Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

how can i get rid of it?
yeah i know its a certain positive felling towards another person, and the other is the feeling of being loved. but why do i have to feel and fall in love?

it sucks when they dont like you back, so yeah, i hate love.
opposite of love is hate. also can you love to hate something?

well anyways i really need to know how to get rid of all my feelings before i go jump off a bridge, or do something else that will damage myself.

thank you. please tell me there is a way, either by using pills or anything.

i know there is a way, but i dont feel like dying today.

so if theres another way please feel free to save me.

no one loves me, you all just dont understand, i can never have love and i will never.

no one will ever love me, they never have and never will, i cant get these evil feelings out of my head.
god hates me!

i dont even think i would be good enough to take care of any girl anyways, so i shouldnt even try.

2007-10-11 13:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Dead account 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay my brother won't stop annoying me! If I go somewhere he just embarrasses me! IF I tell him to stop it nicely he keeps on doing it even if I shout he doesnt stop how do I stop his behaviour and get im to do the right thing!

2007-10-11 13:25:13 · 3 answers · asked by shinkō 3 in Family

2007-10-11 13:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

To make my groom and I kiss, we are going to show off some couples at the wedding reception and then make them kiss and then we will have to immitate their kiss.

For example: I'm going to have the wedding guests that are all married stand up, and narrow the group down so we can figure out who has been married that longests. When the oldest married couple is identified. They willl have to kiss and then we will copy their kiss.

I will also have out DJ identify the couple that came from the furthest away and then copy their kiss.

Figure out who has known the bride and the groom the longest... the parents of course and copy them.

But those are the only three questions I could come up with.

Any other good ideas to pick out couples in the crowd and narrow it down to copy their kiss?

2007-10-11 13:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by karebear_82 1 in Weddings

See I feel like Im in a world win of lies and hate. I REALLY like this boy but my parents think 12 is way to young to date which doesn’t matter since the boy I like, Nathan is always sending mix signals. I can't tell anyone because since he is a close friend all my friends would whistle and stuff when I talk with him or wear his coat. Even though he claims he likes a girl in the younger grade he seems skeptical. Should I let the secret go and tell everyone or keep it to myself and see what happens at the upcoming Halloween dance, since I'll be wearing a glamorous Belle dress.

2007-10-11 13:16:48 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel B 2 in Singles & Dating

how sure were you about your other one before you married him, or her? how about feelings? were you always feeling that love feeling, butterflies, like you r in heaven etc?

2007-10-11 13:16:12 · 3 answers · asked by victoria_b_maria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They just told me...
And I freaked out now they wont even tell me anything else about it, its not fair.

All they said is des your adopted and changed the subject is it fair that they wont tell me?

2007-10-11 13:15:26 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband and i were seperated for a year..he said he didnt love me anymore and that he was talking to a girl from his work. they never slept together...she wouldnt. well we've reconciled two months ago. last week i found out he was still talking/texting her. He is very sorry and says he will have no further contact with her because he loves me and our family. (we have 2 small kids) he came back because he realized we were meant for each other, he was miserable without me, and he wanted to be a family. he has vowed never contact her again. so i want to believe him but i can't trust him. to make things worse he recently got a myspace and now he's been in contact through myspace with some old gf, (his first) i know she is married and i doubt anything would ever happen but, you never know. i cant seem to trust him and i am constantly checking his cell & computer whenever i can. he tells me he loves me all the time, we're more of a couple now more then ever. i want to trust him, help!

2007-10-11 13:15:16 · 18 answers · asked by nodramafor2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not =( lol

2007-10-11 13:14:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you manage and/or integrate YOUR life with your partner? To what things do you go with him/her, or like them to come with you? What things do you not share together?

Here's why i'm asking... It's hell for me. He doesn't want anything to do with other people in my life, and says that when i am with him and his family or friends, that they all look at me weird 'cause i'm like his shadow or something. I am kinda shy but i do try to be polite. It's like we're good only when we're completely alone, and don't have a life other than being together.

2007-10-11 13:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds crazy, but I was told this last week at a party. Apparently there's this growing number of people who think it might be the same person. I just did like 100 google image searches for them and couldn't find one picture of the two of them together in the same place at the same time.
The idea is that the person who created both "personas" wanted to portray two opposites for the world - American/British, straight/gay, actor/musician... Mr. Holland's Opus was supposed to be a bridge between the two and no one got it, supposedly. If you re-watch the movie you can see there are all these side comments about England, and they keep talking about splitting oneself in half to form two different people, and in one scene Holland keeps taking his round glasses off and putting them back on again. Kind of like HELLO!!!

They were also both born in the same year - 1947. Coincidence?

Can anyone shed any light on this for me, please? Has anyone else heard of this?

2007-10-11 13:10:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Although I am so busy but I still call them, leave them messages, send them e-mails, send them messages but they do not even care. Every other day or so they reply to me.
I feel so sad and lonely.

2007-10-11 13:09:37 · 5 answers · asked by andy-mac 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf,divorced American guy, 38, business owner, travels very often.We dated 11 mos already. I am Asian, 28 still on the process of my divorce, have 6 yr old boy.
He is very nice and did a lot of sacrifices for me. Many instances that i pushed him & tried to fight with him coz we seldom dont see each other.. but he dont let me go.
There were times we spend together and had so much fun, & all of a sudden he open an issue w/c is about my divorce, asked me when it will be finalize.We dont say we love each other, but Im falling for him. Trying hard to control my feelings coz were both aware that I have to settle all the things goin on with my life.
I found him from dating website, what I did is I pretend to be another girl so I made 2 different profile and message him and he replied,makes me disappointed now. I want to confront him inregards to this but Im not sure if its okay.Do i have to just ignore what i found out & use him (for him being nice)? Or will end our communication?

2007-10-11 13:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by princessqueen 2 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing my boyfriend in a couple weeks... What look do guys like best? The relaxed look? (curly hair down, sweat pants, hoodie) or something a little more dressy? I want to look really nice for him because I haven't seen him in a while. Any suggestions?? (something memorable)

2007-10-11 13:06:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for 2 weeks, and my friend(guy) who is a good friend of her's is telling me im going too "slow"; he tells me i need to start holding her hand and then go for the kiss to "seal" the "deal".
It seems to me like thats too fast. i mean i already know her well, and she is hard to "read", for ME, but i think she diggs me.My problem is I dont know if she, OR I for that matter, is comfortable with going that fast. But i dont want to "bore" her and i dont want to trick her into thinking that there is nothing there by waiting too long.
And im not just lookin to get laid here either, so dont give me that s&*t.
She is 19, Im 19.
What is the "norm" for this situation?
Im pretty serious about this. I dont know what to do. I dont want to mess things up. AND I WONDER IF MY FRIEND KNOWS SOMETHING I DONT. should i ask him?
I was just thinking: just get a little more comfortable with her, you know, a little more open, and THEN when the time is right, formally ask her out.

2007-10-11 13:05:52 · 1 answers · asked by angry youngman 1 in Singles & Dating

k this is kinda of a weird question but from just knowing my name( carissa) what do u think is the name of my soulmate or next boyfriend?

2007-10-11 13:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke up unexpectedly last Sunday. Tuesday he writes me an email saying he is exhausted and to understand how he feels, that there is so much going on in his life (wont go into details but its is true) and that he needs time to clear his head at lest til the storm has passed or a little. I have not replied, not knowing what to do, what to say. he hurt me and I would like for him to realize that it was a mistake to push me away. how can I make him miss me? some friends say write him " I see where you come from, I understand and wish you to find happiness", others say" dont write ignore and let him miss you". what do you say? From experience or knowledge please advice.

2007-10-11 13:04:12 · 6 answers · asked by healthylifestyle 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I go with a guy named Curtis. And I also know a girl named Katrina; whom I met through a friend. Over the time, Katrina and I never really got along and recent I told her to back off and just leave me alone. [She has an anger problem and tends to break things when she's mad. Maybe it collaborates with this?] So yesterday I seen Curtis talking with Katrina and she told me he said he didn't want to date me anymore. So I went and asked him and he said he never said any of that and Katrina told him that I was easy && didn't like him && more. So shortly after that Katrina calls and says HE called me easy and I really don't know who to believe.

I tried calling my boyfriend and his phone is off. That, or he's rejecting my calls. Because he told me he got his phone fixed today and he could use it again. I really don't want to break up but I don't want to go through this so can someone please give some advice as to what I could do?

2007-10-11 13:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by °ીીી 2 in Singles & Dating

He says he's going to talk gossip with her , he's going to taco bell its just going to be them two, am I being too jealous?

2007-10-11 12:56:34 · 53 answers · asked by monkeygirl295447 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I got a C in my test, they give me an hour lecture on how they came to America, struggling blah blah blah,
(my parents are Asian). But they always supported me on my job and college.

2007-10-11 12:49:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you know still try to be polite cordial want your attention and even smile at you at times if you have been rude abrasive have you have berated and intimidated her for thins sh'es done, done harsh things to each other,she knows you are paranoid have anger issues and are an addict.

2007-10-11 12:47:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this chick. but she would not go out with me because she is bi. what should i do? help please.

2007-10-11 12:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by EL LITTLE JOKER. 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband had an affair with a manager he works with (he had moved out and was living with her). he is back now and we are supposedly making a go of it. Except it hasn't been easy, as he is angry at himself and struggles to take responsibility, and basically the upshot is we are not in a great place right now.

his work Xmas party is planned and its at an intimate party venue (there are 25 staff) partners are invited.

I expect him to take me, in fact I NEED him to want to take me. Yes I AM insecure. Everyone at his work knew about the affair and it would mean heaps to me if he took me, as they all know we are back together. There'd be a message to them if he didn't take me.

he is not sure he wants to go. I am dreading him saying he doesn't want me to go and he'd rather go on his own.

I have never met her, but I want to show his colleagues I'm OK. I can handle seeing her: i will ignore her. although it'll be tough in a small place.

any advice to get him to take me

2007-10-11 12:38:27 · 28 answers · asked by sass24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that when i see him my eyes would pop???

2007-10-11 12:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is super nice and I do love her, but I don't know if I can afford to keep up with her lifestyle. If we keep seeing each other, we may decide to get married and I don't want one of those wife that will spend all my paycheck on things she doesn't need. Do you think its best to end it now before it becomes too late. I don't want to have to worry about making a million bucks to keep her satisfy.

2007-10-11 12:34:42 · 18 answers · asked by gambitleblanc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 12:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by cscooby14 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Last night he asked me about a party him and I went to, BEFORE we were even going out which was over a year ago, and if I had done anything with his friend. I told him that I did. He broke up with me. I love him, I would do anything for him. I can't lose him. I have been crying on and off for the last 24 hours, sudden splurges during class and everything. I have tried talking to him, and I know that he loves me too. But he said he isn't gonna take me back.

2007-10-11 12:22:53 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

someone who keep playing with ur feelings... who would scar ur name and backstabs you whenever he would give the chance...and doing things to make lose ur chance with any other man... he acts like he is ur friend while he really is ur biggest enemy... it seems like becoming friend with him was the biggest mistake u made in ur life... and u will end up regretting this for the rest of ur life. but this idiot should have known you would have given up anything to only be with him. He is not giving back ur stuffs and ur dog who raised since birth
why would anyone want to see someone hurt and in pain... and if they really hate being ur friend couldn't they just tell u in the face and move on. after a year it is all over and done he still continuing spreading rumors about u to whoever he gets the chance ... why can’t he just stop!

2007-10-11 12:22:45 · 1 answers · asked by death body 21 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband pays the majority of the bills because he is in the military and brings in the most money...Car bills, rent, etc are set up on allotments before he gets paid, so he has less than $100 after everything comes out. I pay the little things like groceries, electric bill, etc.My problem is when my husband and i go out to the store after i get paid, he will want something and convice me about how much i like it (then i typically end up buying it.), or another example he will grab candy off the shelf as we are walking by and he will say "Mine" like a child just looking at me holding it close to his chest. I really hate this situation, my husband is 27 yrs old. He does this to me always after i get paid, because he has nonthing left after all the bills are taken out of his check....what is he doing and how can i get this to stop? Please help, i want to feel like a wife not a mother...

2007-10-11 12:22:28 · 19 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 12:20:45 · 7 answers · asked by lilprincesa_2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships