I asked a girl a out a few times the first times were on weekdays and she was to busy. I never actually planned times just tried to catch her when she was free. We never actually got to make plans. I dont rember why we never planned it just tried to catch each other. Finally we decided to do something on the weekend. We ended up not meeting up on that weekend because she never called back to clarify the time. I have not talked to her much since. it has been about 4 weeks do you think it is weird for me to try again or should i forget about it.
2007-10-11 18:22:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude!!! She might have been waiting FOR YOU TO CALL to clarify the time!!! Go ahead, call her up! If you don't do it now, you'll always ask yourself if things would've been different had you picked up that phone and called! You're the guy, take the initiative man.
2007-10-11 18:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 how do i get the confidence to ask her out and not be a chicken If it can help you, practice a little in front of mirror, if it don't make change, do it directly, you feel less shy about it. #2 Should we go to the movies or somewhere elce? i don't drive so would we both just meet there? and should it be at night or day? Personnaly, I will say to go to restaurent and cinema after (or vice-versa), like in the end of day, in the start of night. It is always better ;) #3 What do i say to her when im asking her out? Well, that is your choice, guy. I am a girl and I absolutly dunno how boy should ask it. Probably asking if she do something in the weekend and the like... #4 Are we bf and gf if she sase yes and goes with me? or how dose that work? Not necessary, you must wait a little, discuss frequently with her, and she will finish to know what you really expect. If she don't, well, go ahead and ask her by yourself. #5 add other stuff i need to know ty To be optimist and look sure of you will improve your chance.
2016-05-22 00:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by noemi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her one more time, but this time have everything planned in advance. Tell her something like this. I would like to have dinner with you at 7pm on Friday. If she says that the time is bad, pin her dow to another time right then and there. If she does not commit to a time, tell her you need to know in order to plan your day. If she still does not commit to a time, she is probably not interested. Just tell her to call you if she ever has time to get together, and never call her again!!
By the way, dont call last minute. Call at least a few days to a week ahead of time.
2007-10-11 18:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See her in person and ask about the strange events that prevent the two of you from going out. See if she actually wants to go out and then make a positive date. Don't feel bad if she refuses. She may only want to be friends and could be giving excuses for fear of becoming serious. It can happen.
2007-10-11 18:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and don't waste your time on someone who is just not that into you. It's your precious time, if she was interrested, you would have been out already. There is this fabulous book called "He's just not that into you"... I know I know, you're not a girl, but it's the same concept. You are worth going out with, so why not move on to someone who wants to go out with you? It's that simple. Someone who is interrested will never be too "busy" to make plans with you. I promise she had time to call.
Move on, and stop wasting time. =)
2007-10-11 18:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it's a long shot. I say ask her again, very nonchalantly. It won't hurt to try, if she says no, then no it is then! move on! Approach it with this kind of attitude, like she is not the only girl out there. Treat her that way.
2007-10-11 18:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by larry_tsuei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and forget about it..Move on..See another girl, and then if she try to make plans with you confirm that day, with a meeting point and everything.
2007-10-11 18:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would talk to her for a bit before you ask her out again.
Kind of check out the vibes she is putting out, like is she really interested or what while you are talking.
It kind of sounds like she is just not that interested, but who knows, give it a shot.
2007-10-11 18:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably forget about it. If she really wanted to go out with you she would have made time. Focus on someone else who can appreciate you for what you are.
2007-10-11 18:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Frosty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she agreed once, count on her wanting to agree again. she's probably really missing you. so give her a ring. :) beside, if you look at it clearly, you already aren't with her, so if she says no, you aren't losing anything. :) so yeah, i'd go for it. tell her you know a nice coffee place and chill for 20 minutes. but have something planned and give her flowers, i never feel more special then when my guy gives me flowers. :) good luck and God bless!!
2007-10-11 18:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋