Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

i was on the birthcontrol pill and it didnt work i got pregnant my husband wasnt so happy with the news he told me to get an abortion i told him that i wouldnt , so he told me to choose between him and the baby i said the baby now he wants a divorce he got really mad he told me that he was going to hit me in my stomach so i can loose the baby now hes telling me that he wants me out of his house and that he wants a divorce hes tells me his not going to help me with the baby , he only wants to take responsability with our first child shes 4 yrs old what can i do hes being really mean telling me that hes going to hit me. the house is under his name so gave me a month to go some where else what can i do. he told me to wait for the divorce papers.

2007-10-11 15:48:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 15:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a real pain and comes out whenever I meet new people. Once I get to know people it goes away but until then it's pretty embarrassing and I come off as insecure, or odd. It's especially embarassing when I talk to guys. How can I get rid of or at least tone down my stutter?

2007-10-11 15:45:02 · 2 answers · asked by Carrots and bunnies 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 10 months. My husband has hit me twice before our marriage. Each time he said that he would never do it again. After we've been married, he has hit me twice again, and I have feared for my life. He said he would kill me, and he caused bruises. I know it sounds bad, but all the time, I kept thinking that I provoked him and it's my fault. I threatened to leave and go to the police, but I couldn't, I was scared. I had faith that we could work it out. I told my parents a week ago about everything. They are beside themselves and I am an emotional wreck. I want a separation, I am 25 years old, a graduate student with a future, no kids involved. My husband is 34. I care for him as a person but I don't think that we were ever meant to be together. Our relationship is empty and I am tired of pretending to love him. Our relationship has made me depressed, unable to function. I want out, but I care for him and am afraid to be alone and find a new apartment.

2007-10-11 15:43:01 · 10 answers · asked by Confused.... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy from my school, who always talks to me when I go online, so we're kindda friends now. But it's weird, cuz well talk about who he thinks is the cutest girl, and like about his past girlfriends... Maybe he just says that cuz he wants me to think he has a life, but here's the weird thing, he tells me I'm pretty all the time, and when I see him he plays with my hair, and hugs me and stuff. But once, for no reason whatsoever, he spontainiously came up to me and said, "I don't like you, like you," wtf?? does he like me.. or not?? How important can it be that he says im pretty?? Do you think he really means I'm pretty or is he just trying to be friendly??

2007-10-11 15:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

U also have to live in Lawrenceburg or Frankfort Kyand u have to be a boy im looking for a hot boyfriend cause my other one broke up wit me so please be my boyfriend im 12 ♥♥♥♥♥ im hot and i like skater bois

2007-10-11 15:41:48 · 7 answers · asked by lexan o 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date a girl who's had plastic surgery? Or do you frown upon it? What do you think that having had plastic surgery tells you about a girl? Does it matter, or not at all?

2007-10-11 15:40:12 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Singles & Dating

I said that I want A, B, and C and I got it...but I still don't feel like I have enough. Men please keep your answers to yourselves....unless you are serious

2007-10-11 15:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 49 and have been with this man for 18 years total. He's been having what he calls "a friendship" with a woman at work, a woman I have known (and been friendly with) for about 10 yrs. He travels for work extensively, they have talked day and night (more than he and I) since late last year. They were originally using office 800 and main numbers to keep me from seeing their calls on OUR cell ph bill. Now I find he's even changed travel plans to get back in town early to see her, yet he swears they have not had sex and are only friends. He wants a divorce so he can "find himself". They don't hide the numbers anymore cause they think I can't see it, but they start calling or texting each other at 5AM or so and go all day and night! He wants out, but had no plan as far as how we would separate and we can't afford to rent another place for one of us, so we're also stuck living in the same house. I'm devastated - I also get angrier than I knew possible, but the hurt is crushing me.

2007-10-11 15:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by abigal s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am madly in love with the woman of my dreams and want to have the most amazing proposal. It will be fun to read about thoughtful ways men have proposed to the women they love.
Any advice will help. I am just looking for as many ideas as possible

2007-10-11 15:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when yr mom fell in the lake yr love try to save her and he or she instead of saving yr mom yr love cant swim, who do u save first? and why

2007-10-11 15:35:51 · 5 answers · asked by mystic m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like about four girls one is funny , one is cool ,one is slutty ,and the other one always fulls around ,and finally there is the smart /funny one i wanna ask on to the Halloween dance which should i ask to the dance?

2007-10-11 15:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by chaz 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds strange but I blew this guy off ,and now I think about him 24 hours a day, and have wierd thoughts and would do anything to be with him, I think he cast a spell on me!

2007-10-11 15:33:02 · 4 answers · asked by MS.KEESHA 2 in Singles & Dating

Last 3yr we are in court, X party Sec-9 order given to her. Both family perents fights, She was tried marry my friend by chopping relationship legaly by false 498 to obtain Divoce & abstract money. She is asking setlment of cases & returing matrimonial for child. Judgement is expected M.A. to child Rs.3000/- per month. (1)498A. 125 will withdron if I
(1)share shop title with son. (2) Purchase Flat on joint name (3) Son & wife not keep any reletion with my perents in future.

2007-10-11 15:31:21 · 3 answers · asked by Sadanand 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 15:29:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is on her way. YES. This is a women who helped me paint my mothers kitchen and at the end she gave me her number. she called me first, she came over yesterday, we were inturupted. I called her, now she is coming over. GOOD or BAD? Does she want me? Condom?

2007-10-11 15:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Singles & Dating

Its very hard for me to trust people and tell them my secrets and my friends want to know my secrets and stuff i dont know if i should we have been friends for a long time what should ido

2007-10-11 15:24:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This cute little adorable kid is in a class of mine (mixed with seniors and freshmen) im a senior and think this kid was a freshman, he was so tiny and adorable, i said so to my friend and his friend over heard and told him. I know guys especially that age like to be all macho, but i didn't mean for him to over hear me, and then the kids friend who heard me say it came up to me and said he would like to talk to me so i said he was gonna have to come to me cause i was too tired to move and he never did. Did really embarrass him? i didn't mean to. what should i do? i feel kinda bad

2007-10-11 15:19:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being pleasant is one thing, but he goes over the top with his foolish flirty behaviour which is embarrassing me, since this is a small town and he has a high profile job.

2007-10-11 15:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by kip 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom does not accept that I like being a punk/goth. I like the way they dress and I am a nice, kind person who is popular with many friends, but my parents don't understand that I love rock and metal and being this way. They make comments that hurt me like "I'm nasty" and "I dress like a vampire". HELP

2007-10-11 15:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had been dating this really nice and sweet guy for about 2 months everything was going great than he just out of no where dumps me...i was so shocked..does anyone know things i could do to get him back or make him jealous?..../..things i could do to heal?

2007-10-11 15:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I've known for 2 and half years and I don't know why, but she doesn't talk to me that much. You use to talk to me a lot, but she has been acting wierd. I'm a intelligent and not a cocky guy. We're both in 9th grade. The problem is that I'm a shy guy around her and I don't have a high amount of confidence. Also, I have sometimes very low self-esteem. I think she might like another guy and I have been getting heartaches on what to do. I feel like I should either quit our friendship or ask her out. I don't know what to do? When we're both in the on class that I have with her, she seems to stare at me. I can on the tip of my eye, I can see her staring at me or something in my direction since we sit on the opposite side of the room. What should I do? Please Help!!!! Thank you for people who respond to this question. Finally, please no stupid or dumb replys to this question

2007-10-11 15:12:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright me and my gf told each other that we wouldnt tlk to these two ppl cause all they did was come in between us. so i agreed and stopped talking to my best friend (that was a female) but i find out that she's talking to my ex best friend..and i think that they like each other..my gf is bi..like on msn every personal msg is about her, and today she did nothing but texted her..what should i do? i need help fast :(

2007-10-11 15:12:33 · 7 answers · asked by Tj J 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends uncle almost raped me when I was 12. Now I have a boyfriend and I can't seem to want to get close to him or have him hold me and I always seem to get a weird feeling in the pit of my stomach when he touches me, and not a good feeling. Is it because I am afraid because of what my friends uncle did to me? Can someone please give me some advice?

2007-10-11 15:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Marriage might very well be on its way out. Infact, probably is. But just because marriage is gone, remember one thing. . . people will always be the same. Selfish, greedy, lazy, liars, CHEATERS, user and no good. If you honestly think getting rid marriage is gonna "fix" our problem. If the best we can say about our these days is yeah were all those things and then sum. Maybe even worse. . . But at least you save some money a divorce lawyer. . . Boy doesn't this next generation have a bright future up ahead of itself? "The more things change, the more they stay the same." We don't fix problmes, we duct em' in this society. . .

Agree or disagree?

2007-10-11 15:09:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If she went from 130 when you married to 290 after having your baby. Would you treat her different? Would you stop sleeping with her?

2007-10-11 15:08:20 · 25 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a job at the state fair that is here for 2 weeks just for a temporary thing since i never had a job before. my bf said no he wants to take care of me and really dosent want me working at the fair and he said so many things happen at the fair (like shootings) and he dosent want me there

I just want a job to see how i like it.

he is only my bf and not my husband. I do plan on spending the rest of my life with him but things dont always work that way so i need to experiance work. But he says just concentrate on school right now and he will buy me what i need.

2007-10-11 15:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by bitemenow90210 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 14:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by nick c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

though i dont have any girl friend. I dont know whether she is making fun of me or.........

2007-10-11 14:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sunny K 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some spiritual upbuilding.
There are times, that I am angry for my daughter,
"leaving her child w/ me."
My life, is not my life anymore (per se);
I don't get to be grandma.
Plz steer me to Scriptures, that can help me;
1~ quell the emotion. 2~find solace, in what my life is now.
This emotion, is far from me; most of the time.
I am sick; I have some serious health issues.
I am tired; I have not had a day, let alone 6 hours w/out the beautiful baby by my side; in more than 6 mos.
Please help me to find Peace.
I will most likely, be keeping the child for years to come.

2007-10-11 14:56:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends