Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

okay. im a girl and i guess you could say im a little shy. but lately i feel like a total outsider at school. my friends all seem to either ditch me, or we just dont connect like we used to. my one best friend was like ignoring me today. i just dont know where to turn. like i have a ton of guy friends but i just dont feel accepted in my groups of girl friends. today i joined a club to make some new friends, but i felt like i didnt belong. im not trying to sound all b-itchy, but im not ugly or weird or fat. im just a normal girl trying to make it thru high school. so what do i do? should i change my personality or something so im more outspoken/outgoing? i feel so alone at school and a total loner.

2007-10-11 11:24:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can i get married at the age 15 ? cuz am plan to ? yall to

2007-10-11 11:22:17 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

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i need help (guys)&(girls) am i cute
idk ppl say im preatty and some guys like me and i don't like them but i like this guys and he used to like me and i have no idea what to do i need help badly (he dosn't talk to me anymore)

2007-10-11 11:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents talk crap about me all the time and no it's not true . so i quit talking to them. i feel i made the right decision i was wondering has any one ever made a desion like this before and have it backfire in their face?

2007-10-11 11:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 3 in Family

If it is within the rights of one spouse to choose to not to want to have sex should it be within the rights of the other to not to share their disposable income?

Note that disposable income is surplus income that is beyond paying the bills.

2007-10-11 11:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think they don't want him cause their not getting no more money once he turn 18. I'm 30 and I'm all he has to help him right now I have no kids. My brother is "slow" special ed or ADD. How can I get Assistance for and programs to help him mature?

2007-10-11 11:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-11 11:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by linzee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-11 11:13:42 · 23 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Marriage & Divorce

everytime i see him he says i knew i smelled fish and i have him for a class and every 5 minutes he says i smell like fish
and then i hit him on the leg and he said why are u trying to grab my balls and i said im not. stop wearing your pants so low
and he told me stop wearing your pants so tight
it makes me so mad!! what do i do or how can i make him feel how i feel

2007-10-11 11:07:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-11 11:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause this guy went up my shirt and almost down the pants.....i didn't know what i was supposed to do and i didn't know what it meant so i let it happen....is that good or bad?

2007-10-11 10:59:52 · 34 answers · asked by jazziqueen8 1 in Singles & Dating

This was on the Kane morning show for 99.5 hot in Washing dc.
Kane the host of the show did not think it would be cheating if a guy slept with his ex wife even if he had a new girlfriend. He said you can't cheat with someone you've already had sex with. It isn't cheating it's ex sex, a relapse. Thoughts?

2007-10-11 10:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by XxAshes2AshesxX 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 relationships and 2 are spanish guys! I kept liking spanish guys and I don't know why! Am I spanish-guy crazy or have in bad taste with boys? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-10-11 10:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of two years just kicked me to the curb and told me he never really loved me. well my bestfriend (a guy) is coming into town this weekend and i feel like if i..... "do things"..... with him ill feel better but i know that would ruin our freindship cause I dont really have feeling for him in that way and im pretty sure he doesnt either. please stop me!!!

2007-10-11 10:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to be your own independent person when married.

2007-10-11 10:40:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay im in the situation where i dotn know what too do i like 3 people 2 of my best friends(that are girsl and ) this girl named jordan i dont know if what i feel for my two friends is love or if its me just caring for this so can anyone help me out and tell me or try to exsplain what exactly whats going on?

2007-10-11 10:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by fantasyfreak1015 1 in Friends

a guy came up to me today & he told me tht i was going out with a guy tht hasnt been circumsized yet?
i was like wtf...
what does it mean!?

2007-10-11 10:37:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal:
A while ago, my dad wanted to take me out for my birthday, but I only would go if my sister would go (my parents are separated, but not divorced) . So we went with him. Then he says he wants to take me out shopping another time so I can get some 'other' clothes (apparently he doesn't like what I wear. but, whatever.) So I just pretended I forgot it for a while (more like two months) but I saw him again the other night, and he still wants me to go. But now my sister won't go because shes too D*MN STUCK UP! I definitely wont go by myself, so now I don't know what to do. He was really mean (verbally abusive and abusive on our animals) when we lived with him, but apparently he is a "Changed Man" now.

Also if you want to see EXACTLY the kind of things he does, here is an example: My mom was talking to him a year ago, when she got this weird look on her face. So I said "what?" then she gets off the phone and tells me my dog died and my dad didn't want to tell me. EVER!

2007-10-11 10:33:05 · 5 answers · asked by caligirl1994 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 10:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by skyes 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-11 10:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime I get a boy and he finally likes me, I no longer like him! ugh. It gets on my nerves. I just wanna be happy with someone! It's like as soon as the game is over, I'm over them. How can I change?

2007-10-11 10:26:31 · 4 answers · asked by Deeda 3 in Singles & Dating

the night my boyfriend finished me i was out with some of my guy friends. i knew one of them liked me rather alot. and whn they found out that he had finished me they were asking me to kiss him and i really didnt want to ! finially they forced the two of us together and when he kissed me i tried to back off but he had hold of me. i didnt talk all the way home but my ex found out. i still really like my ex and want him back but he told me that he doesnt think we will be together again and im heartbroken how can i make it up to him. ?!

2007-10-11 10:23:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work full time and we have an almost 3 year old. So it is hard to do anything else. Sometimes laundry that is done will stay in baskets needing to be put away for over a week. And dishes will stay in the sink for 4 days! I have asked him to help out but he never does!!! And I just cannot do EVERYTHING alone!!

2007-10-11 10:22:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 10:21:44 · 10 answers · asked by talkingator 1 in Weddings

I live in Ohio. My Uncle and Aunt live in Ponte Vedra Florida .. thats where they got married, on the beach.

It was gorgeous and i've always wanted a beach wedding.
My Grandparents drive to Florida to see them every few months. Take about 8 hours to get there.

We're only having about 60 people at our wedding. Just close family.

Do you think this would work? =)

2007-10-11 10:20:00 · 4 answers · asked by Animal Rights 2 in Weddings

so a few weeks ago my boyfriend of a year (he is 30 I am 36) told me he wanted to tell me something and he was going to but suddenly decided not to and said he wanted to wait for the right moment. Ok, so a few weeks later silly me asks him what he wanted to say to me and this is his response: " I love you very much and I am looking forward to our future" and to answer your question " I am working on it". I know what gutt feeling is, but i do not want to get my hopes up....what do you all seem to think?

2007-10-11 10:18:57 · 25 answers · asked by one Life to live 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all.

thay is a girl who i am meeting 2 mozs.
Who i like.
But she dont know i like her.
How can i let her know or how can i aks her out
She dont have a bf so that is good.

Plzs help asap.

Thxs.

2007-10-11 10:16:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did that work out for you? Did she ever find out? How?

2007-10-11 10:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Background - We are both first year University students. I am several years older than this girl I like.

Last weekend hung out on the couch, watching tv, got close but didn't put my arm around her. Next day watched movie in theatre, put arm around her, given the receptive "lean" into the shoulder. Gave her small kiss at the end of the night. She is very very shy, so it was a very quick one.

I asked her today if I could take her out to dinner, and she said that it sounded alright, just had to see which night was available, friday or saturday (relatives coming to town one of the days).

Like I said she is shy, things go well, we chat, I bring up anything about getting closer, she seems to tighten up a bit, yet when we actually hang out (like at the movies) she lets loose a bit more. She says she likes me, just wants to move slowly.

So am I getting mixed signals, or she is just shy? We've gone out for lunch and stuff before and seen movies together, but never a nice dinner.

2007-10-11 10:11:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The children are teenagers, 3 girls, 2 boys, I do not have any kids myself. The mother is in jail for drugs and other felonies. I love him alot but I have had enough of the disrespect, stealing my rings, pants, shirts, anything they never ask to borrow, they just take and I never get it back. He makes them say sorry and does nothing about the problem. some times he will give me money to replace my things, but not often.

2007-10-11 10:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by diva#one 1 in Marriage & Divorce