2007-10-11 15:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Horton, There was a topic on Yahoo's homepage telling about that. I brought it up and saved it. If you can't find it & would like/need it, email me and I'll send it to you. Good luck!!!
2007-10-11 15:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by "Johns" 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess because I am not finding anyone, but I am young and hopeful and realistic that he won't be rich or famous or a prince.
But he has to have a job (I have to feel secure), he has to be attractive and loving, not a cheater, drug addict, smoker, and other obvious undesirable traits.
He has to love animals, especially cats.
One thing I probably need to move on from is liking policemen and firemen. I prefer these guys over others and is not ideal (dangerous jobs, and not all cops and firemen are good), but I am hopeful.
2007-10-11 15:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by sea228793 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bar SHOULD be set high. Otherwise you're going to be terribly disappointed. Set it high, people!
2007-10-11 15:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Why? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt set the bar too high..because what if you find an awesome person that might not be exactly what your looking for?
2007-10-11 15:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are the five types of love: ludus, storge, mania, pragma and eros
if you refer to the physical type of love: was not present for me until after we were engaged
if you refer to the unconditional love: either it is unconditional or not, for me, it was unconditional - this type of love is a CHOICE.
I CHOSE to love my husband.
I do not think it is possible to set the bar too high...I set mine VERY high...with very detailed specifications. I waited, then one day he showed up without my knowing he was the one...three weeks after we met (through friends who met on a dating site), he asked me publicly to marry him - it is working out wonderfully.
set your bars as high as you can be patient!!! very worth it
2007-10-11 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_r_wilkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes I am. That is why I am still single. It can't be helped. I think I am too much of a die hard romantic and I read too many books/watch too many movies and my expectations are unrealistically high.
Oh well. Better than the alternative.
2007-10-11 15:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by imyewneek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am too. My problem is I know exactly what I wanted in terms of physical looks and personality traits. That's why it's hard for me to fall in love, so I only do casual dating nowadays....
2007-10-11 15:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by flygoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i am, but i also think that if you're gonna dream, you might a well dream big. but then again, love just happens, no one really has control over it
2007-10-11 15:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be, but it's weeded out a lot of drama queens and saved me time and sorrow..
2007-10-11 15:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by jeff k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no bar it yes or no. simple!
2007-10-11 15:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋