He broke up unexpectedly last Sunday. Tuesday he writes me an email saying he is exhausted and to understand how he feels, that there is so much going on in his life (wont go into details but its is true) and that he needs time to clear his head at lest til the storm has passed or a little. I have not replied, not knowing what to do, what to say. he hurt me and I would like for him to realize that it was a mistake to push me away. how can I make him miss me? some friends say write him " I see where you come from, I understand and wish you to find happiness", others say" dont write ignore and let him miss you". what do you say? From experience or knowledge please advice.
2007-10-11 13:04:12 · 6 answers · asked by healthylifestyle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel what you can write to him will change his mind or somehow lighten his load, then sure...go ahead and reply.
2007-10-11 13:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a lot going on in his life, the reason that he broke up may have been depression to the point he thought he was not worthy of you. I would not worry about making him miss you - he does or he wouldn't have sent the e-mail - but instead I would reply that you are there for him but he has to let you help and not shut you out. After that, the only thing to do is to see what he does. have felt depression a few times in my life where I wanted to enjoy my own misery and that may be what he is doing now. Good luck to you.
2007-10-11 13:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You factor out how he ruined your existence, yet undergo in techniques you're the single which cheated on him. dishonest is the most disrespectful component all of us can do in a courting. you want to sit and picture about each and every thing. ignore about what he thinks, what's it you want? do you want to work out him? have you ever pictured being married to him? it type of feels as though he travels plenty so are you going to be able to put up with that?? How will issues exercising recurring for you in case you stay so a tactics aside? lengthy Distance relationships do not paintings no be counted what all of us tells you. I recommend you're taking issues one step at a time and probably he purely needs to fool round or purely dangle out. be certain out what you want and then be certain no matter if to work out him or not, have a espresso and talk, you receives your solutions then, sturdy success
2016-10-09 01:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so ironic because I'm going through pretty much the exact same situation. I would do both. Don't reply for a couple days, then tell him that, then ignore him for a couple days again.
2007-10-11 13:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont write back. if you truly want him to realize then dont do anything. then hell be like "dam, i really f*cked up."
gl & peace!
2007-10-11 13:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont reply...that is what he wants you to do.
2007-10-11 13:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋