He says he's going to talk gossip with her , he's going to taco bell its just going to be them two, am I being too jealous?
2007-10-11 12:56:34 · 53 answers · asked by monkeygirl295447 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes... Jealousy sucks and can be a bit controlling. Give him the benefit of the doubt, and just keep 'your ear to the ground' if you are still feeling uneasy.
Perhaps suggest that you may be able to go out next time with them as a threesome.. Your husband might respect you for it and like the idea of you approving things. And then suggest that she brings along HER OWN partner! :o)
2007-10-11 13:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is okay and do not get jealous for nothing. Taco Bell is very busy at lunch time and this place is no romantic atmosphere and it is not a dinner date. Take it easy and do not over react.Your husband is not cheating if he tells you where he is at. Remember let the man have a space then everything will be all right.
2007-10-11 13:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. it sounds kind of suspicious - even if it is the truth. you are not being too jealous. i don't think it's okay. just to be on the safe side, if there's some way you can keep him from going then i think you should do so. why would he gossip with a former co-worker anyway? sounds kind of weird, don't you think? but if he had the nerves to tell you that then you should be able to trust him... or maybe that was his intention (to make you think you can trust him). if you don't want him to, he should respect your opinion and call of this little gossipfest he's supposed to have. if he makes a fuss about it then maybe, it was more than just a gossipfest. good luck with your situation! hope this was helpful.
2007-10-11 13:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by anonymiss. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's told you about it, yes? So don't worry, it'll really just be gossip. Sometimes you can drive away the people you love by being jealous, if he had something to hide you would never have known about his taco bell thing, now would you?
Just read some of the other answers: if it's any help, one of my best friends is a bloke, and my fella used to get a bit out of shape about it too, until he met my friends wife, no idea why that made him feel better but it just did.....friends are friends, regardless of their sex, you know...
2007-10-11 13:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by scooter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would depend on the basis of your relationship. My husband has coffee with ex-co-workers who are female but he always tells me about it. Once we even went out to dinner with two women co-workers of his. He was just thrilled to be having dinner with "three beautiful women" as he puts it. Get your husband to introduce the two of you, then maybe you would feel better about it, or you could go along if he invites you along. If not, just let him go, especially since he's told you about it and is not hiding anything. How long can lunch at Taco Bell take anyway?
2007-10-11 13:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Deanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure on this one, especially when a male says he's going to talk gossip. This rings my alarm bells as one thing can lead to another and then it becomes a real hot lunch. Only you know your husband as we all don't, so you should have some idea how strong or weak he is in the presence of another woman.
2007-10-11 13:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being to jealous. Lunch at taco bell? Come on now. What are they gonna kiss over a Mexican Pizza? If he is going to cheat, it will happen regardless of you being jealous or not. Instead, be his love slave the night before and odds are he will concentrate on the food because he will need the nourishment.
2007-10-11 13:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by spy99gsx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all there is to it then yes, you're being too jealous.
The operative words in that question were " former co-worker" as in someone he used to work with. Not therefore an ex-lover or wife.
I have had many *many* lunches with former co-workers of both genders where I have indeed gossiped about my former workplace and never once has my wife raised so much as an eyebrow.
Remember your husband chose to marry you. If he'd wanted to have sex with this woman, then presumably he'd have chose her instead. So stop fretting.
2007-10-11 13:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you even have to ask if you have a right to be jealous of your husband meeting a former female co-worker at Taco Bel for lunch, then yeah! You're being ridiculous. When he can't account for his where-a-bouts throughout the week and you notice $60-$80 withdrawls every week from your bank account once or twice a week, then you can start to worry. Til then, don't be one of those wives that nags and harps on their husbands. As if THAT ever gets him to act the way you want!
2007-10-11 13:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
'Okay' is a very relative term. What is okay for one family many not be okay for another. The most important thing is that you are comfortable with your husband going to lunch with someone else. If the situation makes you unconfortable you should talk to him about it and explain how you feel. You need to ask yourself if you trust him at lunch.
In my opinion, it is just an informal lunch with a friend and there is no problem. But it is not my opinion that matters, it is how you feel.
2007-10-11 13:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋