this guy send me text messages,one day he is interested in me and the next day he is not,so i dont know if he is that inmature or what,in our first date he was nervous ,im crazy about him...should i ignore him .??
2007-10-11 18:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have beed dating him for a week that's why i dont know what happened,maybe im pushing so much..im gonna take it real slow.. thanx for your answers..
2007-10-11 18:24:34 · update #1
you shouldn't necessarily ignore him, but you shouldn't put forth any more effort. Once this guy realizes that you are better than the immature games that he is playing, he will come running back to you. There's no need to put yourself through a situation like this. You want a guy that's going to be sure of the feelings he has for you. No offense, but this guy sounds like a punk. You diserve better than that. Now on a nicer note, he may just be confused and a little bit scared cuz he realizes that he has feelings for you. Do you know if he has any relationships in the past? If he does approach you, ask him what's the deal. Does he like you or not? I'm sure you have more important things to do with your time than to be playing cat and mouse. He either wants you or he doesn't. That's not something that should change in one quick second. Good Luck!
2007-10-11 18:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nic Nac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relations cannot be maintained through text messages.You have to meet and personal contact is essential for any relationship.
2007-10-12 01:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be the type of guy who goes "I think I seemed to interested(desperate) tomorrow I'm going to show lack of interest!"
It's an immature thing.
2007-10-12 01:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and ask him what is the deal if he is immature and you ignore him then you are acting just as immature as he is, but he is propably just shy.
2007-10-12 01:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by BWife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up and talk to each other. communication is essential to a relationship. you need to talk to your BF and clear the air. mixed signals kill a relationship.
2007-10-12 01:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by mishle 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ohh good grief indecision , go for it and if it don't work then on to the next one!!
2007-10-12 01:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew1968 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how well do you actually know this guy to "be crazy about him"
2007-10-12 01:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it
2007-10-12 01:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by cothulu11312 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋