Well I go with a guy named Curtis. And I also know a girl named Katrina; whom I met through a friend. Over the time, Katrina and I never really got along and recent I told her to back off and just leave me alone. [She has an anger problem and tends to break things when she's mad. Maybe it collaborates with this?] So yesterday I seen Curtis talking with Katrina and she told me he said he didn't want to date me anymore. So I went and asked him and he said he never said any of that and Katrina told him that I was easy && didn't like him && more. So shortly after that Katrina calls and says HE called me easy and I really don't know who to believe.
I tried calling my boyfriend and his phone is off. That, or he's rejecting my calls. Because he told me he got his phone fixed today and he could use it again. I really don't want to break up but I don't want to go through this so can someone please give some advice as to what I could do?
2007-10-11 13:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by °ીીી 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The day I confronted him about him possibly saying all this he was avoiding me!
Also when I use to see him [before this happened] he gave me a hug and talked to me. Now, he doesn't..he'll just say hi.
2007-10-11 13:22:43 · update #1
The way I read it you have two problems---Curtis and Katrina. Although they are separate, they are also joined.Let us look at them one at a time and start with Curtis. He is supposed to be your boyfriend. That means he is expected to be loyal to you and believe in you. He knew the situation between you and Katrina; he should have said to her :that is my girlfriend you are talking about and I don't want to hear anything negative you have to say about her. Then he should have called you immediately and spoken to you on it.However, you can't even make contact with him now like he believes Katrina.Unless if he wants her and sees this as an opportunity to end it with you.As to Katrina, you already know who and what she is, hence just ignore her. I am surprised you even had a conversation with her after you saw her talking to Curtis since it was supposed to be over between you both. I am more surprised that Curtis was seen talking to her soon after that.While I don't know how long you have been dating Curtis, if he still will not talk to you on the phone, then pay him a visit. Simply ask him if he believes Katrina, and if yes, if he wants to continue the romance with you. Although you do not want to stop dating him, I suggest you start thinking along those lines since I have a sneaking suspicion he may soon start dating Katrina and not you as painful as the idea may sound to you to contemplate.
2007-10-11 14:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from what you just said, I don't think you should trust Katrina. She sounds too impulsive as it is. Sometimes the best of friends can turn into the worst of enemies. Girls are more likely to talk badly behind someone else's back -- especially when they are hurt or pissed.
Right now what you need to do is stay calm. Don't panic or pester your boyfriend about the situation because the truth will come out in time. The more you question his loyalty and nag about the situation -- the more you'll push him away. I know the situation really really bugs you so it'll be hard but you have to be patient.
Also... If a guy thinks you're easy and he's getting laid.... He won't be telling your friend that he thinks you're easy. That would backfire on him and he wouldn't be getting any. Make sense? There's a chance that she's telling the truth so see how he treats you and is using you. If that's not the feeling you get, then you know who's lying.
2007-10-11 13:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from Katrina - she's poison...Go easy with Curtis...If you cannot re-connect with him, give him enough time to make contact with you...If he does not respond, then take a deep breath, square the shoulders and move on...Remember, always take care of #1 first.
All the best.
2007-10-11 13:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by thud.fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't trust her at all...she sounds like she has a lot of mental problems (severe bipolar most likely) if you can't call him, go see him in person or text him. the phone is probably still messing up. if you're talking about a cell phone, and the carrier is cingular/at&t or whatever it is now, i wouldn't put it past them, they're crap (thats what im stuck with till the contract expires). but yeah...id believe the guy over the psycho in this situation.
2007-10-11 13:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~kim~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea please break up with him he sounds like a man that just wants to hurt u
2007-10-11 13:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋