plz help me
2007-10-11 19:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by rock_s207 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
its nice that u love her and miss her. but don't call or visit to her home because now she is in new atmosphere and she have to settle down there with some adjustments. your care can attract her toward your family which can create problems for her new family. if u want to show your love just stand beside her whenever she need, don't interfere in her new life. your show of love can make her to love you, not her new family.
2007-10-13 03:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you miss your sister. Is she far away? Maybe you can spend time with her and your brother in law too. If not, maybe you can call her, or IM/email or write to her, or send her little gifts, to let her know you are thinking of her and keep in touch with each other. Remember she is probably happy being married and still loves you a lot, and you are lucky to have such a good sister (lots of people do not have this). It is part of life that this happens, but I think try to make the most of it and keep in touch however you can. Also the answer about the nieces and nephews could be right too. Good luck with it.
2007-10-11 23:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question. Are you saying your sister got married and you miss her? If that is your question, I'm really sorry your having a tough time dealing with her living with her new husband instead of at home with you. Maybe you two could meet for lunch or have a day out together or something. God Bless!!!
2007-10-11 19:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by beachcutie03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im glad you have a good relationship with your sister...but her becoming married should not really change things between the two of you...not that much anyway...you can still call her up, ask her to go out with you, or you can visit her house and help her with her chores...and if the nieces and nephews come, you can be a great uncle for them...marriage is not the end of relationships but the start of new ones...the number of people who loves you and cares for you doesn't decrease but rather increases...
2007-10-11 19:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so nice that you have a good relationship with your sister. I don't really know what you could do... but yeah, just because she's married, it doesn't necissarily mean that you can never see her again, does it? You can write her letters, send e-mails postcards, whatever. I'm sure your sister will be pleased to know that she has family at her home who miss her, and still support her.
: ) Good luck!
2007-10-11 21:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you miss her a lot but you see however far we are on this planet, we'll always have the means to get in touch with one another! So you can phone her to see if she's doin well...but do not do it everyday coz sure you still have your place in her life but she has a brand new life ahead...Be courageous,it's just for a time,then you'll get used to it.i assure you 'coz me too have a sis whom i was very attached to and who's got married...now it's just fine!
2007-10-15 04:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by (-_-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in touch by calling a maybe planning a lunch together sometimes.
2007-10-11 19:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother recently got married,we are very close. the realationship changes when you accept this it will be easier. I miss my brother very much but his wife comes first.I don't want her to feel she has to compete with me for his attention,I also know how she feels ,I am also married.
2007-10-11 19:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by keke T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my sister would get married!
2007-10-11 19:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very good brother acha naseeb wala ho good brothers sisters everybody don't get in this world i will tell one females are far better than men to keep relationship going
2007-10-12 03:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋