I had been dating this really nice and sweet guy for about 2 months everything was going great than he just out of no where dumps me...i was so shocked..does anyone know things i could do to get him back or make him jealous?..../..things i could do to heal?
2007-10-11 15:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The issue could be with him. Did he give you a reason or anything? Being that I don't really know the whole story, you could ask yourself if you really thought this guy was right for you and if so, why? What did he have that made him so right?
The best thing you can do now is let yourself grieve, maybe have a little pity party, get it all out. Then, pick yourself up, and start going out again. Date!!! The best revenge is success. If you and he are meant to be together, he'll be back. If not, you'll go on to find someone even better.
Good luck!
2007-10-11 15:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad enough when a relationship ends, it is worse when you don't know why. Your heart is broken,you are in pain and you are shocked.However I would advise you to move on with your life rather than to try to make him jealous or try to get him to come back.You are fortunate that you have not dated for long(2 months)when he pulled this stunt without any consideration for your feelings.Be grateful that it wasn't worse such as being together for much longer or having children.You are fortunate he showed his true colors early before you had really invested a lot more emotion, energy, time,and maybe money.Right around the corner is a good guy for you; waiting for you to give him a chance to show you that he is the real deal.I wish you all the best.
2007-10-11 22:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna get even, you'll never get ahead.
FORget the guy(easier said than done) but talk to a good friend who you can vent to and just cry your eyes out. it really is good for your body and you'll feel much better.
to move on, keep yourself busy, show him that you're better off without him and that he made a big mistake dumping you.
-read books
-volunteer
-exercise
-go out with friends
-treat yourself out,
color your hair, manicure, pedicure, spa,
and you'll see that youre too good for him
remember the best revenge is success.
find a better looking guy and show him off! im jk!
but good luck!
2007-10-11 22:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice?
one night eat a pint of ben and jerrys watching chick flicks
the next have a girls night out and just move on, life will go on
and you will meet someone new so just take one thing at a time for now, it will take time to get over him but eventually you will but the sooner the better because every moment spent sulking over him is a moment of your life wasted thinking of him and he doesnt deserve that kind of attention.
2007-10-11 22:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to make him jelious cause sooner or later it will bite you in the butt.It will eventually come back at him and he will get what he diserves.Don't worry time heals all wounds.
2007-10-11 22:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you back he will comeback on his own.I know it hurts like hell.The best way to heal is spend time going out with friends.
2007-10-11 22:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time...It just takes time. But enjoy your singleness. Take time to learn from the situation and it will help make new choices in who you date.
2007-10-11 22:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONTT try to make him jealous....seriously i kno this girl who did that and its nothing but petty and wont make him want you back.....maybe it will....but he wont respect you......
just be the person he likes that you are and enjoy being single.....sometimes its fun.....hang out with your friends and be carefree
2007-10-11 22:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forget about him and move on!! here my email address if u want to get to know a great guy!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-10-11 22:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋