for a while, almost 4 years. When I asked her out, I told her that I was tired of playing around with dead end relationships. I told her that I wanted to be with her for a very , very long time. I married her. That was 22 years ago that I asked her out, 16 years married.We take it one day at a time.
I saw myself with her for the rest of my life , and still do.
2007-10-22 17:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish women could see past the next paycheck in financial management during marriages.
My experience is that they think their husband can pay off all their bills and they do not need to save for retirement.
Did I mention that what ever they agree to before a marriage they take it back after they get married? This includes things like it is o.k. to go to the gym every morning.
I forgot to mention how once they get married they have no respect for your opinion. I tell them what I want for furniture, color of walls, other things, and they ignore you. They even get mad that you have an opinion that is not theirs.
2007-10-22 17:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by eric l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are short sighted by nature because of the short length of the gray and pink matter of their bodies. You must not judge them by their shortsightedness! Love them more for their obvious short comings. It is time for woman to do more serious tasks, like become President of your Country!
Men are at their wits end and tired! It is womans responsiblity to now take much more of a leadership role and do a good job of it!
2007-10-22 17:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer for all men of course but my first husband, a teacher/counselor/pastor, divorced me after being together 13 years and two children. I asked him if he didn't take his wedding vows seriously...the "till death do us part" ... and he said, "well, I didn't think of it being FOREVER"....so much for his attitude, huh!
2007-10-22 17:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I talk about the rest of our lives...so, I'm thinking he's thinking long term...
2007-10-22 17:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally false. Not all men think and/or feel the same.
2007-10-22 17:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are right its pretty much a one day at a time life.
2007-10-22 17:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋