OK here's the deal same guy ok? i called his cell to talk to him and he said he had lacrosse practice which i know he doesnt play lacrosse. So i called agian (i know i seem annoying) his sis picks up and i ask her where his is she tells me down stairs playing pool. So then i hang up. I call again and his friend picks up and i ask him where he is. Then i here someone in the background say in a hushed voice "im not here tell her". He;s not here his friend says whatever so i hang up. I know he's there because his friend Josh would not be over if he wasnt there. SO PLZ HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
2007-10-11 11:59:04 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means he likes u or ur annoing or that he doesnt want to talk 2 u
2007-10-11 12:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, the fact is you don't trust him and that is why you call him too many times a day. You will never be happy with a boyfriend you don't trust. He unfortunately doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do for him. A boy will show interest in the girl he is with by calling her. He won't wait for you to call him or he will tell you to call him if he thinks someone else in your house is going to answer the phone and he doesn't want to have a conversation with your whole family.
Leave him and find yourself a better boyfriend. Try going to school dances or go to church. You will find a better boyfriend at these places. Let the boy approach you. If he is interested in you, he will approach you. You definitely don't want to call a boy over and over. A good boyfriend will call you! Remember that! If you call him more than once a day, with the only exception being that you two got into a disagreement, then he will feel like he is being interrogated by the police. You want to feel secure and your doubts with this boy are making you call him all the time. You would not be calling him all the time if you felt that there was no reason to not trust him.
As someone else stated, he is not the one for you. You are a good girl who wants someone to pay more attention to you and you will find that boy out there. The love of your life will come around eventually either sooner while you are young or later when you are older.
2007-10-11 14:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound brutal, and I'm sorry but the truth hurts.
You are acting a bit stalker-ish. Leave him alone, he IS avoiding you.
For whatever reason, you don't seem to fit in his agenda right now, and it may not even be your fault. But the more you keep pushing , the further you are going to drive him away.
Let it go, even though you may not want to, I promise something better will come along in time.
You should stop calling him immediately, erase his number from your cell. Out of sight, out of mind. Occupy yourself with things you l ike to do, just keep yourself busy so you won't think of him.
If he calls you, avoid him a little bit, then if you absolutely must...take his call. Otherwise, I think you need to lay back and pay more attention to yourself.
2007-10-11 12:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by Elle Sparks EXiT 9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your too youthful to date. Your about 11 or 12 top? Yeah it truly is too youthful. I wasn't allowed to date until eventually i changed into an top classmen in extreme college. in spite of that I nevertheless had a large number of obstacles. And a sixth and eighth grader is purely undeniable extraordinary.
2016-10-09 01:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by favaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is avoiding you. Yes definetly avoiding you. The best thing to do is to quit calling him and trying to talk to him for a few days. If after you give him a little time alone he still seems like he is avoiding you then just drop him he seems like a jerk then. If after a few days he starts talking to you again then maybe before he thought things were going too fast so just give him a second chance. But definetly stop calling him he'll just think your desperate if you don't stop.
2007-10-11 12:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by simplyxsweet23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it. go to his house. set up a date, something.ask a friend keep an eye on the girls he hangs out with, when a boy was avoiding my sis like this it turned out he was cheating on her. and if you call and his friend answers and you here him say that, then say that you can here him,and demand to talk to him. also look at how you behave i rewind a relation shiop by being bossy.,and make shure that your not with him every waking minute, he needs some guy time.
2007-10-11 12:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete loser! He doesnt have the %@##$ to tell you himself that he doesnt want to talk. Guys like that are losers! You should drop him, and stop calling him, when a girl calls a guy too much they seem desperate and i know u dont want to seem that way. So just move on, you dont need a jerk like that you deserve better.
2007-10-11 12:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
quit calling him! If you know that he's avoiding you then quit putting yourself in that position. Do not call him and if he ever calls you just tell him your not interested in talking to him any more you deserve to be treated better then that and there are plenty of guys out there that will be interested in you and won't play games with you and be mean and rude.
2007-10-11 12:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by hotblonde3380 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the a**hole alone. You deserve better. I know the natural tendency is to refuse to believe we're being avoided or rejected but just chalk it up to he's an a**hole and better to be someone else's problem. The longer you waste your time with him, the less time you'll have to find someone much more worthy of you.
2007-10-11 12:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Gretta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok hun he is obviously avoiding u so sorry he's being a jerk first off. second stop calling. if he doesn't want to talk then don't keep forcing it. confront him face to face and ask wuts going on then just drop it and move on. don't waste ur time with a guy like him u deserve better! :)
2007-10-11 12:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're being really obsessive, clingy, and bordering on stalkerish.
I would avoid you too.
Sorry if it sounds harsh, but you're probably freaking the guy out. If he wants to be away from you, just let him. You don't need to know where he is every second of every day.
2007-10-11 12:02:31 · answer #11 · answered by Kaydence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋