I have a bf,divorced American guy, 38, business owner, travels very often.We dated 11 mos already. I am Asian, 28 still on the process of my divorce, have 6 yr old boy.
He is very nice and did a lot of sacrifices for me. Many instances that i pushed him & tried to fight with him coz we seldom dont see each other.. but he dont let me go.
There were times we spend together and had so much fun, & all of a sudden he open an issue w/c is about my divorce, asked me when it will be finalize.We dont say we love each other, but Im falling for him. Trying hard to control my feelings coz were both aware that I have to settle all the things goin on with my life.
I found him from dating website, what I did is I pretend to be another girl so I made 2 different profile and message him and he replied,makes me disappointed now. I want to confront him inregards to this but Im not sure if its okay.Do i have to just ignore what i found out & use him (for him being nice)? Or will end our communication?
2007-10-11 13:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by princessqueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find out if you can trust him before getting more serious with him. Send him something from a made up profile and see if he responds. If he does then leave. You cannot trust him. If he does this now imagine how it will be later?.
2007-10-11 13:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anna H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why why why? Why would you do that double profile thing? I think that he'll be just as hurt that you tried to deceive him like that. If you guys haven't said that you love each other, then doesn't he have every right to be looking around?
Besides, it sounds like he really wants to be with you but you keep holding back your feelings. If you're holding back your feelings, then yeah, maybe he's looking around for someone who can give him what he needs.
2007-10-11 13:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the deal, he isn't that into you, and he still wants to looky and have sexy with lots of women. If you doubt this, your not too bright. I would spend 2 years single, and begin to be ok alone. Also join a religion and get a sturdy Christian. Please for the sake of your son do not fly into relationships. This guy you met is a regular player and for them its regular behavior,(I wouldn't mention it) Do not use him, try to be a normal gal and just play it straight--however!
2007-10-11 13:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think about using someone just because someone commited something to you. Remember that everything that we do will echo our eternity.
Try to confront him, and ask him about what you did(pretending to be another girl) and see what he will do.
Please keep in mind that if the person truly loves you then that person will always be there for you.
2007-10-11 13:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by ezkimo23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice
2007-10-11 13:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by peace and love :)!!! ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋