Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

I asked this question already, but I thought I would try again for some more answers. I am waiting until I am married to have sex but I want to keep things hot between me and my boyfriend. We fool around but I want to keep things exciting. What do you guys like, besides actual sex? (If it helps, I am not a teeny bopper asking this. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 29. Things are going great but I just want some new ideas.) Thanks!

And just to be clear about this...My boyfriend respects my decision to wait. He is not a virgin but is completely willing to wait for me. He is wonderful about it.

2007-10-11 12:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy named Sunny and we were having some problems in our relationship. I told him that I need some time apart from him and he said, "ok, thanks for your love." and more that I can't say. When he said that, I feel so terrible about that. I bet he hates me now since I told him. We haven't talk for a few days already and I feel so terrible about this. I miss him so much and I really like him. So What should I do????????? Please help me with this!

2007-10-11 12:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

OK my cousins wife died recently she had lung cancer, I herd all this racist **** i have even herd in my life, i mean some were talking about how the hell did he meet her thanks god the charade is over and they wont even waiting after the funeral . that was so mean i mean come on someone just died my cousin was crying like a baby thats so horrible, what do you think

2007-10-11 12:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I just got married after 2 1/2 yrs of knowing/living together. His daughters approved of it and they love me which I am grateful for. One is 10 and the other is 9. I don't have any children from my past and my husband and I are 38 yrs. he gets his daughters every other weekend, and the second weekend out of the month a half of weekend and 2 hours during one day of the last week on a thursday. Anyways, just wanted advice as far as when it comes to diciplining the girls, if I have rights to doing that as long as it's with him or how other step-parents in my situation deal with this like me?

2007-10-11 12:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Family

I think this guy is going to ask me out...and I don't know how to say yes without sounding stupid. So...help!! haha. :]

2007-10-11 12:10:47 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa L 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted this question yesterday, but I need more opinion regarding my friend's thought: Will it work if you really try hard enough, you can get your ex back even he was with his new partner. I knew a friend of mine she got her husband back after she kept to make her husband felt guilty by leaving her. Her husband finally came back to her after his gf broke up with him. My friend said it is a happy ending, she just happy they finally broke up and my friend and her ex meant to be together. I am worry about my friend will be hurt the third time again.... Her ex left her twice for the same woman

2007-10-11 12:09:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife left me 2 months ago i don't know what to do? My wife said that she doesn't know what to do with her life.She told me that i shouldn't suffer because of her but i'm not. I try and talk to her but she won't take my calls and when i go to her mom's house to go talk to her she said not to come anymore. I'm going to stay away for a month but i do not know what to do please i want help i want to know what should i do? I love her so much i want help getting her back

2007-10-11 12:02:25 · 24 answers · asked by estrellas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 12:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My 30 year old son still lives with me but he says he wants to get involved in a relationship. However, I think he is too young to start dating. What should I do?

2007-10-11 12:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK here's the deal same guy ok? i called his cell to talk to him and he said he had lacrosse practice which i know he doesnt play lacrosse. So i called agian (i know i seem annoying) his sis picks up and i ask her where his is she tells me down stairs playing pool. So then i hang up. I call again and his friend picks up and i ask him where he is. Then i here someone in the background say in a hushed voice "im not here tell her". He;s not here his friend says whatever so i hang up. I know he's there because his friend Josh would not be over if he wasnt there. SO PLZ HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

2007-10-11 11:59:04 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 11:58:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how often does your family fightt ?
the reason why im asking this is because my family is alwaays fighting like its not little figths its yelling and its just always my dad yelling and i'll admit we deserve a little bit of the time but even everyone says he yells all the time so it puts everyone in a bad mood and makes it very stressful
i just wanna know are any other familys like this?

2007-10-11 11:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im engaged to my high school sweetheart . i felt he was my soul mate unitl ....BUMMER he cheated on me right after my sons 1st birthday. He says it was his fault not mine that he should have confronted me with the issues he was feeling(loneliness, no affection, no attention, and NO SEX!) I had a hard pregnancy that left me unable to have intercourse for a good 6mnths! yeah tell ME about it! this was my 1st baby & I was so happy. Not only did he cheat on me he also got her pregnant! of course she didnt keep it! i kicked him out for 2wks). I let him back in because he was crying not eating & tried to commit suicide. I couldnt let that happen to the father of my child! After it all happend I did it to him BUT he never found out. It was a down low thing with this guy Ive felt deeply for since 4th grade. I had dreamed about this guy since we last saw each other (3yrs) &when i saw him i couldnt resist! ive placed that behind me & am double thinking the engagement!am i wrong

2007-10-11 11:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to know what the different types of boobs are, and pictures would help. and just another question... what do girls fnd attractive in guys. ad what happens when they get horny? like guys getting an erection.

2007-10-11 11:55:38 · 24 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating

He says they dont need one... I want them to have one. We are Divorced, and share custody although they live with me and he does not visit them. (B/C he does not want to) What should I do?

2007-10-11 11:53:33 · 11 answers · asked by mj_082006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 11:53:11 · 7 answers · asked by antoqonette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a long day at work. I was unable to eat my cup-of-noodle soup during lunch time today because the stupid cup was filled with moth larvae. I had to throw it out. I had no money on me to go out and buy lunch. One of my coworkers asked me if was going to eat, but i had to lie. I haven't eaten since 5:30 this morning.
I come home hungry, only to find my 2 adult brothers and mom watching t.v doing nothing productive. Just to add, my 2 brothers had the day off from work. The first thing my mom tells me: "daughter, can you go and make pasta? There's no food ready." Unbelievable!
It's so upsetting because on weekends and my days off I cook which I never mind because I LOVE to cook for my family and I know how hungry they are when they come home from work/school. I said I was not going to cook for anyone, but myself. Plus, it was my brother's turn to cook today. (we have a schedule).
If i'm over reacting, please tell me.

2007-10-11 11:52:26 · 7 answers · asked by sunny 3 in Family

2007-10-11 11:48:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love my husband but his kids drive me crazy.The boy is 18 & the girl is 16. They swear at him, steal from him & me, & bring home kids without permission who also stole from us.ONe kid was only supposed to be there one night & finally got rid of him after 3 weeks!!!!! My husband does nothing & won't listen to what I tell him about his kids. In fact he tells me I'm the reason they are that way & "He's the man & he'll make the decisions" I have no say in this house but to cook, clean, do laundry, give him money, & buy groceries. I know he loves me, but shouldn't he put me first at least once in awhile? I'm about to leave him, as I just can't sit here night after night & listen to them talk to him that way & he does nothing. They have more freedom here then do. If I'm a bit late from work he questions me but the girl can stay out all night long every night if she wants. And he expects me to do allt he work while she lays abed. Am I a bad person or is he wrong? Been together 7 years.

2007-10-11 11:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by me just me 1 in Family

We've been married 17 yrs. High school sweethearts. Now as we mature (one of us anyway) we have grown apart. We have two children together.

2007-10-11 11:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Tee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please elaborate... thanks.

2007-10-11 11:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a problem with roleplaying online awhile back. Some of my roleplays were guy/girl but most of them consisted of me pretending to be a girl and roleplaying with other girls because i had some stupid obsession with lesbians. I did'nt look at it as cheating at the time because it "wasnt physical" but then i started to realize that it dos'nt matter because it was behind my fiance's back. I felt horrible about it and came clean to my fiance and told her what was going on. It did hurt her alot but she said she forgave me. I know I made a huge mistake. I know I can't take back what I did, do I deserve to be forgiven?

2007-10-11 11:38:21 · 24 answers · asked by jeremy_scherr531 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy at school, and my friend told him. he said he likes me, but then found out this other girl likes him. he said that he likes me more than her, and that im prettier, but then he went out with her. they broke up a couple of days ago, and he said he still likes me. just the other day, he asked another girl out. should i just forget about him? what do i do? ( i still kinda like him)

2007-10-11 11:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by *smile* 1 in Singles & Dating

ive just stayed at my LD bf for a few days and ive found out his mum had a go at him saying that im rude and i never thanked her for letting me stay. ive been trying to speak to her for 8 months but it seems when i speak to her she gives me a look of dont waste your breath. i was going to say bye to her when i left today but she had company round and i didnt want to interupt. im going again at th end of november to stay one night and im taking the xmas presents and ive got his mum her fave biscuits but is there any way for me to get her to think better about me instead of yelling at my bf about me

oh im very shy so talking is hard for me to do in the first place but i do try my best

2007-10-11 11:36:05 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 19 year old female and a full time student...who lives at home with a horrible daughter/parents relationship. i do not have a job ( i know i will get one not worried about that ) but what else can i do to take charge?? i cant stand being at home...and rent were i live for an old apartment is $1,100....i do have a loving bf but i dont want him to support me....plz any advice is welcomed

2007-10-11 11:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by finally happy =) 4 in Family

I'm a recently seperated veteran (left the service last December). I got a job as a software engineer with a web startup right after leaving the service, but recent situations have made me uneasy about my job security. Most jobs similar to what I've got require either 5+ years of experience, or a college degree. My GI bill would pay for a lot of the degree, but...
My fiancee thinks that it's a huge mistake. Every time I bring it up, or do anything toward working on this goal, she tears up. She tells me I can't handle working and going to school at the same time. I'm not rich, and know that working and going to school is the only way school is going to happen at all. I don't have a driver's license, and neither does she, but when I so much as work on getting one, it sends her into tears. She won't explain her reasoning, and cries and "shuts down" when I try to talk to her openly about it.
If i really have to do this on my own, I will, but it hurts a /lot/ that she won't even talk to me

2007-10-11 11:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by Just Jess 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-11 11:31:38 · 33 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Marriage & Divorce

need help (guys)&(girls) am i cute
idk ppl say im preatty and some guys like me and i don't like them but i like this guys and he used to like me and i have no idea what to do i need help badly (he dosn't talk to me anymore)

2007-10-11 11:31:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he doesn't hit me or anything, it's like he avoids me. I'm also scared of him.
any advice?

2007-10-11 11:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by n986621 2 in Family

Ok here's the deal. I like him. I think he like's me. We sit by choice next to each other in classes. He's super funny and really cute. He hangs around alot and talks to me alot BUT, when ever im around his friends or anyone else he freaks out and leaves. Was it something i did? Plus i hav a dance this friday and a buncjh of guys already asked me but i said no to every one. That's because im waiting for him to ask me. My friend thinks he's going to. SO PLZ HELP!!!

2007-10-11 11:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating