Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

What should I do?

2007-10-11 17:56:09 · 48 answers · asked by bstar407@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

i always wondered this, but just want to hear what you guys think. i never have

2007-10-11 17:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you "hit" the "middle" of a vagina?

2007-10-11 17:55:24 · 1 answers · asked by Yancy 3 in Singles & Dating

OK yeah I'm a freshman in college and I never made out or even kissed a girl in the lips before. Cheeks and hugs yes. So if I were to ever kiss a girl for the first time, how should I do it? I know I would approach slowly and just touch lips but I don't know what happens next. So then when does the making out part happen? How will it happen? Thanks for reading.

2007-10-11 17:54:42 · 13 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 17:53:23 · 8 answers · asked by karalovesrobert 1 in Family

2007-10-11 17:52:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this guy I talk to online. I met him for the first time on Sunday, and he seemed to have fun but the next emails I got were shorter then usual, and never mentioned how much fun he had, or if he liked me? He seems a bit shy. Could it be that he's nervous and does like me? But wants to let me off slowly, and try to get me bored of him. His emails ask me "Hi how are you?" And then some random stuff that we've talked about. But nothing like "we should go out again, etc etc" I kind of feel lost. I get an email maybe every other day if I'm luck. It's only been a week. I just don't want to waste my time or be played because I really like him..but I'm not showing it because I don't want to seem desperate. I told him the night before he left after we hung out for the first time, that I had fun and wanted to do it again, and he said, sure. But that was it. What do you make of this?

2007-10-11 17:51:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you keep the flame burning as the years roll by?

2007-10-11 17:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by alone am i 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm asking this because I'm a 16-year-old boy and I'm a spanking fetishist and I'm wondering how I can expect my parents to react if they find out. I spank myself sometimes, but only when I'm home alone. But I worry that they might come home earlier than expected while I'm spanking myself one of these times. I'm also worried that one of the neighbors might overhear me spanking myself, assume either me or my sister is getting spanked by my mom, and call the police (I usually give myself very severe spanking with hundreds of swats- not exactly apropriate for a parental spanking). But it doesn't seem too likely to happen because I've been spanking myself for years without any indication that the neighbors have heard. So, if you found out your son or daughter was a spanking fetishist and liked to spank themself, how would you react?

2007-10-11 17:50:53 · 13 answers · asked by vh 3 in Family

I don't know how to kiss.. I know everyone will say oh don't worry it's easy. Just go with the flow.. but I seroiusly don't know what to do. I'm like dead nervous right now :\ and I don't want to make a fool out of myself when I kiss the guy I like tomorrow. Please help me out..

2007-10-11 17:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

a new guy has shown up on the scene and she is all over him to the extent that i'm embarrassed to be here. i mean right in front of my face.
should i bash in both of their heads with a hammer or should i just say screw them both and they deserve each other.
it's more than just damage to my pride.
it's my life that i've sacrificed everything for.
how can i let it go?
how can i let her control my thoughts and actions to this extent.
i love her. i hate her.
she made the world turn for me and now she's stabbed me in the back and the heart.

2007-10-11 17:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by Debby B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

on both our incomes?

How does that work?

2007-10-11 17:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by IAskUAnswer 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I`m an Indian.
I have been married for 3 years and have a kid. Since the beginning of our marriage, my wife is not interested in sex, she always thinks it is dirty and refuses to do it at day light or lights on. I never forced her to indulge, but she always pretended to be tired 5 days in a week. She never comes to me with her own wish, and she doesn't participate actively in it. I always feel like sleeping with DEAD body [Sorry for the word ]. I try to stimulate her by foreplay and many things, she never gets arousal, nor she do anything to me. Is it common in Indian women or all women are like that only or she has some problems? Now I came to know that she had affair before and she got married to me against her wish. Can this be the cause for her non responsive behavior?

2007-10-11 17:46:40 · 29 answers · asked by rudy3107 2 in Singles & Dating

Other than the obvious "thy shalt not lie to the one you love", nor humiliate them, or treat them as if they meant nothing, or that there are "circumstances" and therefore excuses--now if you've fallen out-of-love it is understandable--but not really, what do you expect to get from someone else? the human heart differs only in degree and proportion, but not in content. The only other thing that differs between people are all those external things that people so often use, and with a clever twist of the tongue make them justify what is to be reviled! Now I know I'm boring, also an idiot; so any creative critisism would be greatly appreciated. But please, if the question may be answered; are there any reasons in heaven or hell not to be a happy-go-lucky adulterer

2007-10-11 17:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by dazedandconf 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee told me not to bother she won't come but I want her to feel like she's wanted. She lives in Boston and we live in PA. Him and his mom are not exactly what I would call close they talk and say I love you but I've been with him for four years and only met her once when she came down when she found out he had diabetes. Do you think I should call her up and tell her about it? Or get her address and send her an invite? Or do you think I'd just be wasting my time?

2007-10-11 17:43:36 · 9 answers · asked by Wendie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy is a twin,hes really hot,and the other twin is a girl,i'm friends with her.they are like opposites,hes tall,shes not,etc...anyway,she found out i like him,and she told him.she also told me that he said something negative about me but wouldn't tell me what it was.she said i should ask him...
"Your sister Karla told me that you said something about me,but she won't tell me,so she said I should ask you..."
"*mutters* uh..i don't know...i have NO idea..."(he totally knows,cuz he knows i know that he knows that i like him,and since i asked to talk to him the day before he would have asked his sister...and its OBVIOUS)
"Well,I think you DO know"and I left it at that.It sounded so coy yet so casual.And I also figured out with one of my friends that he will tell his sis the opposites cuz he knows she will tell me!!!!my friends say i should leave it for a few weeks,and something will happen.btw,the chat was my test to see if he liked me.he was practically perspiring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-11 17:43:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is a kind and successful man. He makes great money for someone his age and under normal circumstances, would be able to live very comfortably. He's close to his family and as I've gotten to know them, I see that they rely on him more than parents should. He supports them financially and at their age that is not something I see as normal. They come to him for every want. Money for an exterminator, fine, new pillows, sure, but I was floored when his mother had the nerve to ask for a 3000 dollar water softening system. I see nothing wrong with supporting elderly parents that are no longer able bodied, as I hope that someday I'll be able to provide for my parents. I like his family and I feel bad, but it's very hard not to resent the fact that they can just take, take, take, from their child. I know he's drained but he feels it's just something he has to live with. Someday it will be "our" money, and I think it's best to address this now. Any, thoughts, ideas, or suggestions?

2007-10-11 17:36:38 · 26 answers · asked by Adrienne M 2 in Family

When I got home from my job as a server at 9:30 pm this is what I came home too: My husband had been asleep on the couch and had forgotten to pick me up like he does every night. Our three month old baby was buckled into her carseat with bankets on her chest and an empty bottle lying next to her from where he had propped her bottle while he slept. He told me she last ate at 6:30 which meant she had been in that position for 3 hours. Our two year old was crying in her room because he had locked her in there so she wouldn't get into anything while he was asleep. She hadn't had dinner yet (again it was 9:30) her pants were soaked because she had peed through her diaper (he never changed her) and all over her clothes. There was a plate of food on the couch bc he told me he just got done eating after getting up. This means he ate before feeding our daughter when it was already WAY past her normal dinner time. I'm terrified this is what happens when I'm at work. What am I supposed to do??

2007-10-11 17:36:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have 2 kids together. We are constantly seperating and getting back together. We are both in our 20's and live in Texas. Right now we do not have too much money to spend so we can't afford to go just about anywhere. Also he only speaks spanish and a little bit of english so they would have to know both languages. He tells me that he loves me sometimes and I know that he wants us to get help so that we can make it. Where can we go to get the help that we need?

2007-10-11 17:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently in the military and I am stationed in South Korea. My wife and I are newly weds so we are still trying to get into the groove of things. It has only been since I have been here that my wife has been acting wierd. For instince if I get caught up in something and I forget to call her she wont talk to me for a couple of days and now just last weekend I forgot to call her because I slept in now she doesnt want to speak to me ever again but I mean yes I love talking to her but I only have so many minutes on my phone and I sometimes just want to be alone. What should I do to make her understand? Because I don't want to lose her she is the love of my life.

2007-10-11 17:28:45 · 32 answers · asked by Travis L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin's 18 year old daughter was in a horrible car accident. She's in Intensive Care, she's in GRAVE condition, the doctors have been fighting to save her life all day and they told her family that they have tried everything they know to try to keep her alive. I'm sitting here, just waiting for a call saying she's died... and trying to imagine what her family must be going through. Their anguish must be unbearable... Even if she somehow manages to survive, she will be paralyzed or brain damaged -- maybe both.

The worst of it?? The other two girls in the car weren't hurt because THEY HAD THEIR SEAT BELTS ON. She was always 'too cool' to wear a seat belt and now her life is over. She was thrown from the car into the middle of a highway.

How does a person survive this?? How do I help her family survive this unimaginable loss?

2007-10-11 17:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by luvrats 7 in Family

Sounds stupid, but my daughter, and god-daughter, have been having a minor disagreement. In their 20's now, but acting like they use to when they were kids, lol. Looking for a video about sisters, (which they are close like that), to send to both of them. Any of you know of any videos about sisters?

2007-10-11 17:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had this friend who was a player cheated on like every girl he ever went out with and he said to me one day "i can basically have any girl I want cuz I treat so good" but in reality he doesn't. I consider myself to be a classic gentleman hold the door for her let her go in first pull out her chair for her. The best comment i have gotten in a long time was you have great eyes or a thankyou... Argh

2007-10-11 17:25:04 · 28 answers · asked by a.spencer51 3 in Singles & Dating

i know it is late in life, but there has to be something that I can do...they are pretty good kids, no drugs, home on time most evenings... Cs and Bs in school, repectful towards others just not me... they tell me that they hate me, call me a liar (I hate liars, I do not lie) tell me Im a retard, and the older one has a hard time doing most things I tell him to do... like pick up YOUR mess...stop teasing your brother, take a shower...not hard things. The disobediance is understandable...teenagers dont want to do anything but the disrespect thing, the mocking the hateful words.... I cant take it...breaks my heart

2007-10-11 17:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by Punki B 1 in Family

My Dad has never made an effort to get to know me. I recently moved out of his house and in with my Mother, and after the first few initial phone calls, he stopped answering. My Step-Mom is an alcoholic and has really effected my life in a negative way the past couple of years. I lost so much respect for them. In a way, I feel like my Father chose her over me. I used to always wish I could call myself a Daddy's Girl but I couldn't. I'm just wondering if it's too late now to try and build a relationship or do you think it would be worth it? I have so much anger towards him for the things he put me through when I was in junior high/high school (never letting me talk to boys, not letting me hang out with friends, and keeping me inside the house all the time). Should I just put my pride to the side and try to get close to him now that I'm a little older? I have this huge fear that we will never make up. I see it happen all the time. Any advice is appreciated :)

2007-10-11 17:17:17 · 11 answers · asked by Nic Nac 3 in Family

i love my mom. she's the person i care about most. and yet i always get frustrated at her. i pissed off at her easily. i can't stand her. i don't like her, but i love her a lot. does that make sense?

2007-10-11 17:16:21 · 25 answers · asked by hi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-11 17:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by JMSN 1 in Family

this guy i like well he is my ex and we are friends i guess. well anyway i just had major surgery to remove a tumor and he has not come to see me. if you had a friend who just had surgery would you come and see them ?? and he had not called in over a week . what is up with him ?? please help me figure him out ...

2007-10-11 17:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by JenN 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been going steady with the same guy for 4 months now. The first few weeks into the relashionship he was ready to have sex, but i told him that he was gonna wait a good 2 years before he would get sex from me because im not ready. I'm sixteen and still a virgin and he's 19 and hes not a virgin.

Anyways, on our third month i wanted to do something special for him (it wasent sex but it was like...sexual suff). And when i asked him he thaught i ment sex and he said "No no i want to wait because I love you to much to have sex with you." After i told him I wasent intending on having sex he said he was releived because with his ex he did it on the third month and he said the relashionship was only good for sex to him. And he tells me he loves me more than he ever loved his ex...so if he loves me more then he loved his ex what makes him think our relashionship will turn out like his preveous one...does he really love me to much to have sex with me? (even tho its not what i wanted).

2007-10-11 17:12:58 · 27 answers · asked by Caroline D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have recently married, and have wanted children for as long as i can remember, my husband also wants to have children. But i have medical problems, and i have a limited chance of falling pregnant, my husband and i have seen a gyno, and plan to start treatment soon, but i have just landed my dream job, and would like to start my career, moving further in the company, and there wont be room for children if i continue this career to it's full potential! Should i stick with my dream of having children and starting a family? Or try new options, and look at my career? Or is my want of a career only because i have come to terms with the fact i may never have children anyway? i don't want to waste my companies time by going forward and leaving later! what should i do?

2007-10-11 17:12:33 · 12 answers · asked by glorybnaughty1 2 in Marriage & Divorce