I really like this guy. But he likes my best friend. He found out that I liked him, and he said that he didnt like me back but luckily I lied and said that there was a misunderstanding and that I like someone else because I didn't wanna look bad in front of him and his friends. They believed me. Last night me, my friend, and him were doing 3 way. My friend had to go and it was me and him on the phone. He said that he might ask her out. I told him that she didn't like him like that (and it was true). I really like him a lot and I tried to get over him, but I like him too much that I can't. We've really liked another guy over the summer, but our friendship didn't end when he chose me so she liked someone else. Soo we dont really end our friendship over a guy because we end up liking someone else when the other gets the guy. After school she told me that she's starting to like the guy, but he told me not to tell her that he likes her. I like him more than anyone else. What should I do?
2007-10-11 13:49:54 · 26 answers · asked by renee. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that your friend has crabs.
2007-10-11 13:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by holymonx 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to let it go. Stop lying. And realize that you can't make people love you, or like you, or do anything they don't want to do. The only person you have control over is yourself. The sooner you blow off this infatuation; the sooner you can get on with your life.
Look at all the great guys your missing out on while your WASTING your time hoping for a guy who said he doesn't like you. WHY WOULD YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU?
I know that sounds cruel, but it's right. My saying is: "The next bus is in 10 minutes". If a relationship doesn't work out, hey guys or girls are like buses, the next one will be along soon.
Don't worry.
2007-10-11 20:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. you cannot force someone to have feeling for you. It only drops your self esteem even lower. Go about your business and let him & your friend get together or not. You do you and eventually there will be someone coming your way with hard feelings for you.
Maybe you just dont need a boyfriend right now-look at your life, maybe you need to work on yourself first before you even start anytime of romantic relationships.
God Bless, because I dont say Good Luck
I hope you find happiness & richness in your life!
2007-10-11 20:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by butterrum28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Be friendly. Tell him the truth.
You never know, he just might start to like you (;
But if there's nothing else you can do, you can't convince him to like you. ): Sorry to say, but if he's not going to ask you out, he's obviously missing out on something that could be very special, and you're going to have to move on.
But don't worry, you'll find someone soon (: And that someone will be more special than he could ever be unless you two do end up together.
Best of luck ((: <3
2007-10-11 20:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lament 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do Sweetie. He's made his feelings quite clear. You'll just have to take some time to get over him. Don't get involved in whatever's going on between them. They'll work it out. Just spend time with your friends and occupy yourself, and before you know it, you'll be over him and into someone else. Good luck.
2007-10-11 20:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the unfortunate part of life; love will always hurt. It's hard to understand, since you really like him, but you have to understand that if he likes her, so be it. I'm going through this situation also, and noticed, I'm only 14, i still have a full life ahead of me.
If you decide to stop liking him, you feel like you can't, but you just need to give it some time.
2007-10-11 20:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let them go out.
ive been EXACTLY in your shoes, and i tried everything to make him like me and not her and wow was it NOT worth it.
i couldve risked a friendship.
let them be.
if it doesnt happen, it doesnt happen.
never chase after a guy who doesnt like you and hes sure of it.
never be a homewrecker.
cos in the end, you'll end up looking pathetic.
go down gracefully.
you'll find someone for you
2007-10-11 20:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. dont go out with him. He really likes your friend and even if he liked you a little, if u ended up going out with him i think you bf would look at you differently. she may not tell you but in her mind she would b like, he was mines first. trust me jus let it go
2007-10-11 20:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up Honey, been in your shoes many times, and they never changed their minds and fancied me...........but my friend had a **** life and is now pushing up daisies and i've been married for 33 years, 3 kids, 1 grandson..go figger....
2007-10-11 20:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by chantal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Express to him what your feelings are but find out if your friend likes him back.
2007-10-11 20:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by sharon b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Propinquity.
Stay close. Stay casual but just always be there. Nothing overt, nothing obvious. Don't fret over it. Stay "aloof". Give it time he will come to you.
2007-10-11 20:55:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋