I mean im 14, should 16,17, be checking me out. I mean It's flattering but all the time....and second im with my mom.why do older guys stare at me like a piece of meat?
2007-10-22 17:53:36 · 9 answers · asked by **lexus** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear girl, that is something that mother Nature gave you and is beauty and now men are checking on you. At your age you feel it like a intrusion because you just left behind your childhood and now you are changing into a woman. At the beginning that bothers and you want to be invisible, but time pass so fast and then you understand why those guys check on you. And the they that they stop doing it you are going to feel like a I smell? Something is wrong with my hair? I'm not hot anymore? We turn the guys into thermometers to prove us that we are hot. Enjoy in being a young beautiful woman, take care of your body, enjoy life and be thankful to God and your good handsome genes!!! God Bless you!!
2007-10-22 18:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by MayanPrincess@sbcgglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... because... you are a piece of meat. Until a guy cares about you for you who are. That's all he sees you as, a piece of meat. It's possible you look older than are. As long as you aren't 10 and 17 year old guys are looking at you, it's perfectly normal. As soon as that guy is over 18, that's when there is a problem. Not that you have a problem, but he has one.
Brandon
2007-10-22 17:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To guys who are 16-17 you are a girl, that;s enough. You probably look the right age and they probably check out your mom to (just more discreetly)
2007-10-22 17:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg.. I remember one time when I was 14.. I had a grown man look at me up and down and smile. I just rolled my eyes at him thinking how disgusting he was. I was 13 when I first noticed older guys looking at me.
2007-10-22 17:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by ******* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can take it however you want to but it will happen for the next 20 or so years. That is just the way we (guys) are wired. If you ever are uncomfortable, just say "Hey, my eyes are up here."
2007-10-22 18:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by asylum31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just how guys are.
Though I should mention that females do it to me all the time when I'm at the mall... I think it is just human nature.
2007-10-22 18:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I kinda be attentive to what you propose by making use of this. even regardless of the undeniable fact that i'm a guy, I artwork section time at a gas station the place a huge share of the shoppers are elderly men. i've got seen them hit on youthful girls and smile at them each and every of the time. there grew to become into this one older fellow who grew to become into hitting in this youthful female so heavily, it grew to become into ridiculous. He grew to become into even asking her if he ought to swipe her debit card for her. i'm no longer completely constructive why it relatively is. some years in the past, I took a psychology direction in college and between the flaws we observed grew to become into allure. i won't be able to bear in mind the completed tale, yet apparently it stated something like this: women people think of what's captivating is sweet, and men think of what's captivating AND youthful is sweet. those men in all probability see which you have a youthful discern, silky hair, and so on. and apparently they could stay attracted to that, irrespective of their older age. If I have been you, i could attempt to forget approximately approximately it if available. i don't be attentive to the way provocatively you gown; in case you gown slutty, you need to gown greater conservatively. even regardless of the undeniable fact that, you need to be waiting to positioned on what you like, and not ought to trouble approximately those creepy previous men. purely make constructive that in the event that they start to sexually harass you; i.e. touching you, making irrelevant comments, you tell them to their face which you do no longer take exhilaration in it. Then tell somebody you like and have faith with regard to the incident. it relatively is kinda depressing for me regardless of the undeniable fact that; as quickly as I grow to be an previous guy sometime, i do no longer desire to be like those previous creeps. i wish that at that factor i'm able to concentration on the internal impressive thing approximately older women people, despite in the event that they have not got the youthful visual allure of somebody youthful. i wish that helped slightly.
2016-10-07 10:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r pigs that do that. they're horny @ 16 and 17. any1 will check u out @ any age. comparing 2 ur mom. they think ur something cause ur mom might not b nothin'.
2007-10-22 17:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by honey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, because they're at that age when anything that walks is appealing.. actually in most cases walking isn't necessary just a plus.. lol
Or maybe your mom's hot but i doubt theyr'e looking at her :)
2007-10-22 17:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by sunshinegirl802 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋