what would you do if you found out the guy u are with is married and has two sons. He is in the army and you have been with him for 6 months and had no idea. You hang out with his friends everyday and they never told you he was married. His wife ups and calls you one day wanting to know how u know him. She has moved back to her home town like 16 hours away. She moved back there about 8 months ago and she has a 4 year old by him and a 4 month old. And here is the bad news you are pregnant. He just lefted for iraq for the 2nd time and u tell him online that u are pregnant by him. He is cool with it until he finds out his wife has called me and knows everything. He writes me back telling me he wants me to have a abortion. His reason is that i am going to mess up his family if i have this kid. I told him i was not going to have a abortion i was going to have the kid. I told him not to worry about me because I will do this on my own if i have to and he dont have to do sh*t for me or the...
2007-10-11 13:32:43 · 2 answers · asked by More then one on this account 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby! He told me he wants to be there and then he says he dont i think his wife is in his ear tellin him to make me get a abortion. He told me that he will see the kid wheneva he wants because his mom is a worker for the social services of kids. He told me if i try to move and dont tell him where i am at he will find me and get my child takin away from me?? what would u do??
2007-10-11 13:34:27 · update #1
Oh quit listening to this social misfit, he's a cheater, a liar, a thief, an adulter, and the list oges on!! Get hold of his 1st sgt/CO, with this info, and they'll redirect his line of thinking!! garrenteed!!!!!!!!
2007-10-11 15:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to social services myself and sit down with a counselor and tell them the whole story. I would also tell my Doctor. They would be able to direct you to the right people who can help in this situation.
It's really sad another child is being brought into this mess, but it's not the babies fault and it has every right to live too.
I would kick the friends to the curb as well. What kind of friends keep something like that secret?
Oh the tangled web he weaved...
2007-10-11 20:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by NanaCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋