Its very hard for me to trust people and tell them my secrets and my friends want to know my secrets and stuff i dont know if i should we have been friends for a long time what should ido
2007-10-11 15:24:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should wait until you know someone long enough to confied in them. There are friends, and there are special friends - if you think all you have is friends and not that special person you can talk to, then you need to keep your secrets to yourself until you can really trust a good friend.
You shouldn't be so trusting...there are lots of people out there that will tell you they are your friends...and a lot those will just come and go. So it's ok not to be so trusting.
No one can really answer this question, it's something you are going to have to work on...and with that, it's just going to have to be getting to know someone.
Good Luck sweetie!
2007-10-11 15:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to tell your secrets if you're not comfortable--no matter how long you've been friends. Your friends don't need to know every aspect of your life, in fact it's probably better that they don't. If you are just very untrusting, your friends should respect that and not pressure you to give up info.
2007-10-11 22:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a bad thing to keep things to yourself thats the way I am. I mean its alays good to have someone to talk to but don't ever trust someone too much most people are hypocrites and back stabbers go with your gut on who to trust!
2007-10-11 22:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by what? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking wether u trust them or not then you probably dont. Tell them if you want to but if you doubt them then u guys havent built a strong enuff trust
2007-10-13 12:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋