my boyfriend of two years just kicked me to the curb and told me he never really loved me. well my bestfriend (a guy) is coming into town this weekend and i feel like if i..... "do things"..... with him ill feel better but i know that would ruin our freindship cause I dont really have feeling for him in that way and im pretty sure he doesnt either. please stop me!!!
2007-10-11 10:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? I wish for you to learn a vaulable lesson. Go ahead. Its karma, or whatever you what to call it working its magic. Lets see how you like being in the same place as your ex there. Maybe seeing it from both points of view well help you see how to avoid it better by yourself. Are maybe you'll find out thats exactly who you are. But were not powerless to our own behaviours we just lie to ourselves to make it that way. So maybe you burn your hand enough, you'll learn. Besides the truth is we all feel for each other, thats another lie we tell ourselves. Just like your ex did to you, you'll do to him, lie about the feeling. Its not about "love" its about HOW you love. So if you don't want to love your friend, well he wasn't a friend anyways, just someone you called your friend. But I don't think thats true any more then I believe your as cold as your ex. What you'll find out is the truth. That your ex lied to you about not caring, he just didn't know how to.
2007-10-12 08:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋