Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

I have an online friend who is going through something similar in his life that I am in mine. We're both going through separation from our spouses. We've never met, and we don't ever intend to, so why am I bothered that he's jumping into a relationship right away since he's left his wife?
This is not sitting well with me at all.

2007-10-11 14:08:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm fourteen years old , but I'm only 4'11. Yeah, I know I'm short. My mom is 5'5, and my dad's 5'6 ( Yeah, I know, they're short too.) I know that height isn't exactly predictable, and that many factors can be involved in this situation, but I still want to know.

2007-10-11 14:07:03 · 6 answers · asked by BlueBeyond122 2 in Family

2007-10-11 14:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had try to talk to her but she get mad every time i try and i do
want to ask her to make my self to feel better and maybe she
can tell me something that is not what i thinking but she dont let me she had change with me and she had gime lots of reason that she make me think wrong about her

2007-10-11 14:05:33 · 4 answers · asked by ANTONIOAGUILERA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Were you satisfy?..honestly!

2007-10-11 14:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all. This isn't the right category but I felt I could get better answers from people here rather than in 'singles and dating'.

I'm 21, been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and I'm hesitant to have sex.

I have a dad that cheats on my mum regularly. It's disgusting, and I see my mum suffer a lot from it. I really wish my relationship doesn't become like my parents. And so I equate not having sex as being safe from that.

Has anyone been in the same situation? Will I ever let go? Should I let my bf go and explore what I dare not?

2007-10-11 14:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 13:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have locked eyes with her once or twice, but I'm not sure if she likes me? Today she parked right next to my car, is she trying to get my attention?

2007-10-11 13:56:55 · 25 answers · asked by James the Just 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been attending many weddings and most of them are my former school mates. The last 2 weddings I went to I felt said, because I wish I was the bride marching to the altar.

2007-10-11 13:53:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here is my question in a longer version: I want to have the kind of honeymoon where we spend most of it in the hotel room lol and doing romantic things around the city. I don't want it to turn into one of our usual trips where we sightsee and such. Is this wrong of me? Should I let it influence our decision on where to go?

2007-10-11 13:53:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-11 13:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by jshppr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl in 2 of my pers. she stare at me but when i turn around she looks away.And when i try talk to her she doesnt say much back.

2007-10-11 13:49:55 · 35 answers · asked by Mastergamer 2 in Friends

I really like this guy. But he likes my best friend. He found out that I liked him, and he said that he didnt like me back but luckily I lied and said that there was a misunderstanding and that I like someone else because I didn't wanna look bad in front of him and his friends. They believed me. Last night me, my friend, and him were doing 3 way. My friend had to go and it was me and him on the phone. He said that he might ask her out. I told him that she didn't like him like that (and it was true). I really like him a lot and I tried to get over him, but I like him too much that I can't. We've really liked another guy over the summer, but our friendship didn't end when he chose me so she liked someone else. Soo we dont really end our friendship over a guy because we end up liking someone else when the other gets the guy. After school she told me that she's starting to like the guy, but he told me not to tell her that he likes her. I like him more than anyone else. What should I do?

2007-10-11 13:49:54 · 26 answers · asked by renee. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not asking - my friend wants to know

2007-10-11 13:45:18 · 24 answers · asked by sophia100 2 in Friends

I have friend who I have been friends with since middle school. When I first met her, we were in Social Studies class in the 7th grade and I was making paper stars by cutting up looseleaf. She took my stars and crushed them and threw them on the floor. We've stayed "good friends" after that. In 9th grade, we both were in the bathroom in the gym, and I was pushing my hair in a ponytail when she looked over at me and said, "You are fat. Just FAT."

Now, two grades later, I took off my glasses after having them on since the 3rd grade, and I put in colored Honey contacts. I have long hair, naturally, but I decided to put in long curly tracks with blonde highlights. After that, everyone started noticing me. (This happened recently.)

Everyone said I looked great, but surprise, surprise, here comes "Friend" who says, "What are you doing with that horse weave? Yuck!" I felt crazy inside.

Why the heck is she critisizing me like that? A real friend wouldn't do that, now would they..?

2007-10-11 13:45:16 · 38 answers · asked by DarkEyes 1 in Friends

IM me? imbored. i have really stupid questions, but whatev, so like IM me, but not if youre like, and old person, or a pedafile

2007-10-11 13:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by cool_vegetarian_girl 2 in Friends

2007-10-11 13:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by Emma; 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So there's this one guy that's like a year older than me...most of my friends don't approve but I really like him. Lately some of his friends have been telling me that he actually likes me...should I ask him out? Homecoming is this weekend and almost everyone is going with friends. What do you think?

2007-10-11 13:43:09 · 4 answers · asked by Heidi 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone is going to provide health insurance (and dental,vision) for a child does that lower child support even a little??

2007-10-11 13:41:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and after how many years after getting to know a person?

2007-10-11 13:39:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this guy in your school that you haven't seen for a very long time. You almost forgot about him until that one year. You try to look for him and see if you remember that one guy. Then you start liking him. What do you do? All your friends said that you should go talk to him the way I did with most of my friends now. So what should I do should I take their advice and ask him to be his friend? Or should I just keep it to myself and my friends that I like him? WHat should I do?

2007-10-11 13:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by angelic_singer 1 in Friends

was at work and my girlfriend sent me a text telling me how she felt about the relationship this is what was said

"This relationship is hurting me like really badly. I've tried everything in my power to make it work."

"I have to call you, I had to drive six hours away to pick you up or you would have had no way home, I had to lend you money, I always have to drive to your apartment, I had to buy you cards when we were in a fight, I had to be the one to always apologize when things went wrong."

"You pay for John at a restraunt but then tell me you can't aford to pay my share of the bill, You lend John money but then can't even afford to take us out on a date, you chose John over me to take on a hot air balloon ride over the mountains!! Who are you dating here me or John??

I'm confused....
I don't even know what to say to that.....

2007-10-11 13:37:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for what reasons.

2007-10-11 13:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Without embarrassing myself, what is the best way for a 7th grader (me) to tell a girl in my class I like her.

I don't know what to say because of this.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmdbStIT.37WSCudF.nhrXLsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071011163057AAWNIaA
Please give me advice.

2007-10-11 13:34:12 · 5 answers · asked by panhead999 2 in Friends

I have been married for 10 years have 3 kids, and over the past 3 months my husband has been cheating, I have proof and have kept my mouth shut the old let him hang himself. I want custody of my kids.. I got so upset one day I gave up alittle of the info I knew, the taking her out to dinners all the calls he was lying about etc.. SO now he has apologized to me for that part of the deciet he denys ever telling her he loves her or that it went further.. so he and the girl have come up with the situation they want to be out in the open, and for me to give my permission for them to see each other 1 night a week.. I have not given permission as that to me is dating.. I am confused as he tells me one thing then when I hit his emails I can read what he is telling her.. they text 20 times a day she calls from 6am-1 in the morning, and he was hiding it now he doesn't since "he is being honest" what he doesn't know is I know everything they have done. what would you do in this situation?

2007-10-11 13:34:09 · 34 answers · asked by baghussy222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do if you found out the guy u are with is married and has two sons. He is in the army and you have been with him for 6 months and had no idea. You hang out with his friends everyday and they never told you he was married. His wife ups and calls you one day wanting to know how u know him. She has moved back to her home town like 16 hours away. She moved back there about 8 months ago and she has a 4 year old by him and a 4 month old. And here is the bad news you are pregnant. He just lefted for iraq for the 2nd time and u tell him online that u are pregnant by him. He is cool with it until he finds out his wife has called me and knows everything. He writes me back telling me he wants me to have a abortion. His reason is that i am going to mess up his family if i have this kid. I told him i was not going to have a abortion i was going to have the kid. I told him not to worry about me because I will do this on my own if i have to and he dont have to do sh*t for me or the...

2007-10-11 13:32:43 · 2 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found one at David's Bridal that is similar to what I am looking for, however the beading is kind of cheap looking. If anyone has seen a dress like this- please let me know!

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2018&prodgroup=10

2007-10-11 13:31:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Anyone in the area know of a nice family friendly place that won't break my budget? Thanks

2007-10-11 13:31:19 · 2 answers · asked by michele46us 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do when the depression keeps coming back?
I've been depressed (major depression) for about 8 years now and for about 5 months I've managed to "get over it" and I was fine until now and I'm just kind of fed up with it. I don't know what to do. I'm losing focused in school and I'm starting not to care anymore about anything. The only thing that's keeping me going is the fact that I want to be successful in the future. If it wasn't for that I think that I would've committed suicide already I've been in a couple of bad relationship where the guy was trying to take advantage of me sexully but thankfully I never let it get to that level. To be honest I don't know how I've kept my sanity for as long as I have. I"m starting to get fed up with everything. I am currently a junior. I really want to graduate and hopefully get my MBA in graduate schools.... I"m stressing and I don't know what to do

2007-10-11 13:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been at my job for nearly a year now. There are only four other people beside me, and we enjoyed a fairly close working relationship. However, that all changed about 2 weeks ago. Out of the blue I had two completely unrelated arguments with two different people...one of them my supervisor. Both arguments were non-work related, they were personal and I felt like attacks on me.

The one I really do not care about so much because he was a jerk but the one with my supervisor stings. I do not feel like I trust her anymore. She and I were pretty close, at least so I thought, and she said something pretty nasty that really hurt.

I am pretty young and still learning how to deal with people in the work force. By nature, once I trust somebody I am a friendly, open person. I feel like that backfired on me in this instance.

Do you have any advice on how I can make things better with my co-workers? I am trying to distance myself emotionally, but it is difficult.

2007-10-11 13:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships