Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

me and my b/f are the cutiest cupple most everyone says but were so different i am 5' and hes 6'4 i sked him one day and he just said because. chh ( like that helps) so guys why do you like shorter girls?

2007-10-11 18:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a modest guy. I was raised to be humble and I find modesty to be a good thing. But I've also noticed women seem to never go for this kind of guy (as if being modest means you have no self-esteem). They always go after the overly-confident, cocky guys.

So ladies, if you were aware the guy you were with was modest (for example, will downplay a compliment, and never seek reward for his kindness), would you find that attractive, or would you want a guy who's assertive side is more visible?

2007-10-11 18:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Fun1 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl a out a few times the first times were on weekdays and she was to busy. I never actually planned times just tried to catch her when she was free. We never actually got to make plans. I dont rember why we never planned it just tried to catch each other. Finally we decided to do something on the weekend. We ended up not meeting up on that weekend because she never called back to clarify the time. I have not talked to her much since. it has been about 4 weeks do you think it is weird for me to try again or should i forget about it.

2007-10-11 18:22:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 18:21:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes, my guy lasts too long in bed. I know that alot of women complain that their men don't last long enough, but there is such a thing as "Lasting too long" if you know what I mean! After reaching towards the second hour, I'm beyond exhausted.

And most of the time, it doesn't matter how long he goes for. The orga-sm just isn't going to happen.

The funny thing is, I showed him a Cosmo Article where it talked about how we don't always need marathon s-e-x.

Afterwards, he shortened it dramatically, which I'm happy with. (Just as long as it's not 5 minutes and bang, all of the time...)

Why do men think that we want sex to go on forever? Sometimes, it's nice...but not every single time!

How many of you can relate? Any thoughts?

2007-10-11 18:21:35 · 21 answers · asked by darkening_hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we both loved each other, and theres something going on with us. our friendship turned into a secret relationship because we're both married. but most of the time i'm doubting her love to me, even though she always comfort me by saying how much she love me. how can i eliminate this doubt.

2007-10-11 18:20:18 · 5 answers · asked by Dey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-10-11 18:19:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Weddings

my husband is attending a national conference with his union.. please no jokes about him having an "affair". I feel jealous that he is having a good time with the connections he's building.. I know he is a very charming person and the reason he joined the conference is bec. he's having problems with his employer. I can hear from our conversation that he is very glad that he went and the quality of the people but I feel jealous that he is having so much fun... and that he is "hanging out" with them.. has anybody had this same emotion?

2007-10-11 18:18:13 · 20 answers · asked by havegadgetfear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 18:17:39 · 26 answers · asked by Maya N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is getting married in zambia and am in canada but have been told to wish them a happiness please

2007-10-11 18:16:43 · 5 answers · asked by frampe 1 in Family

2007-10-11 18:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is the story. I'm a manager at a big corporation. The problem is that I've always wanted my male staff who is now married to his ugly wife (btw is now pregnant) to go out with one of my best friends. Since I don't like his wife I pretty much don't care what happens to her or her baby. They can get hit by a bus for all I care. All I care about is what happens to my male staff and his future. I've been speaking to my best friend because she's really interested in Kevin. She doesn't care so much to what happens to his wife or child. What can I do to get rid of his wife and child? My father is the best lawyer in town. I'm thinking about asking him to represent me and threaten Kevin's wife of maybe leaving her husband. All she needs to tell her husband is that she doesn't love him anymore that she made a huge mistake in getting married to him. As for the growing child I'm going to threaten her to have an abortion or else she got hell to pay.

2007-10-11 18:16:12 · 21 answers · asked by Queen_Bee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the background: we have been friends 10 months. we see each other once a week for an hour, we'refrom different schools, hardly have a chance to talk in class. he does stuff like, gaze at me in class, and when i catch him, looks away. he changes his bus route for mine.

talks v easily to girls but mumbles alot to me and doesn't dare touch me as well. he made like he wanted my no on that bus trip but he kept his phone. when we're alone, he'd come up to me to talk, tell stories, jokes, and ask lots of stuff about me. if he's at the road junction and he knows i'm a distance behind, he'd turn right round to wave.if we don't talk, he just waves hi/bye, stuff like that.

he's still staring (up to a week ago) but when i texted him asking how is he. he takes like 2 days to reply.(i only text him once a month) he usually takes long, but not this long.he's usually like that ard exams. is he "giving up" or is it just exams? thanks

2007-10-11 18:14:09 · 4 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 18:12:33 · 36 answers · asked by shaq d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend and I want to kiss her. I'm in seventh grade. Am I old enough? If I am how do I know if she's ready to kiss?

2007-10-11 18:11:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married to the devil twice just with a different face the first one cheated and even brought the whore in my home when i was having surgery. The second one used me for a greencard he got it march 14th then left me may 14th mothers day then he joined the army and told me on a call home i don't need you anymore the army is taking care of my process now! i'm left with two beautiful daughters from each i still have hope but i still feel like my guts have been ripped out of me by a lion when i think about these two men both hurt me i even think the second was worst because he did EVERYTHING he could do besides cheating name calling abuse ect and he very well could be cheating now that he has been gone. any advice help I'm spiritual and rely on God alot but i still have bad days especially not knowing what my future could be from here all this aftermath i'm living in.

2007-10-11 18:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a freshmen in college, and I had to go home for my schools big yearbook thing were all the graduated seniors come back home and get their yearbook and have it signed my everyone. During this whole signing business, I ran into the girl whom I have liked since the freshmen year of high school. I know she liked me but I only found that out the last few months of the year, but anyways, she wrote in mine that she still has a crush on me, and Then she gave me her phone number and wrote to call her anytime. HELP ME! We both go to college 7 hours away from each other. And I know that she is just far to popular for me. I mean she was in the homecoming court. And well, I really not that popular. Should I even try to start a relationship with her. And sorry for making you read my whole crap story. I jsut don't know what to do : (

2007-10-11 18:06:55 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.Blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 18:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by magpie 6 in Family

My in-laws are living with us, with 2 siblings, including father inlaw,. my husband is too kind to keep them. We are stl childless but trying to have one soon. My inlaws are getting into my nerves, they dnt help inside my house and they only cook food for themselves! how can i say it to my husband that he wouldnt be hurt? also i want them to leave our house and find their own place. How can i tell my husband to do it? they are being so comfortable and even breaking our house rules posted? please help me, housewives out there. Thanks.

2007-10-11 18:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well i got a bad grade in a couple of my classes which seriously effected my entire grade because of my presentation. Now, it wasn't the work that neccessarily destoryed it... but my stutter. I don't know why it still continues. The people i see in all my classes everyday i have known for 3 years. Whenever i get up infront of people or simply read aloud infront of people i stutter, or i sound like i choke. I'm a sophmore, and i'm very afraid of failing speech and other classes that require me getting up and speaking infront of my peers. I can't randomly switch into a drama class that will help improve my speech, i already have a set schedule and i need the classes i'm taking. Staying after school isn't really an option either, the only time i stay after is to finish up or make up work.

Isn't there another way to fight the stutter and how do i come up with a good enough excuse to us against my bad grade and prevent grounding?

2007-10-11 18:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-11 18:03:09 · 18 answers · asked by Daniel L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to fine the best lawyer with the most child custody cases won.

2007-10-11 18:02:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy send me text messages,one day he is interested in me and the next day he is not,so i dont know if he is that inmature or what,in our first date he was nervous ,im crazy about him...should i ignore him .??

2007-10-11 18:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have this little problem, it seems when I have sex I take a bit of time to blow my load. I have actaully only orgasmed a few times, most of the time I just go and go until the girl oragsms, or gets tired, or I get cramps. One of my friends said it is not a bad problem to have, some girls actaully would like that I cant go off earlier. I am just wondering why it takes so long for me to go off, is there any way I can make it shorter?
Any advice would be helpful...thanks

2007-10-11 18:01:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pouring rain...what do you do?

it's a riddle.

:-)

2007-10-11 18:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been together for 4 years, married for 3 months. Guess I knew what I was getting into. We're the best of friends, but our communication sucks when there is a problem. I usually don't discuss any issues I have with him because he gets defensive and I hate fighting. I feel like giving up sometimes. I try to talk about it with him and the next hour or day he just pretends like it never happended....never bring it up again, acts like everything is fine.
I'm losing my mind.
Please help!

2007-10-11 17:59:37 · 22 answers · asked by Krn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, today a male gay co worker said he got a text during work and it was from someone at work. I am assuming the guy I dated because he would normally tell me these things. So, it said and I am not sure what it means, something about if Uncle Jack couldn't jump off the roof, could you help Jack off? Is this a gay flirtation? Am I totally oblivious to all that is going on? He showed me the text but covered up his name, almost *****-like, like he liked the guy I dated as well. OMG! I feel now like I am on gay territory? Is this a gay flirtation? Thanks, signed stupid *** co-worker who DID use protection. Is he Gay??? Bi????

2007-10-11 17:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jinx 5 in Singles & Dating

are looks everything? are you beautiful... and dumb as a box of rocks?
id date someone super dumb cause they are entertaining and hot as heck what about you?

2007-10-11 17:58:52 · 33 answers · asked by Mase 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do i love them both i'm trying to find out why but it hurts me thinking about it and its hurting me in school

2007-10-11 17:56:52 · 16 answers · asked by cothulu11312 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married...it didn't work out! While i was living with my ex I got pregnant from another man! (Yes my ex knows the kid is not his! However when I approached the father of my son (this was 6 years ago) he took one look at my son and said "I have the dominate gene...This kid is not mine" Which is fine... My ex has treated this boy like one of his own. (We have a son together who is 8). However the the other guy of son #2 has a niec that died of a rare canser. Should I have a paternity test to reaffirm my belief so that I can get the right kind of medical history for my son? I am happy with the ways things are with my ex and my 2 boys! But I don't want to put son # 2 at risk for my push-over-ness! Does any one have suggestions on the proper and most polite way to handle this?

2007-10-11 17:56:35 · 15 answers · asked by dragonfly 3 in Marriage & Divorce