My boyfriend and I have 2 kids together. We are constantly seperating and getting back together. We are both in our 20's and live in Texas. Right now we do not have too much money to spend so we can't afford to go just about anywhere. Also he only speaks spanish and a little bit of english so they would have to know both languages. He tells me that he loves me sometimes and I know that he wants us to get help so that we can make it. Where can we go to get the help that we need?
2007-10-11 17:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't have a serious answer to put, please don't waste your time because you are sure wasting mine.
2007-10-11 17:36:31 · update #1
just break up then if you want child services and Texas attorney general after you plus your supposed to be married to have kids
call a consuler not a marriage consuler
Plus why did you have sex in the first place? YOUR NOT READY CUZ YOUR NOT MARRIED AND YOU DONT HAVE A REALLY GOOD JOB YET!!!!
2007-10-11 17:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think the best counseling you could get is by reading these two books called "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.
If you both are planning to marry, then you first need to work on your problems now. You already have 2 kids together and your kids do need two parents in their lives. How important is it for you both to keep your family together?? That's the question you need to ask. Right now, you both are only 'shacking up'. What you both need is some respect for one another and the only way you can both get respect is if you both are serious about getting married to one another. If not, then family is not important to you.
If you don't have much money, do what you can with what you have now. Also, if you both love each other, then 'change'. Change the way you think. Change your attitude. Change the way you talk to each other. Speak nicely to one another. Show love to one another. Your kids need to have two parents who show love to each other and to them.
Your boyfriend can get more help with his English by taking some classes at night. I am sure there are classes to learn English. Or, you can teach him English when he has time off of work. Help him. Help each other.
Consider in marriage if you love each other. Make it right for the sake of your 2 kids.
2007-10-12 00:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would check out your local teaching university and see if they have a mental health clinic that does counseling on a sliding scale. You might also have community counseling clinics, I'm not familiar with Texas. If nothing else, your minister or priest can counsel you for free.
2007-10-12 01:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A church or a place that offers family counseling .
2007-10-12 00:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you can check with your local mental health clinic they do it mostly based on your income.. they do in IN anyway.. good luck
2007-10-12 00:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get help if you go to your city's city hall. they can direct you to more info that can really help and normally it's based on your income so it could possibly be free.
2007-10-12 00:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by TM25 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
o I know the best place for counseling.
My house, he'll watch and I'll do the counseling
2007-10-12 00:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
try church. Pastor or priest and most of the time they are bi-lingual
2007-10-12 00:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by guido811 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
DEAL WITH WHY Y'ALL BREAKING UP AND MAKING UP. OR IS IT THE MAKEUP SEX?
2007-10-12 00:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by cats mother 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋