Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

2007-10-11 19:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by Guadalupe C 1 in Singles & Dating

when a married man finds out his wife has been cheating on him and they ave children . he dont neglect his children . in no way but his wife was having a sexual affair .and he dont treat her the same as before i understand why this man i know but his wife .. i would never had belived this my no means was cheating on him with a younger male who was young enought to be her son. they have.4. children. is he justifed in your eyes i would say he was but i would rather other.s with there own opipion .s speak thank. s to everyone ...

2007-10-11 19:20:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I started talking to this guy that i used to like & we tried dating a few months ago but somehow things just didnt work out. We've been talking alot & he told me that he never really stopped liking me & I never stopped liking him either. We're not really dating right now but we both like eachother & we're just going to hang out & see how things go from there. My best friend hates him & she thinks he's a player. I can never talk to her about him cuz she just rolls her eyes at me & tells me how dumb i am for believing everything he says. I thought maybe she was just being that way because she has never had a boyfriend & she's jealous of me cuz every guy that she ever liked has liked me...but thats not my fault cuz i would never steal a guy away from her. She just cant be happy for me and I dont understand why cuz the guys that she has tried to hook up with were total jerks & she still likes them. I'm sick of her & all my other friends telling me who i should like! What do I do??

2007-10-11 19:20:53 · 18 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 19:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 19:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by rajeev r 1 in Singles & Dating

The other night we were talking about us. She said "i just dont know waht i want and stuff, and i sure dont want to hurt you or anything so i dont want to lead things in a direction that would hurt you" Tonight i told her that i was not trying to pressure her into anything the other night, and that if and when she wanted i would be there, and no matter what she is and always will be my best friend. She responded with "i dont want you to wait on me at all id never ask that of anyone bc like i told u im not sure what i want or anything so i dont want anyone waiting on me bc i dont know what i want". What I want to know is should I wait or should I forget it and just be her friend?

2007-10-11 19:16:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Name is Rob, Im 5'4 and a sophomore at high school and i noticed that i really need to think about a relationship. I however am the farthest thing from some girls think is "hot". I however am one of the sweetest guys someone can meet and i will always put my girl as my top priority,i also treat them much better than what i see my friends do with their girls. Here are some of my issues that i need working out

1st, im overweight and i believe thats a major turnoff im trying to lose it and im down 20 pounds already.
2nd. Im the guy all girls love to be friends with but would never go out with. HOw do i change this?
3rd.I talk with girls alot and most consider me "sweet" but thats the most i get. I have no problem talking to girls and i even help out with their problems, but when its time to start talking to a girl i like about that subject i completely shut down.
4th. i have a fear of rejection even though i never have been rejected.

Someone please give me advice. Ty

2007-10-11 19:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so that he would never think or have seconds thoughts to cheat on me?

2007-10-11 19:05:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 19:03:58 · 3 answers · asked by vinod a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has brown hair, olive green eyes and is in my class.

2007-10-11 19:01:27 · 9 answers · asked by Jayden R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

plz help me

2007-10-11 19:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by rock_s207 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and we don't get to see each other a lot because we live kinda away from each other, we get to see one another at least once a week (sometimes more if we're lucky) and we get on IM every night but sometimes I feel like i'm the one putting in all the effort in this relationship! I feel like I talk a lot and he says one or two words. He used to really talk to me but now it's just simple words and he takes a long time (sometimes an hour) to respond. I don't want to hurt his feelings, I hate pushing things onto him because I don't want to be selfish or hurt him, but how can I get him to open up more to me? Should I keep talking like I do, talk more like he does, or ignore him more? Thanx!

2007-10-11 18:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

so if you've read my previous questios u'll know there's this guy who there's been all this drama with. well at my schools homecoming i went kind of crazy. i tried to dance with him and he preteded i wasn't there. so then when he walked off the dance floor i followed him and said "If you want me to f*** of then just tell me." and he said "i didn't even know you were there." i said "yes you did you're just choosing to ignore me." then he stomped off all pissy. on monday i gave him a note saying "i'm sorry i blew up at you at homecoming. i was just really stressed and i took it out on you instead of talking calmly. If its possible i hope we can still be friends." now its been a week and... nothing. what should i do?

2007-10-11 18:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by iluvb'way 2 in Singles & Dating

well i've been married for seven years i love my hubby and he admited to me that he still has feelings for his first ex gf but that he still loves me but that he's not going to stop talking to her and the worse thing is that we went to a wedding with his family and he introduce me to her and i was talking to her almost the whole night without knowing she was the ex but i realize because the whole night they kept looking at each other and the worse thing is that she is so ugly and fat but he said that she is always there to talk to him when ever he needs it especially when i was gone because i use to be an exotic dancer but i quit to have a marriage with him and he tells me this and so heart broken don't know if i should go back to dancing or deal with it he said that my job didn't bother him but then why did he go to her when he had me and all his friends tell me how hot i am but i don't get why? plzzzzzzzz someone with a honest advice

2007-10-11 18:54:58 · 14 answers · asked by hey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to my crush's job wed night to work out and he seen me and was smileing from ear to ear the whole night. And coming up to me and touching me on my shoulder and jokeing around with me. Well after class ended I went to the woman's locker room and changed and was on my way out the door when he stopped me and was like " when did you get here?" smileing and laughing and I looked at him like he was crazy then I figured out he was teaseing me and went along with it. Every time he sees me he smiles from ear to ear and is always asking me to start comeing to that gym where he's at and is all the time teaseing me could this mean he is interested in me and likes me?

2007-10-11 18:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by sweetbutshyangel 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been thinking about transferring for my spring freshmen semester, because I don't like my current school. Now a girl that I met a year ago, is telling me I should transfer to her school, and now I am deff thinking about it. My scholarship would transfer, so i would be in the same situation money wise, but at the same time I realize that the biggest reason for transferring to her school would be because of her. (I was thinking of transferring b4 this situation)

2007-10-11 18:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend cheated on me (Iv'e heard of 4 different times from my BF's) and i broke up with her,but her boyfriend (the one she cheated on) wants to fight me ~( I told him about her cheating)~ cause i treated her bad `( I wouldn't talk to her and when she came up to me i told her to F off or get awayand leave me alone or I just ignored her pretended like she wasn't there...I didn't want anything to do with her).....Now he wants to fight, but I don't...I don't want to stand up for her or anything....i just want nothing to do with her like she was a mistake and sometimes i wanna feel like it never happened...What should i do cause i live in a small town and he doesn't leave me alone...PLZ tell me what to do i will really aprrecaite it....

2007-10-11 18:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by I wanna go fast kid 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 18:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i am getting married a yr from may although i am already well into my planning. i am beginning to book things such as the caterer and photographer etc. some ppl think that this is ridiculously early to began the planning. am i jumping the gun? im not buying dresses or anything like that. i have the dresses picked and we have tried them to b sure they r what i want but i dont want to buy them until a little closer the wedding. mayb about 6 months before. even as far as the cake we havent put the order in exactly weve discussed w/ r baker what we want how it should look and such adn in a few months here she will do a mini replica for us to b sure its how we envision it. i always thought u were suppose to start early. am i wrong?!

2007-10-11 18:46:49 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Weddings

there is this guy I like but he is 4 years older. what should I do?

2007-10-11 18:46:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 18:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By that I mean, how long does it take for that feeling of euphoria, you know the one I mean, to disappear? How long did it take for that rush of endorphins to disappear after you got married? You know, that feeling you had when you were first dating your future spouse, and every day you'd wake up thinking about them, and get a rapid heartbeat when you were finally around them that day, and you'd go to bed without a care in the world, smiling. And if you didn't wait forever (like five-ten years) to get married, it was still there right up until you got married. How long after that did it go away, and transform into a downtrodden complacency? "I'm tired".

The reason I ask is this: All the advice I see on here for couples on the brink is "maybe you need to get away", "schedule some time off for yourselves" or similar. When you were first dating, you didn't need that, because that was every day. Are we humans not meant to be monogamous? Does it downtrod our psyche's?

2007-10-11 18:45:53 · 19 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 18:44:00 · 20 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6 in Friends

2007-10-11 18:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by sunsetst 2 in Singles & Dating

Help, I cant get this guy out of my head. I am married and I thought happily, until this happened. I am pretty sure he is also married. what can I do??

2007-10-11 18:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean if it's your first time and it's not his how is that special? I mean you've saved yourself for someone who truly loves you but he's already given that part of himself away.

2007-10-11 18:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

6 Months ago I found out that my wife was having an affair. It took me 4 months to find out who he was. My wife told me that if I have any contact with him or his wife that she will leave me. So here is the question. Do I tell His wife or not ?

2007-10-11 18:39:58 · 31 answers · asked by Papa's Q 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 23 now but when i was younger i took girls to prom , homecoming,balls for jrotc .but they always seem have problems like miss their ex boyfriends,
sad when with me.or say they just wanna be friends.the same thing happens now. i really scared i might get my feeling hurt again and again over and over no what i do. is just me or what. why ?im shy bit of a loner and dont much talk to girls.

2007-10-11 18:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by truedragon1984 1 in Singles & Dating

i've looked, i still cant find just a nice innocent girl, its worrying me that time goes by and maybe there just arent any left? or here at least?

2007-10-11 18:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a virgin and I think sex should be shared between two people who love each other. I would only share this with someone I love and someone who loves me back. He however has had two partners, never been in love, which he cared about. So he believes it should be shared between people who care about each other. To me there is a huge difference between caring about someone and loving them.

2007-10-11 18:33:29 · 27 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating