how often does your family fightt ?
the reason why im asking this is because my family is alwaays fighting like its not little figths its yelling and its just always my dad yelling and i'll admit we deserve a little bit of the time but even everyone says he yells all the time so it puts everyone in a bad mood and makes it very stressful
i just wanna know are any other familys like this?
2007-10-11 11:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-10-11 11:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
All families have disagreements and fights but there should not be daily yelling. I do not yell very often. Things should be discussed not yelled about. I am a 39 year old married mother with a 17, a 14 and an 11 year old. I hope things get better for you. Try not to make him mad a little more.You say you deserve a little bit. What is it that you do? Somethings are just not worth yelling over.
2007-10-12 01:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting accures very often among families. My parents did the same thing....which my brother and I took along with us. It is not good at all to hear or watch all the fighting. I am now in a relationship and I deal with my anger by yelling. I have a young son that I try not to argue in front of. Families always fight but some do it differently. Don't ever feel like it is your fault because it is not and never will be. It sounds like your dad has some issues including an anger problem. That is okay...my dad was the same. Have you tried talking to your mom about it? Or even a counselor. Good luck and hang in there. Keep your head up and always remember it is not your fault and your a special person!!!!
2007-10-11 19:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sadbrowneyes13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a house where my mom yelled all the time. 6 kids and 1 barely ever home husband...so I can see now where her stress came from. So, I know how you feel. I decided when I became a parent I didn't want that for my family, but every now and then I stress and yell, but will apologize later. No one "deserves" to be yelled out, there are other ways of dealing with children. Good luck
2007-10-11 19:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Juan A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to answer this, but:
when my parents were together, they didn't fight often, but they got ticked off very easily, and there were those little arguments. And when they were really mad, they would not only yell, they'd get physical about it. They'd push each other, bang things and slam doors. It frightened me, expecially when I was younger. They were worse when I was younger - until the separation.
If you want to try reduce the amount of yelling you have to hear from dad, go out more, with your mom and the rest of your family to eat dinner or just go to the park. Or, you can ask your dad's friends to go hang with him instead.
2007-10-11 19:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. I grew up in a family like that too. It's not easy and it stays with you your whole life. I am a parent now and I have to stop myself from yelling at my kids too. Trying to break the cycle. It sounds like your dad is stressed out too and doesn't know how to deal with it and ends up taking it out on you guys. Try to hang in there and know that even if you do deserve it sometimes (all kids do!) most of the time when he does it probably doesn't even have any thing to do with you. Lots of families are like this. It's really too bad. Good luck.
2007-10-11 19:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by corriegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RESPECT. Look up that definition online sweetie. I am soooo sorry that youu are suffering right now.. Suffering is not fair. There are ways to deal with it... number one... pray... number 2.. don't pass that on to your family... do a search online of signs of domestic violence... being constantly yelled at, name calling etc.. is that.. if it is too bad please talk to your guidance councelor or call a crisis line and ask what to do... no, it is not an anomoly, it is everywhere, there is always someone who wants to be top dog and control everything... but respite can be found in a church youth group too.. and talking about it... take care hon
2007-10-11 19:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Deborah C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sad for you. Maybe you could talk about how this makes you feel to him? Or would it not matter.? Can you ask him what would have to happen for him to stop the yelling? All I can say is study very hard in school so you can get a great job and have your own peaceful place.
2007-10-11 19:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My family is fighting a lot! My brother is 14 *(he needs anger managment*) and he always yells about sumple things like --- MOM YOU DID NOT WASH MY SHIRT FOR TODAY and hurts me and my sister for no reason....
2007-10-11 19:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other families argue, yes. But all families are different. Some fight silently. Some fight loudly. Some silent fights are worse than loud ones. And I know some fathers are always angry types. It doesn't make it right, but that's how it goes.
2007-10-11 19:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by DutchessRain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of us yells only when we're really mad, which isn't real often. Sure, we fight - if couples never fought, something would be wrong. We bicker, that sorta thing, and I don't know how often, not every day, not even every week. Just depends.
2007-10-11 19:01:11 · answer #11 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋