Hating your in-laws too?

Question

My in-laws are living with us, with 2 siblings, including father inlaw,. my husband is too kind to keep them. We are stl childless but trying to have one soon. My inlaws are getting into my nerves, they dnt help inside my house and they only cook food for themselves! how can i say it to my husband that he wouldnt be hurt? also i want them to leave our house and find their own place. How can i tell my husband to do it? they are being so comfortable and even breaking our house rules posted? please help me, housewives out there. Thanks.

They dont have a plan to leave our house. Everything is free for them, in our expense.bills and rent. I want them to leave, but my prob is my husband, Ive mentioned it to him couple of times and he will just say, just be nice. but they are not nice to me!! how could i be? Give me ideas how to convince my husband, i love him so much and i dnt want this things be th start of our fights.. please help

Answer 1

I would make it a point NOT to bring a baby into that environment. You need to draw the line. This house is your territory and you need to take it back!
Hubby needs to set a firm move-out date for his relatives or risk losing his marriage. If he cannot stand up to them, you cannot expect things to improve. I would not call that a marriage.

Have hubby start scoping out places for them to move to... even put down a deposit if he has to.
If you rent, you can ask for assistance from the landlords to evict these freeloaders, since they are not on the lease. If you own the house, you can go to the county courthouse and file an eviction notice.

Answer 2

This is a situation that is the very definition of a disaster.
I have never heard of a situation like yours that EVER worked out in the long-run, so it would be unreasonable of your husband to expect it to work this time.
Tell your husband that when you married him your expectations of a home with him, was a home with HIM. Not him, & his entire family.
That means that they were never part of the deal, so he's breaking the deal RIGHT NOW!
His family look to him for guidance, so you can post all the rules you want, but if he doesn't get behind you on it, then his family won't pay any attention. But who cares about that anyway. If it were me, I would invite the bunch of them to check into the nearest hotel (or even the most distant one) TONIGHT! And if hubby doesn't like that then HE can go with them.
The only good kind of in-law is the kind that knows where their home is, & IT ISN'T MINE!
GET IT?

Answer 3

You need to tell your husband how you feel because the longer you hold it in it's going to eat u up inside. Then before you know it, your going to have bitter feelings towards your in-laws. Your husband may get upset or hurt, but trust he'll get over it.