how would you keep the flame burning as the years roll by?
2007-10-11 17:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by alone am i 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love isn't fleeting, it is more than a feeling. But yeah after so many years being with the same person the attraction and intimacy may be different. How do you keep the passion alive is really up to the couple. Both have to be creative and find ways to make it exciting as the first day they met. Communication also plays a vital role in any relationship. You find out your partners wants, etc. and can act upon it.
2007-10-11 18:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication
2007-10-12 00:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The flame burning; you are just referring to the sexual component in your relationship.
I don't think you need the negligee, candles and wine.
~:~ Laughter ~:~
You need to be able to laugh together.
If your time together is punctuated with laughter you will both be happier.
Ergo, if you are happy together, the flame stays bright.
EDIT: of course I could be wrong.
2007-10-12 02:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been married for 13years, its not as exciting as it used to b, especially cos of fatigue with 4 kids,lol
we r sort of more like freinds sometimes, but now and then we have our intimate nights, but i guess the flame cant stay burning hot forever, mayb when our kids are older we will have more time together!, but im happy how we are, cos we get along great, just the passion isnt strong like it used to, xxxxxxxxxx sex is the last thing on my mind,lol
2007-10-12 02:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flatulence fans the flames so to speak...good for a laugh every now and then too.
2007-10-12 00:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by sippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never losing the initial googly eyed, flirtation. Everyone likes knowing they're wanted especially your long term sweetheart.
2007-10-12 01:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quality time for each other and always look for something new to do or explore together.
2007-10-12 00:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by two bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication. honesty. and trust.
2007-10-12 02:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋