I have been thinking about transferring for my spring freshmen semester, because I don't like my current school. Now a girl that I met a year ago, is telling me I should transfer to her school, and now I am deff thinking about it. My scholarship would transfer, so i would be in the same situation money wise, but at the same time I realize that the biggest reason for transferring to her school would be because of her. (I was thinking of transferring b4 this situation)
2007-10-11 18:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you would be thinking "dumb" to factor the female equation into your decision.
Instead, go with your common sense and logically choose which school would be suited for your educational needs.
The Girl?
She won't be around forever; your education will remain for life.
2007-10-11 18:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Living In Korea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
School is number one priority - and needs to stay that way until you have that beautiful degree in your hands. This girl you mentioned suddenly is interested and it has been a year? I would find that disturbing. If you do decide to transfer to the same school as her, make SURE she knows it was for the SCHOOL, NOT because of her. Being her FRIEND would be great - jumping to a new school AND in to a relationship is not the best idea - keep your head in your BOOKS.
2007-10-12 02:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to look into the situation more. Look at the school, look at the area (with OUT a bias). Because if you transfer there for her and u guys end up breaking up or whatever ... and you end up HATING it there then you are f'ed. So look into it more and make sure your deciding reason isnt because of a girl.
2007-10-12 01:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by hott_spiced_wine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that the school offers what you need before jumping into that situation. Aso remember that you will be tied to this girl if you do that. If you are not looking for a permanent relationship, make it clear to her before you move to that school, or she may get the wrong impression. Your future career should be first on your mind right now!!
2007-10-12 02:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make the decision (of choosing the right school) based on what would be good for your education and not because of some girl...look for a school that would offer you the best curriculum and the best opportunities....you may like this girl and things may work out for awhile...but after the relationship sours, what becomes of you??? you will still meet other people no matter what school you choose...so go for a school that would be good for you academically...
2007-10-12 02:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by geisha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. There are plenty of people and other girls where you are now. One of my best friends turned down an Ivy League school and went to a state school with his gf. Now they're broken up and what the **** is he left with?? Not worth it at all.
2007-10-12 01:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i would prefer the girl i would be dating to go to a different school. seeing her everyday and trying to balance friends may not be best thing. but try to do what you truly want to do without influence. in the long run it will be a decision you have to live with.
2007-10-12 02:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut but not for a girl.
2007-10-12 01:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Water 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋